S T M ( Single Teen Mummy & Mummy-to-be's )

[trashit]

Hello congrats im ellie, nearly 17 and nearly 30 weeks with a little boy I think its best to tell your mum, even if shes not supportive usually you might find she is now? And i started getting a little bump around 11 weeks but not obvious til 14-15 weeks.x

 

[Gracey&bump]

yeah theres a tiny difference but i just look abit bloated.
im really sorry cos im going to sound so dumb, but i have no idea about scans, tests or anything to do with pregnancy really. & that sounds so bad :/ but id appreciate any sort of help you can give me about everything really...

congratulations to you aswell
xx

 

[annawrigley]

i didnt show at all til 17 weeks and even then it wasnt obvious
dont be silly, you can ask us whatever you want we're not gonna think you sound dumb!
well if you havent already, what you need to do first of all is ring the doctors and make an appointment, go in and basically just tell them you are pregnant and they will arrange for you to see a midwife and sort everything out from there. they may do a pregnancy test to confirm and stuff!
oh and if you're in the UK which i think i saw you are then they dont tell your parents, its all confidential
but still would recommend telling your mum
xx

 

[Gracey&bump]

i will tell her, seen as by the sounds of it she'll be able to tell soon.
im sure im just worrying for nothing, i mean this babies definately happening so im sure she'll accept it.
its really good to have people to talk to about this that are going through the same thing.
i'll make sure i call the doctors tomorrow & let you know how everything goes.
thankyouuu
xxx

 

[annawrigley]

great glad youre getting stuff sorted
keep us posted xx

 

[EmziixBo0o]

hey, Emziiboo, we have a new STM chat thread in the pregnancy buddie area

whars tht please lmao x

 

[EmziixBo0o]

AHAA
17 WEEKS

woop
nearly half way girls..
nearlyy half wayy

so so sowwwiii ive been abondoning u all!
ive just been tryna sort my shit out right nowww...
but i promisee il try keep updated again
im slackin ayy
im on the hunt 4 this chat thingg


xxx

 

[Jas029]

yay! Another person!
Welcome

Also I don't blame you for wanting to wait til after the holidays..
Before I was 100% I was pregnant I was going on vacation with my parents and I wanted to wait til after the vacation to tell my mom because 1. I knew I'd be pregnant for sure since I would be many many weeks late.. and 2. I wanted my mom to enjoy her vacation and have a good time before I told her news that made her feel like an awful mother and such..
I had a great time on vacation and did a bunch of things that I shouldn't of done while pregnant!
Once I got back I took a test it was positive and I waited til the perfect day to tell my mom.. It's amazing how supportive she was and I'm so glad I have her by my side through this whole experience.

 

[Becyboo__x]

hey, Emziiboo, we have a new STM chat thread in the pregnancy buddie area

whars tht please lmao x

In pregnancy buddies bit lol

 

[EmziixBo0o]

i found it dude

 

[Becyboo__x]

Gooooood

 

[EmziixBo0o]

yu alredi now bec xx

 

[stuffymuffy]

hey im new & dont really know how to use this :/ lol
im grace im 16 and 11 weeks pregnant. dont get me wrong im excited but im scared to, well nervous....my mums a single mum too, but not exactly the supportive kind, although i havent told her yet.
my boyfriend broke up with me a month ago, before i found out i was pregnant.
i'd really like to be able to talk to someone about this, seen as at the moment its only my best friend that knows. but she's been great thanks everyone

Hey ,welcome and congrats on your pregnancy!
I'm Stephanie, I'm 17 and I'm 16 weeks pregnant. I'm a really bad example because I haven't told my mum yet but it's probably best to tell her sooner than later. Sometimes mums will surprise you at how supportive they are when it comes to things like this. I hope your pregnancy is going well so far and keep us posted

 

