sick of waiting for bfp - come on October

[brit3435]

Saint that is very interesting about the vitamin D. What are your symptoms of PCOS? Did you end up being diagnosed with it? I'm worried that I may have PCOS as well. I do ovulate but its not consistant and its always late. Since I have been charting I have Oed on CD 34, 20, and 29 so my cycles are always like 40 to 50 days long. Also my luteal phases aren't consistent. So far they have been 15 days (chem preg), 8 days, and 19 days. I also have alot of pain in my ovaries before and after O.

 

[RCAFWife]

Hey guys!

I was on a waiting list to see an OB/GYN and just got an earlier appointment! So hopefully on Dec 6th, I'll know more about why we can't make a baby on our own. I hope it's something treatable, and not unexplained...

 

[Smashley25]

Glad you're back, RCAF wife. I was starting to get worried. That's really exciting about the appointment. Not too far away at all and hopefully it's an easy fix!

 

[Saintsational]

RACF Wife that's great that you were able to get an earlier appt....I fought with the idea of going to a specialist for help and I'm glad i did...haven't gotten the official results yet kind of cheating(looking at my patient portal and conferring with Dr Google)...my follow up isn't until Wednesday...

Brit3435...I haven't received the official results like but i have many of the symptoms unexplained facial hair, obesity, infertility.....

Like G.I. Joe says knowing is half the battle

 

[Smashley25]

Okay, two new pictures from about 30 minutes, both taken within the time frame. I can see a second line on the answer test and its a little darker than yesterday, but I really can't on the frer. Maybe a little bit when I hold it just right but not really. I used the same pee for both. Going to go buy more tonight as those were my last two.

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[brit3435]

Smash- Looks like a second line on that first image, buts hard to see with the reflective surface background. Its weird that there isn't another line on the FRER. Maybe your HCG is still too low to show up on it? I would buy another package of the answer tests and see if there is still a line! Good luck, I hope this is your BFP!!!

 

[brit3435]

Or you could just go in for a blood test tomorrow morning, when I went for mine, I had my answer in a couple of hours. Unfortuntely my answer was that I was miscarrying, but they can tell alot more from bloodwork than you can tell from a urine preg test!

 

[CG29]

Hi, need a little advice please, TTC for 1 year and 2 months with irregular periods does not make it easy...ok so last month it took 43 days for my period to start october 21st - 27th then then 18 - 19 days later I had light pink when I wiped down there, I put in a tampon and 2-3 hours later I checked and it was really fade pink so popped in anothe tampon to be on the safe side as I'm usualy really heavy, a few ours laster I checked and it was light read/pinkish, went to bed and got up in the morning with a slight bit more and a little brown this lasted 4 days with very little cramping which is strange as I get cramps that leave me close to tears at times they are that bad, ok so... This was also very watery and light compared to usual, nothing in my diet has changed, so tonight no bleeding just very water down there. I maybe should also mention that I have a little gas also. Any body have any idea why this is and any advice on conditions? Thanks C x

 

[Smashley25]

Thanks Brit! I've just gone out and bought 30 dollars worth of tests. I think I may call the doctor tomorrow. It's just... idk, if I'm going to get a no, I'd rather see it in the privacy of my own bathroom with no one to witness it. But still, this uncertainty is driving me crazy! I got answer early result tests and digis. They don't have the ones I've been using unless I want to pay 20 for 20 opks and one test.

CG29, it sounds like it might be implantation bleeding. Have you tested?

