Mommy_DK
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Yes I know I'm an awful irresponsible person for getting pregnant and now having to ask if I should go through with it instead of thinking it through carefully beforehand. But I want to do what's best for everyone not just what DH wants or what I think I want
Everything is so stressful right now. Dh's hours are so crazy he's never here to help except for 2 hrs in the morning where he is suppose to get the kids to school ON time and he gets them there 30-40 mins late everyday. The school just called and said their chronic lateness cannot continue. I have them from the afternoon until bed time and when DH comes home at 12am they've been sleep for hours. I also stay home with my 3 yr old daughter all day so I'm wiped by the end of the night. If I have to get up at 6am and take them to school and he has to do nothing I'm basically a single mom at that point and all DH does is pay a few bills but does nothing with the kids physically. Doing this all by myself while being pregnant is going to be TOO much! I'm already exhausted from doing bed time, homework, bath and dinner by myself I can only imagine having to do morning route too. I hope I'm not being selfish but I am extreemly overwhelmed.
I do not have help from my mother or any family and we don't get help from his family either. I know it was stupid to even consider having a baby in the first place with all of this going on but I didn't think it would get so bad! Now I don't know if I should move foward with pg or let it go what would you do??
Everything is so stressful right now. Dh's hours are so crazy he's never here to help except for 2 hrs in the morning where he is suppose to get the kids to school ON time and he gets them there 30-40 mins late everyday. The school just called and said their chronic lateness cannot continue. I have them from the afternoon until bed time and when DH comes home at 12am they've been sleep for hours. I also stay home with my 3 yr old daughter all day so I'm wiped by the end of the night. If I have to get up at 6am and take them to school and he has to do nothing I'm basically a single mom at that point and all DH does is pay a few bills but does nothing with the kids physically. Doing this all by myself while being pregnant is going to be TOO much! I'm already exhausted from doing bed time, homework, bath and dinner by myself I can only imagine having to do morning route too. I hope I'm not being selfish but I am extreemly overwhelmed.
I do not have help from my mother or any family and we don't get help from his family either. I know it was stupid to even consider having a baby in the first place with all of this going on but I didn't think it would get so bad! Now I don't know if I should move foward with pg or let it go what would you do??