My daughter has autism too. It can be very difficult can't it? I guess we have one thing in common.
now that is the only reason i tap samsam as its stops him from doing it 
My daughter has autism too. It can be very difficult can't it? I guess we have one thing in common.
yes it can be difficult babes and that why i tap samsam as if i dont he will stand there and headbut the wall over and over and over until he hurts himself really bad
My daughter has autism too. It can be very difficult can't it? I guess we have one thing in common.
yes it can be difficult babes and that why i tap samsam as if i dont he will stand there and headbut the wall over and over and over until he hurts himself really bad
How old is he hon? Has he had any occupational therapy? They can really help with stuff like that.
My daughter has autism too. It can be very difficult can't it? I guess we have one thing in common.
yes it can be difficult babes and that why i tap samsam as if i dont he will stand there and headbut the wall over and over and over until he hurts himself really bad
How old is he hon? Has he had any occupational therapy? They can really help with stuff like that.
he is 3 this month and we go back to see the specialist in jan so he can do a bit more of an assesment with him xxxx
https://awfullibrarybooks.wordpress.com/2010/06/06/train-up-your-child/
there it is. This book disturbed me what was wrote about it. Now thats child abuse!
My daughter has autism too. It can be very difficult can't it? I guess we have one thing in common.
yes it can be difficult babes and that why i tap samsam as if i dont he will stand there and headbut the wall over and over and over until he hurts himself really bad
How old is he hon? Has he had any occupational therapy? They can really help with stuff like that.
he is 3 this month and we go back to see the specialist in jan so he can do a bit more of an assesment with him xxxx
Sorry, I guess we are going a bit OT, but just wanted to say that my daughter turns 6 in January, and we have come leaps and bounds since she was diagnosed at age 2. You can't even recognize her from how she used to be. She now talks, and laughs, and interacts. She has an aid in school, but she can do everything. I hope that give you some hope and peace as I know those early days can be very difficult. OK, sorry to go off topic.
https://awfullibrarybooks.wordpress.com/2010/06/06/train-up-your-child/
there it is. This book disturbed me what was wrote about it. Now thats child abuse!
I want the authors sent to prison I actually feel so sad when I read what they had done to their child to get it broken.
https://awfullibrarybooks.wordpress.com/2010/06/06/train-up-your-child/
there it is. This book disturbed me what was wrote about it. Now thats child abuse!
Bloody hell! (Can I say that on here?!) Only fundamental religion could explain that. No-one could doubt that's child abuse. The stories that children have been taken into care though, one has to wonder what sort of a parent would turn to a book like that and not just be horrified and burn it but instead try it out!
It's heartbreaking.
I want the authors sent to prison I actually feel so sad when I read what they had done to their child to get it broken.
https://awfullibrarybooks.wordpress.com/2010/06/06/train-up-your-child/
there it is. This book disturbed me what was wrote about it. Now thats child abuse!
Bloody hell! (Can I say that on here?!) Only fundamental religion could explain that. No-one could doubt that's child abuse. The stories that children have been taken into care though, one has to wonder what sort of a parent would turn to a book like that and not just be horrified and burn it but instead try it out!
I've missed most of the debate but I suppose things like this is what made me militant about not hitting children. We have FOR GENERATIONS produced stable happy adults who have all sorts of professions but I suppose mainly civil servants (although writers, artists, engineers, doctors etc. are all included) and none of my mum's family have ever hit their children. There is no need for it. In my opinion it's just lazy parenting which gets immediate results but long term does nothing except make kids either scared tot he point of having personality or mental issues or just learn to do things behind their parents backs. It makes sense if your child is in grave danger and you CANNOT reason with him or her but generally, either a child is too young to reason with in which case hitting is cruel and if they're old enough to reason with then reason with them.
Sorry to get all riled but I'm still not sure if that book really exists or if it's just a website to see how people like me will believe anything.
If it's real the authors should be held responsible. If you can be held responsible for inciting violence surely you can be held responsible for inciting child abuse!?
I have a 12 year old and a 3 year old and both my boys get tapped when they need it and neither of them have any mental or personality issues, actually my 12 year old is in the top of his year and in his teachers words " a born leader, who not only takes control of a situation rationally but also has a heart of gold and makes sure everyone is involved in no matter what is happening" Does that sound like he has any sort of problems ?? My son never does ANYTHING behinde my back because although he is tapped when needed we have a close relationship and we totally respect each other. I come from a background of parents that tapped when needed and each and every single member of my family is stable, actually I have 6 brothers and 2 sisters all of who got tapped when needed and if I do say so myself we are a pretty respectful and respected family.
I would never consider or compare tapping or even minimal spanking to child abuse that would be a unnecessarily melodramatic.I've missed most of the debate but I suppose things like this is what made me militant about not hitting children. We have FOR GENERATIONS produced stable happy adults who have all sorts of professions but I suppose mainly civil servants (although writers, artists, engineers, doctors etc. are all included) and none of my mum's family have ever hit their children. There is no need for it. In my opinion it's just lazy parenting which gets immediate results but long term does nothing except make kids either scared tot he point of having personality or mental issues or just learn to do things behind their parents backs. It makes sense if your child is in grave danger and you CANNOT reason with him or her but generally, either a child is too young to reason with in which case hitting is cruel and if they're old enough to reason with then reason with them.
Sorry to get all riled but I'm still not sure if that book really exists or if it's just a website to see how people like me will believe anything.
If it's real the authors should be held responsible. If you can be held responsible for inciting violence surely you can be held responsible for inciting child abuse!?
I dont usually reply to debate threads, tbh I dont see the sense in debating when it comes to kids, all children are different, all parents, parent different and tbh I dont ever think 2 mothers will ever agree 100% on everything, but To say tapping a child will/can cause personality or mental issues is just unbelievable
Like I said I dont normally get involved but I felt the need to say something this time