 

[CG29]

Haven't tested yet as I don't know if I can look at another negative test just yet, I get so annoyed when I see only one line on each and every test, must have done about 50 tests this past year and a bit I want it to happen so much. Rant over really do hope I am pregnant this month, always feel like I have symptoms and turn out to be wrong, can be very stressful. I've always hear implantation is only one to two days at most tho is that true and set in stone? thanks c x

 

[brit3435]

CG29 the only way to know is to test! I've heard of implantation bleeding lasting for longer than a day, but I never had implantation bleeding with dd so don't know. I had implantation bleeding with my mc august, but I just kept on bleeding and I knew something was wrong. So this happened on CD 18 or 19? Have you for sure ovulated yet? I have had bleeding before O that lasted several days and it was light but bright red/brown blood. I would test to rule out preg or get BFP first and if you are preg you need to call the dr about the spotting to make sure everything is OK.

Smash- I can't wait for you to test in the morning! I hope you get your BFP FXed!!

 

[Smashley25]

Thanks, I hope so too. I took one of the digitals and it came back not pregnant. Hoping its just not sensitive, or its wrong. Apparently there are lots of upset people with this test, granted, mostly for false positives, but we'll see. My FRERs have faint lines on them now but they're probably evap lines, since it was well out of the time limit and I took them out of the case.

 

[Aiden187]

Im so excited my ovulation was today and I hope this is my month

 

[CG29]

Hi, it started on the 15th evening and ended on the 19th early morning, 19 days after my period from the month before so that's 26 day from the start of this cycle, for me its usually a week - 2 weeks longer than that (it varies from 34 dadays- 42 days) and is buckets loads heavier with a lot more pain, I got the same craps I usually get during ovulation with the light watery bleeding, not painful much just mild fading cramps. Thanks C xx

 

[Try2findbaby]

Wow smash, don't mean to get u excited but that sounds really exciting I am due af anytime now according to ff but I think I'm going to wait until the weekend because I don't want to waste the one test I've got left!

Glad to see ur back rcaf wife! Good luck with test results and keep checking in

Anything yet saint? Glad u o'd aiden, I was sick so my temps have messed up so ff won't tell me if I o'd but I usually do on cd20 and other signs said it was so I'm sticking with it!

 

[ashntony]

Well CD27 here and 11 dpo. My temps are being erratic but ff still says I o'd on the 9th. AF should be here in about 5 days. That is on my short cycle of 32 days. Well DH and I decided that if we don't catch our little sticky bean for December then we are to NTNP for a few months. We don;t want to but we don't want to let ttc consume our lives so much... Everyone I know is pregnant and having babies but I cannot even have one! Not only that but DH just is not interested in bding as much. he says it is almost like a chore anymore... I told him I was sorry and he just said that he understood and just needed a break even though he still wants a baby. Well this month is my final month so going to get preseed opks and a bbt themometer! And going to try and spice up our and keep my fingers crossed that we get a for New Years!!!!

 

[Smashley25]

Well, I took another test this morning and I'm pretty sure it's a bfn. . I keep swearing I can see something, but then I blink and its gone. *sigh*. I'm going to test again Friday just in cause but I think this one is chalked up to faulty tests.

 

[CG29]

I'm the same, always hoping that the test is faulty or I've tested too early, I've heard the digital tests often show false results steering clear of them until I get BFP, ill use one of them to confirm, once heard of a girl who too 4 tests over 3 days all positive, a 2 days later she took a digital one to confirm she was and it was negative, she thought the digital one was more sensitive and the others where false positives, 2 months after that she went to the doctors thinking she was sick but was pregnant. I wish everyone good luck with testing x

 

[Saintsational]

Good Morning All,

I hope all is well with everyone....I am currently what I think is 10dpo not sure since i think i have pcos not sure if i actually o'd...well i have my follow up tomorrow afternoon...will know more on tomorrow afternoon will update

 

[Smashley25]

Thanks, CG. I'm surprisingly okay with all this. Disappointed, yes, but not crying in the bathroom or anything.

I know logically it makes no sense whatsoever, but part of me feels like if I could get one positive test then I can get another? Even though it wasn't real to begin with.

I think I'm going to temp vaginally next cycle. I still have no idea when/if I ovulated or when af should show up. And all my opks for the past week have been dark almost positives. I have NO idea what's going one