***September testing group***

[MumwithPCOS]

so true @jellybeanxx Everyone is different. Mine just seem to stay like this at all times haha. maybe they’re getting a lil darker not sure. trying to dull down some stress
Just finished up at my job n will be still working 10 hours or so on the side. I might rest over the next few days and see if that helps although helping mum move tomorrow. I hate resting lol!! I got preg on a holiday with both so that’s why I’m thinking along those lines

 

[tdog]

@HalfricanMa thank you

@tdog yes, they progressed a bit then were *almost* negative (not 100% but back to super light lines like at 8-9 dpo) and I was bright red bleeding (heavy spotting but nothing on my underwear, always just when wiping) and then the next day 13dpo I took my last frer hoping it would be 100% negative so I could move on and instead test line was as dark as control. May the same be true for you.

Mine have gone back to like 9/10dpo looking now I was hoping they be negative also, I'm now 17dpo tho so if anything should have been blazing tbh, prob just finding it hard to let go again, I've been bleeding only when wiping aswell xx

 

[MumwithPCOS]

So scary @tdog I’m sorry you’re in a position like this. I

Mine have gone back to like 9/10dpo looking now I was hoping they be negative also, I'm now 17dpo tho so if anything should have been blazing tbh, prob just finding it hard to let go again, I've been bleeding only when wiping aswell xx

I hope its the same story for you too babe. I’m sorry about your husband it must be so difficult having that conversation. Ttc must stir up all those emotions each month!! Strength to you. Hope you know for sure what’s happening soon xxxxxxx

 

[Suggerhoney]

@tdog
I am so sorry ure. Going through this love and so so hard with dh condition. I know your only young mad have bags of time but with dh being much older I can understand the wanting it now I really can. I really hope the same happens to you as it did @MrsKatie. I so hope this isn’t a loss. But can totally understand your worry. I did still have lines with a few of my chemicals and was still testing positive on cd4 of bleeding but faint. I didn’t carry on testing after I new I was going to miscarry I just saw those tests get fainter and new that was it. But my lines never went light then darker again they just got fainter and fainter. Have you tested today? I hate it that this is happening so much.


@MrsKatie
I really don’t rate those pregmate tests at all. They don’t seem to have as much dye in as say easy&home and other brands. They only go to about matching even when I was 9 weeks pregnant they were still matching but only when I added water as with just pee at a that stage they were fainter because of hook effect. but when I was testing for progresssion early on like weeks 4 to 5 with easy&home and other brands I was getting line stealers.
I will still test for progression if I do fall because I want to make sure I get that line stealer and hopefully a 3+ on a digi. I only got a 1-2 with the miscarriage when I was nearly 5 weeks so new I was gonna lose it then but my line tests were still crazy dark. Even got a line stealer on femometer at 17dpo, then 18dpo all tests were fainter and continued to get fainter. I remember with both my sons I had line stealers by 15 dpo so I’m hoping for that again and symptoms if we have caught.



5dpo today and absolutely zero symptoms, no cramping nothing. feeliing very out tbh

 

[Suggerhoney]

This is my last cycle trying trying until December so was hoping to catch but just not feeling it at all.

I will be in the October and November testing group but I won’t be trying as hard those 2 cycles.

next cycle will be month 8 ttc and definitely getting to that fed up of trying stage. I think the miscarriage has just made me want it even more and I thought I would catch again quickly after that as so say extra firtile after a MC but that was back in June and I’ve only had BFN since then. Although didn’t test july because of covid.

 

[tdog]

This is my last cycle trying trying until December so was hoping to catch but just not feeling it at all.

I will be in the October and November testing group but I won’t be trying as hard those 2 cycles.

next cycle will be month 8 ttc and definitely getting to that fed up of trying stage. I think the miscarriage has just made me want it even more and I thought I would catch again quickly after that as so say extra firtile after a MC but that was back in June and I’ve only had BFN since then. Although didn’t test july because of covid.

