I'd like to add that I like the SMEP. The past three cycles DH and I just BDed every day for five days up to ovulation and then three days after and we were just knackered by the end of it. And of course on a schedule like that there's little room for romance
Now with BDing every other day we're both less stressed and able to enjoy ourselves more.
Yeah I feel the same I hate just going at it like a machine haha! It takes all the romance out of it and sometimes I just feel like I want the romance and could do without the
!! I don't think that's a bad thing though. I do like the
don't get me wrong but it seems when you are TTC that it becomes mechanical and psychologically you are both aware that this is the reason you are doing it. Sort of takes the passion out of things.
Before we TTC we had
whenever we wanted and we were really ready for it when we did but we never really left it long naturally this way I would say we did it on average around 3 times a week when not TTC which isn't so bad haha!
I have been seeing posts on here from some girls where their DH are saying they don't wanna
and they get really upset. One girl was in tear the other day saying that her DH spoilt here SMEP because he was too tired to
. I must admit though for some strange weird mad reason that I am always more horny when I O. I don't know about the other girls on here. Are you the same? Or am I a bit weird haha