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First.timer said:
ahhhhh so im home now so can fill you in properly. i was so nervous this morning freaking out that there would be something wrong or something i dunno :s and as you all know i was hoping for a girl but im getting my head round it! im going to be a single mum so the main reason i wanted a girl is because i thought it would be easier. ive got a few pics and yes they were very certain and so am i! i have a potty shot as well which i will post lol, i spent about 15 minutes of my day staring at my childs penis ( daddy would be proud) so im fairly certain i wont have any suprises at my 20 week scan! feeling wonderful that i can stop using the word 'it' but have mixed emotions as i am now more worried than before about becoming a parent as its to a boy! i know to those of you who have children already and who have boys it probably sounds stupid! i just panic that i wont be enough for him and he will want his dad. x
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Aww bless ya hun!! Well my mum has been a single mum for 12 years, since I was 10, and I've got a younger brother and sister aswell. My mum has always said that she would of much preferred 3 boys as my brother was so much easier than me and my sister!! He was a dream growing up and we were right nightmares lol So I think you and you little boy will be just fine! So happy that everything went well at the scan for you!! After you've bought more blue-ness, I'm sure it will start to sink in more for you :hugs: x x x
 
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First.timer said:
ahhhhh so im home now so can fill you in properly. i was so nervous this morning freaking out that there would be something wrong or something i dunno :s and as you all know i was hoping for a girl but im getting my head round it! im going to be a single mum so the main reason i wanted a girl is because i thought it would be easier. ive got a few pics and yes they were very certain and so am i! i have a potty shot as well which i will post lol, i spent about 15 minutes of my day staring at my childs penis ( daddy would be proud) so im fairly certain i wont have any suprises at my 20 week scan! feeling wonderful that i can stop using the word 'it' but have mixed emotions as i am now more worried than before about becoming a parent as its to a boy! i know to those of you who have children already and who have boys it probably sounds stupid! i just panic that i wont be enough for him and he will want his dad. x
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Aww bless ya hun!! Well my mum has been a single mum for 12 years, since I was 10, and I've got a younger brother and sister aswell. My mum has always said that she would of much preferred 3 boys as my brother was so much easier than me and my sister!! He was a dream growing up and we were right nightmares lol So I think you and you little boy will be just fine! So happy that everything went well at the scan for you!! After you've bought more blue-ness, I'm sure it will start to sink in more for you :hugs: x x x
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Thanks babe. Feeling better today after buying little bear suits from babygap - lol and starting to listen to EVERYONE who is telling me boys are easier lol xxx
 
First.timer said:
ahhhhh so im home now so can fill you in properly. i was so nervous this morning freaking out that there would be something wrong or something i dunno :s and as you all know i was hoping for a girl but im getting my head round it! im going to be a single mum so the main reason i wanted a girl is because i thought it would be easier. ive got a few pics and yes they were very certain and so am i! i have a potty shot as well which i will post lol, i spent about 15 minutes of my day staring at my childs penis ( daddy would be proud) so im fairly certain i wont have any suprises at my 20 week scan! feeling wonderful that i can stop using the word 'it' but have mixed emotions as i am now more worried than before about becoming a parent as its to a boy! i know to those of you who have children already and who have boys it probably sounds stupid! i just panic that i wont be enough for him and he will want his dad. x
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Firstly, congratulations on your little boy! It totally doesnt sound stupid! I do have a boy, but honestly, I am feeling the same way about the possibility of having a girl! I wanted a girl when I was pregnant with my son, but quickly realized I got exactly what I was meant to have an needed!

My boy is super independent and plays so well by himself. Always has too! I have several friends with girls and most of them seem to be way more needy than my boy. Not that I dont enjoy playing with him, but most of the girls need to be entertained a lot more than he does.

I know it completely depends on the child and you can have a girl who is very independent, but the thought of a girl still scares me. But when I look at the adorable clothes and things for girls, I want one so badly! I have always been very disappointed with the selection for boys!

Good luck, you'll do great with your little man! Momma's boys are the best!
 
