Ladyk, My friend worked and still sustained milk flow, I think it's amazing!
Are you working part time, a few days or a few hours per day, you may not need to give up totally, you could just do night feed or morning and night feed and your milk should still supply.
I found with my first girl she didn't feed enough to sustain a supply, but some people don't seem to need it to keep producing milk.
Optical, sorry to read your post hun, I know how it is, i must admit my wedding we did everything ourselves, including paying for most of it, my mil gave me some money towards it but i made it clear any money given didn't give automatic right to have a say in how it was spent, or the money could go back!!
Its your wedding so you do have to put your foot down, but i agree with kara about writing stuff down.
Genies, sounds like it was fun at the party! Will remember that theme, i think adults playing musical staues and pass the parcel must be a right laugh!
I have found bean bags, v cushions have done quite well but the rings do look good, atm we have, floor to kick on, jumperoo and chair swing,
got to go feeding wriggly baby who keeps pulling my hair!