This is why was disheartened last cycle as I thought I'd be very fertile obviously not the case did tests this morn and line still there, just done more and near enough gone now so waiting game again like just leave my body already I no your not going to make it xx

 

[RainbowBaby13]

This is why was disheartened last cycle as I thought I'd be very fertile obviously not the case did tests this morn and line still there, just done more and near enough gone now so waiting game again like just leave my body already I no your not going to make it xx

Big Big Hugs to you. I'm so sorry my husband wanted to take a break after our miscarriages because he hated seeing me like that, as well as being hurt by the losses himself. Maybe once some time has passed he will come around again xx

 

[Momof2onetube]

@tdog I’m so sorry you’re going through this nothing I can say eases the deep pain we feel when on the ttc rollercoaster. Sending you strength love x
Afm 8dpo and just hoping I see at least 10dpo honestly, I feel my progesterone might be struggling so I’m curious to see my LP now that I’ve tracked ov

 

[Suggerhoney]

This is why was disheartened last cycle as I thought I'd be very fertile obviously not the case did tests this morn and line still there, just done more and near enough gone now so waiting game again like just leave my body already I no your not going to make it xx

I know exactly how you feel. Once you no it’s a loss you just want it over and done with so you can try and move on. That limbo of knowing and waiting to bleed is awful I wouldn’t wish it on anyone.

I think it’s more with chemicals ure more firtile love as it’s so early where as a later MC can mess your cycle up a bit. With a Chemical ure cycle is normally normal. I’ve known women to fall pregnant again with there sticky the next cycle after a chemical.
I hope that’s the case for you.

 

[Suggerhoney]

@tdog I’m so sorry you’re going through this nothing I can say eases the deep pain we feel when on the ttc rollercoaster. Sending you strength love x
Afm 8dpo and just hoping I see at least 10dpo honestly, I feel my progesterone might be struggling so I’m curious to see my LP now that I’ve tracked ov

I hope AF stays away love. Keeping everything crossed for you. Or if u do get af I hope it isn’t for a good few days and u have a good LP.
My LP is 15 to 16 days so it’s really long. Would love to be one of those that got AF at 13 or even 14dpo but for me it’s 15 to 16 dpo. Last cycle was 17dpo when I started bleeding.

 

[CakeBaby]

Hey ladies! 8dpo for me and actually managed to not pee on anything today.. feels kind of liberating realised I didn’t get a BFP until 11dpo with my May pregnancy so I should probably stop stressing and just let things be for the next few days xxx

 

[Suggerhoney]

Hey ladies! 8dpo for me and actually managed to not pee on anything today.. feels kind of liberating realised I didn’t get a BFP until 11dpo with my May pregnancy so I should probably stop stressing and just let things be for the next few days xxx

I did a few opks just to stop the urge of peeing on a pregnancy test. I’m only 5dpo and the opks were extremely negative could barley see the test line. Gonna hold off now and mite test at 8dpo but I’ve never gotten a BFP any earlier than 10dpo. 10dpo is always when I get lines if I’m pregnant so I know if BFN at 10dpo I am out.

 

[Suggerhoney]

Well done for holding off haha

 

[CakeBaby]

I did a few opks just to stop the urge of peeing on a pregnancy test. I’m only 5dpo and the opks were extremely negative could barley see the test line. Gonna hold off now and mite test at 8dpo but I’ve never gotten a BFP any earlier than 10dpo. 10dpo is always when I get lines if I’m pregnant so I know if BFN at 10dpo I am out.

I might do the same this evening, OPK’s seem more dispensable for some reason lol. That’s good that you have a specific day you know works, saves the days of what ifs!! Fingers crossed for 10dpo for you

 

[Shezza84uk]

I'm 35 just turned love xx

Sending love, please don’t give up. I had my 5th at almost 35 and I’m 38 next month. My mum had my sister at 40 and I have a friend who’s now 43 and 9 weeks pregnant.

Don't give up x

 

[tdog]

Sending love, please don’t give up. I had my 5th at almost 35 and I’m 38 next month. My mum had my sister at 40 and I have a friend who’s now 43 and 9 weeks pregnant.

Don't give up x

I did post previously love its not me that wants to give up, he is 55 has a aorta aneurysm and if it pops he gone so it's very emotional each month that he worried he going to leave me and the kids xx

 

[josephine3]

So sorry you're going through all this @tdog Was really hoping for better news from you today.
Good luck to everyone close to testing!

 

[HalfricanMa]

I’m so sorry @tdog that sounds like an incredibly difficult situation to navigate. Could he perhaps being using his situation to take the pressure from ttc off your shoulders, like trying to help you feel less stress about it.

I can’t decide about this! Indent or faint positive?! I dont see anything on the pink but can anyone see what I am on the blue?
I’m definitely having early signs that has dh and i both convinced. (Tmi: For example, the crazy level of fatigue and insane thirst is possible to be subconsciously induced, but the tons of white cm when we bd last night can’t!)
I knew I should’ve waited until 13 or 14dpo. My first pregnancy I got my first faint at 13dpo.

 

[xxmyheartxx]

I'm so sorry @tdog

 

[CakeBaby]

I caved it’s not stark white but also it’s not positive lol 8dpo and all sanity is out the window