[QuintinsMommy]

hey im new & dont really know how to use this :/ lol
im grace im 16 and 11 weeks pregnant. dont get me wrong im excited but im scared to, well nervous....my mums a single mum too, but not exactly the supportive kind, although i havent told her yet.
my boyfriend broke up with me a month ago, before i found out i was pregnant.
i'd really like to be able to talk to someone about this, seen as at the moment its only my best friend that knows. but she's been great thanks everyone

Hey ,welcome and congrats on your pregnancy!
I'm Stephanie, I'm 17 and I'm 16 weeks pregnant. I'm a really bad example because I haven't told my mum yet but it's probably best to tell her sooner than later. Sometimes mums will surprise you at how supportive they are when it comes to things like this. I hope your pregnancy is going well so far and keep us posted

my mom knew the same time as me, so I don't know how to tell her but stephanie is probs right to tell her sooner then later

btw stephanie fo you life at home still? when do you plan on telling your mom?

 

[Becyboo__x]

Sophie..

Can you change my due date to 15th January please ..
my midwife is driving me lol she told me theres no point changing my dates but i got told at my 20 week scan he is a big baby .. and then at my 4d scan the man was a specialist and he was like your defnatly a week more then what you think.. and it does make a big deal a week does to me so if i am overdue it not matter least ill be prepared for 15th! .. my midwife rang me tonight and said i can have my due date as 15th she agrees with it all now

xx

 

[QuintinsMommy]

Sophie..

Can you change my due date to 15th January please ..
my midwife is driving me lol she told me theres no point changing my dates but i got told at my 20 week scan he is a big baby .. and then at my 4d scan the man was a specialist and he was like your defnatly a week more then what you think.. and it does make a big deal a week does to me so if i am overdue it not matter least ill be prepared for 15th! .. my midwife rang me tonight and said i can have my due date as 15th she agrees with it all now

xx

so jealous! now you are 2 weeks before me!!
which means I can have my baby a whole month after you if my LO is late and yours is on time

 

[Becyboo__x]

You could be early you never know! or i could still be overdue .. but they think hes big already just now i can be prepared for 15th and if he dont come or i dont get a show or anything then at least ill of been ready .. my midwifes a plank she knows hes big and she just takes no notice half the time she knows im worried about having him early lol

 

[stuffymuffy]

hey im new & dont really know how to use this :/ lol
im grace im 16 and 11 weeks pregnant. dont get me wrong im excited but im scared to, well nervous....my mums a single mum too, but not exactly the supportive kind, although i havent told her yet.
my boyfriend broke up with me a month ago, before i found out i was pregnant.
i'd really like to be able to talk to someone about this, seen as at the moment its only my best friend that knows. but she's been great thanks everyone

Hey ,welcome and congrats on your pregnancy!
I'm Stephanie, I'm 17 and I'm 16 weeks pregnant. I'm a really bad example because I haven't told my mum yet but it's probably best to tell her sooner than later. Sometimes mums will surprise you at how supportive they are when it comes to things like this. I hope your pregnancy is going well so far and keep us posted

my mom knew the same time as me, so I don't know how to tell her but stephanie is probs right to tell her sooner then later

btw stephanie fo you life at home still? when do you plan on telling your mom?

Within the next few weeks. Her and I are not close at all, the past three months are the first time I've ever lived with her for a long period of time. She travels for her job and keeps a house here for me, but only comes home once a month so I'm not even sure how to approach her about it But I finally found a midwife who let me make the appointment and not my mom/dad since I'm a minor, but she has to go with me so I have to tell her before the appointment which is in three weeks. So far I've just been going to the clinic.

 

[QuintinsMommy]

Becyboo if your being moved up a week, does that mean they wont let you go over Jan 29th? or keep it as it is not let you go over Feb 5th? you know what I mean?

stuffy - awe scary , I hope when you do tell her she takes it well. are you planning on staying on team yellow? or finding out later on?

 

[Becyboo__x]

They said if i dont have him early or on the 15th they will leave it a week til the 22nd and then after the 22nd if he dont still come they will induce me apparently because hes big.. i can see him coming out like small or something