Hi all,
I'm new here....may I join? I am currently 15w, though I think I may be 16, and now that preterm labour could be an issue, I'm pushing to have my due date changed b/c I NEED to get to that 24 week viability point as quick as possible! According to when I "think" it happened, I'd be 15 weeks 3 days, but according to my LMP I should be 16 weeks 1 day...if I go into labour around the 24 week mark, that amount of time could make a difference in if they try to save my baby!!
Anyways...I was diagnosed with SCH on May 10, mine is 7.9cm x 4.4cm x 3.1cm, which they said was very large. I haven't seen a Dr since I was at the hospital on the 9th (my Dr phoned to give me the results, and put me on strict bedrest until I have 48 hours with no bleeding, when I can move to modified bedrest). I started bleeding on May 9 HUGE gushes of bright red blood, my husband and mom thought it was urine there was so much, and had the u/s the following day after a trip to the ER on the 9th. I bled red blood until the 11th, and then it was brown until the 12th..stopped on the 13th, started again on the 14th, stopped again on the 15th...and then didn't start up again until Friday the 21st, at which point it started off dark red at 11pm (one time on the TP) and was brown by morning. This morning I'm still bleeding brown blood...it's scary. I'm not doing much...I get up to use the washroom or get a drink, and to have a five minute shower once a day, and other than that I stay in bed. I am happy to have my own doppler because it lets me check in on my babe whenever I get nervous...
I'm seeing my OB on Tuesday, and hoping he'll send me for another u/s ASAP but who knows if he will or not. My next scheduled one is on June 7, and that just seems too far away to find out if this thing is growing or shrinking or changing at all, and if it is affecting the placenta. The U/S results from last time don't say anything about if it is...it says the hematoma is seen to the left of the gestational sac extending over the internal os, and that the placenta is situated posterior.
I've read through this entire thread, from beginning to end, and cried over the sad stories and smiled about the happy ones...it's nice to see those little bits of hope, but I can't help be afraid. Especially knowing if I were to m/c at this point, I'd have to actually deliver the baby...that part really scares me...as does the idea of ever trying again after this. I'm bonded to this baby and love him so much (I have a strong feeling it's a boy even though I would be just as happy with a girl).