Hi all,
This is my first post, but I have been reading this group for several weeks.
I discovered my SCH at 11+6 weeks when I hemorrhaged in the middle of the night. I went to A&E thinking I was miscarrying, was told I was by the gynae doc on duty, but found at my scan the next day a very happy baby.
Since then I have been on virtual bed rest (self imposed as the obstetricians have not recommended it), and have been having scans to monitor progress.
After my initial bleed, I bled for 2 more days red, then bled/spotted brown on and off for the next 5 weeks or so.
I am now 20+2 weeks and have not spotted or bled for about 3 weeks.
However, I had my 20 week scan last Friday, and despite my boy being totally on track with his growth, the hematoma is still there and is almost the same size as it has been for the past 8 weeks at 4cm x 2cm x 5cm.
I am so gutted. I am pleased I haven't bled for weeks, but the stress of having this thing there still at 20 weeks really is taking its toll.
It took me 3 rounds of IVF and 1 miscarriage to get here and I want this baby to make it through so badly. I can't bear the thought of losing him.
The NHS doctors have been so blasé and uncaring that I have now met with a private consultant to discuss transferring to private antenatal and delivery.
He has admitted what I have read on here and on other research papers, that I am more susceptible to pre-term labour while the hematoma is there because it can damage the amniotic sac and cause it to rupture.
I knew this had happened, but am so bloody depressed that it could happen to me, I thought it was time I joined you guys to help me through the next few weeks/months. I am counting down until 24 weeks, but really I want my baby to stay in a lot longer than that and for this evil hematoma to disappear!