Thanks guys your all so supportive :) im warming to it more and more xxx he has a very handsome dad, im sure he will be a heartbreaker. I am disappointed with boy clothes though :s
 
Bearsuits!!! Awwwwww! :happydance: hehe x x x

Pinkpolkadot - Lovely pic by the way, soo clear! x x x
 
Had appointment with midwife today and she listened to baby's heartbeat - I was so relieved as I still haven't felt anything (and I had already felt little movements at this stage with DS) :shrug:

Am I the only one staying team yellow in this group?! It seems as if everyone is finding out! I am very tempted to find out but we don't really mind either way so might leave it as a surprise.

Hope you're all well xx
 
First.timer said:
ahhhhh so im home now so can fill you in properly. i was so nervous this morning freaking out that there would be something wrong or something i dunno :s and as you all know i was hoping for a girl but im getting my head round it! im going to be a single mum so the main reason i wanted a girl is because i thought it would be easier. ive got a few pics and yes they were very certain and so am i! i have a potty shot as well which i will post lol, i spent about 15 minutes of my day staring at my childs penis ( daddy would be proud) so im fairly certain i wont have any suprises at my 20 week scan! feeling wonderful that i can stop using the word 'it' but have mixed emotions as i am now more worried than before about becoming a parent as its to a boy! i know to those of you who have children already and who have boys it probably sounds stupid! i just panic that i wont be enough for him and he will want his dad. x
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Hi First.timer - I wanted a girl throughout my first pregnancy and when I had a boy, I was also slightly shocked, however, boys are great! I couldn't imagine having a girl now - boys are so much fun and also very loving! I am sure you will be absolutely fine but I can understand why you are having mixed emotions. x
 
mom2ben - I agree, it does seem like everyone is finding out whether they're having a boy or a girl! But like you we've decided to remain as team yellow too!

I still read all the old wives tales - but I've had mix of results on that front so far!
 
broodybeauty, welcome!

Mom2Ben, congrats on hearing the heartbeat! I had a Dr appt yesterday and we couldn't find the HB with the doppler, so the Dr did an ultrasound. I was freaking out, but very relieved to see a little heart happily beating away in there! I'm sure hearing your LOs was such a relief for you! BTW, my son is only a couple of month older than yours and I am about a week behind you in this pregnancy.
 
I'm glad to hear I'm not the only one :)

AmandaLucsMom - that must have been so worrying for you when they couldn't find the heartbeat. Did they manage to do the ultrasound straight away?
 
Mom2Ben said:
I'm glad to hear I'm not the only one :)

AmandaLucsMom - that must have been so worrying for you when they couldn't find the heartbeat. Did they manage to do the ultrasound straight away?
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Yes, it was there right away, thank goodness! The Dr wasn't concerned at all, but we lost a baby last June and all my "non-worrying, positive thinking only" thoughts have been taken from me. The Dr said the chances of my miscarrying at this stage with no bleeding are very, very slim so I have his permission to stop worrying. Not sure if I can do that though. I was so blissfully ignorant with my first!
 
ignorance sure is bliss! I dont think you can ever stop worrying, its impossible :( :hugs: x
 
Thanks Hayley! I read your story and I my heart broke for you. I am so sorry for your profound loss. It is so nice to read that you family has grown and is growing again.
 
Mom2Ben said:
Had appointment with midwife today and she listened to baby's heartbeat - I was so relieved as I still haven't felt anything (and I had already felt little movements at this stage with DS) :shrug:

Am I the only one staying team yellow in this group?! It seems as if everyone is finding out! I am very tempted to find out but we don't really mind either way so might leave it as a surprise.

Hope you're all well xx
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I'm staying on team yellow too. It's so hard!!
 
Team yellow here too and its sooo difficult knowing I could go ten minutes down the road to the private 4D ultrasoundy place and find out!

Anyone's nipples started leaking yet? My right one decided to leave me with a fetching wet patch today... woo :|
 
henrysmumkaz said:
Team yellow here too and its sooo difficult knowing I could go ten minutes down the road to the private 4D ultrasoundy place and find out!

Anyone's nipples started leaking yet? My right one decided to leave me with a fetching wet patch today... woo :|
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WOAH THERE>>>>>>>>>>LEAKING NIPPLES? when should i expect this joy? i am so naive x
 
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