minky - i know its hard to relax isn't it? i find myself having moments like that too but i just try and remain positive
....anyways, thats y we're here - so when we have wobbly moments we can ask people in the same situation (who,in all honesty, are probably thinking the same things!lol) and we can all reassure, comfort, celebrate etc as necessary
but honestly i would relax about the back ache, i've been having shocking back ache on and off for a couple weeks....its normal. its ur teeny uterus preparing to grow. xx