Hey there,
I am 30 years old with my first pregnancy, very healthy woman that used to jog every other day (before SCH diagnosis). I eat BY THE BOOK (only what is recommended to eat for pregnant women, no junk food whatsoever). Given that I really take care of myself, I was shocked when I was diagnosed with SCH at 6 weeks in the ER on 2/5/14 after a passed blood, clots, tissue... The heartbeat was detected (88 beats/min, which is appropriate for this gestational age), and I was put on bed rest and pelvic rest... I still bleed/spot brown/red, I have cramps and back pain, and generally feel weak and lightheaded.
It is soooo hard for me to stay home, since I am a hard-working person and on my feet all day long...Psychologically, I am very tense because of my diagnosis... I can't relax, can't read serious books, I can only stare at TV (funny movies only) and talk to my friends on the phone about THEM to get distracted... I tried to meditate, but my thoughts drift away...
This is sooo hard... I know nobody can do anything about this, and this is just "wait and see" type of a situation... There are so many women on this support group writing about their diagnosis, but I hardly even come across an update from them if they brought babies to full term...
How are you guys holding up NOT KNOWING WHAT WILL HAPPEN?