So sorry I'm currently waiting on a scan due to bad cramping and bleeding. Not holding any hope
Hope we get through this. I've heard the miscarriage group is a help
Very sorry for your loss I know exactly how you feel though. I've lost two babies and one was a mmc. I chose the d&c only because I had already had a natural mc before and didn't want to experience it again... I didn't want to "see" everything. The d&c went smoothly, a little cramping and very little bleeding afterwards, but that was it. My period came exactly 4 weeks and 3 days later so we were able to try again sooner (it took 6 weeks for my period to return after the natural mc). Good luck to you!
Im so sorry for your loss, I had a similar experience in december. Awful. I had the dnc. For me I needed it to be over asap....I couldnt carry my baby knowing it was dead...I needed closure so I could grieve. We cremated our baby and got a heart urn for her....we also did genetic testing and found out the gender. Again I am so sorry.
So sorry hun it must just be impossible to get your mind around. Just try to take one day at a time, and take comfort from loved ones around you especially your wee boyxx
The next few days and weeks will be rough. You will always miss your baby and it will always hurt, but time does heal. Just take time now and grieve how youre meant to grieve....for me, it was staying busy. Crying all day and feeling that grief was so awful, and I hated that.....and doing that wouldn't bring my baby back.....so I kept my mind busy. But thats me. Take time how you need to. I hope you have a good support system. Thats what got me through and felt so loved.
Lovemybubba - big hugs for you today. I don't think the grieving really goes away for a long time. By 12 weeks I had totally and utterly fallen in love with my baby so losing her was so hard.
I thought I needed to miscarry naturally as it was one last thing I could actually do for my baby. My body wasn't going to do that either. I think I needed someone to tell me to have the d&c as I personally couldn't choose it. I wish I did choose it earlier as having my dead baby in my tummy for an extra 7 weeks prolonged that grief and made it worse.
I'm not telling you what you should do. I'm just sharing my experience because I think I would have benefited hearing these words from someone else back in December.
It sounds like your little one is showing you lot's of love. When I'm upset dd puts her arm around me and says 'oh mummy'.