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[g3mz]

Unfortunately it was bad news
I hate the feeling you get as soon as you hear the words I just need to call the doctor!!
Nothing could be seen the doctor said it must be chemical and told me if I did a test it would be negative! When I told her that I had done one just this morning and got a strong positive she said I need blood tests to see if it's ectopic if not its chemical either way it's the end.
Words can't describe how devastated we are right now and ATM its still to raw for us to decide where we go from here. I go back for another blood test on Friday then wait to find out what happens next if it's ectopic I was to upset to ask questions.
Anyway I will be keeping an eye on the thread and I wish all you lovely ladies the best of luck!!

 

[nimbec]

Oh my god G3 thats horrific I'm so so so very sorry i know there is absolutley nothing i can say that will make you feel better but i'm sending you lots of (((((((((hugs)))))))))

I really hope it's not an ectopic for you and the best outcome is a chemical at least that way your body hasn't had too much trauma

I know you haven't had time to think and its all too raw but please don't give up all hope ((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))) again and please remember we are always here if you want to talk

xxx

 

[bumski]

Oh no g3mz that's absolutely awful news, I'm so so sorry, I hope you and Dh take time to get your heads round this and recover, whatever the outcome.
Please remember we are all still here for you whenever your ready to talk.
You have been through so much already and you are obviously such a strong woman.
My thoughts are with you xx

 

[Tryandwish]

g3mz - Have no idea what to say. So sorry. Can only imagine how your feeling.

 

[schoolteacher]

What awful news G4mz! I'm so sorry to hear this as I can't imagine how it feels. Strange about your strong positive that morning, hope it's not an ectopic though as it will be more upset for you. Please stay in touch if you feel able, and I really hope there is a better outcome for you and your family in the future!!!! X

 

[Tryandwish]

Hi g3mz - Hope you are ok

Just an update as my OTD was yesterday. The line was darker again on the FRER so called the clinic with the positive result and they booked me in for a scan on Sept 13th.

schoolteacher - How did they calculate your due date? If I use last period then I am due Apr 27th but if I use conception date (EC) then I am due May 1st. So don't know if I am 5 weeks today or 4+2?

Hope everyone else is well

 

[schoolteacher]

Unfortunately they use EC date, does put us back a bit as i oroginally worked it out on lmp too. but they are right because the scan measured exactly what they had said. X

 

[g3mz]

Hi everyone hope you are all well

Well the last week has been a nightmare and it's not over yet
I had bloods done on Wednesday and was supposed to go back Friday for more so dh moved his work around (lucky he's self employed!) so he could go with me but on Thursday morning the clinic rang and said my blood had clotted and couldn't be tested so could I go straight in so they could take more! By then dh was in Manchester! Our son had gone with him but I was at home with my daughter so had to take her in with me was really hard to face the clinic again so soon and without dh but I stayed strong for my daughter. So then I went back sat for more bloods and I then get told that they had found my original blood test??? Apparently it had got lost not clotted I felt really annoyed at being lied to! Anyway they said the levels had gone from 120 to 119 so expected chemical did say they thought I would have started bleeding by now tho but still nothing!
Was told to ring Sunday for results to see how much it had dropped by but when I phoned at 9.45 the time they had told me to they said they would ring me back! But they didn't!! By now I was getting fed up felt now it was Over they didn't seem to care?
They finally ring me this morning! Told me the results weren't ready yesterday. Said my levels had gone up to 135 so the doctor wants me in to be scanned at 9am 2moro. I was told they don't expect to see anything but they have to check as its gone up. I just feel like the longer this is going on the harder it's making it!! Especially for dh he knows with my daughter I was told I had misscarried from hcg levels only to have a healthy baby seen 2weeks later so I think he still holds some hope but I know I was told with her there was a possibility I had lost a twin and that's why my levels were up and down and if not it was a miracle! I know it's not the case this time.

Me and dh have always been really close but now we are closer than ever we have decided not to give up! But we may be changing clinics! For a few reasons! We are going to an open evening next week at another clinic!
Very excited about it! Won't be telling any of our friends or family about it this time (that was our plan this time but excitement got the better of us lol)

Praying this is not ectopic but I know the slow rising levels could be a sign of it! Guess I will find out more 2moro!!

 

[Tryandwish]

g3mz - So happy for you that you and DH have got closer and decided to not give up. Positive attitude will get you everywhere. Might take some time and heartache along the way but you'll get what you need Seen a story on telly this morning about a woman who gave birth at 24 weeks - baby survived, got pregnant again and she gave birth at 23 weeks and baby died in her arms, pregnant again, gave birth at 20 weeks and baby died in her arms and finally with 4th pregnancy she had elective c-section at 39+4. Another lady on the same programme had IVF and was succesful, a yr later tried 2nd IVF and had early miscarriage. Tried 3rd IVF got negative result. Tried 4th IVF and only got 1 egg so nothing happened and then they were successful again with the 5th IVF. Don't know if these stories help but I hope they give you some hope for a future cycle. Let us know how your scan goes. Surprised at the attitude of the clinic - forgetting to ring you back and lying to you. If I had that experience I'm sure I would find another clinic too. Let us know how the open evening goes next next week

Thinking of you

 

[Tryandwish]

g3mz - Could they tell you anything more from your scan?

nimbec - How was your appointment? Did you get a scan?

How is everyone else doing?

 

[pcct]

sorry haven't said much in a few days.. so sorry to hear about g3 just didnt no what to say thoughts r with u and dh

am doing good tryandwish ty, got my pack today so be calling in morning to make an app and get it all filled out how r u doing?

 

[Tryandwish]

pcct - Your pack only just arrived today?? Did your postman have to print it all and wait for the ink to dry lol? Have you read through much yet?

AFM I'm doing great. Bit worried at times but trying my best to relax and just enjoy it. Addicted to poas of course The next few months might feel like lots of waiting at the time but when you look back it wont really be that long. Hope the time flies for you Let us know when your first appointment is

 

[pcct]

well its funny u say that as i have had a few problems lol my first pack i think got sent else where.. so i rang clinic on monday and said its been 2 weeks and still nothing so she had to send another one out 1 st class and got it today! but for 2 weeks i have not had any mail very unusual to say the least, and i noticed the other day we had a new postman.. came home from work and i had mail for a guy that lived in a diff street and a few people next door had mail from the same door number just doff street, but when i asked if he had any mine he said no but at least i got my pack now!

Yeah i read thru most of it tonight read one while in bath and the other when i came in from work 5 r things to be signed and filled out by us both the other 3 r just all the info 1 which i already have so managed to read it they will be getting a call tomoz to book an app

Aww must be hard to try relax but u got ur poas stocked up have u had any sickness ect

 

[pcct]

https://i1248.photobucket.com/albums/hh488/cheza8/294619_4571834142638_1736741332_n.jpg

Here is a pic of my stuff the 5 from the left are the forms we need to fill out, consent forms and questions ect.. The pink and white from the right and the 2 i had to read thru.. the ones at front i already had from my first app but was nice to get them again

 

[Tryandwish]

Not really had major symptoms which is why i've been worrying a little but keep telling myself its still really early and the pink lines are strong now. Mostly been tired lots, LOVE daytime napping , sore boobs, pulling and stretching sensations around my uterus area, eating less in each sitting but hungry sooner so eating more often, start to feel slightly queasy if I get too hungry, emotional (almost crying at strangers stories on telly - very odd for me! Think thats about it. DH thinks I'm a little loopy 'coz I will be happy to be sick.

First pregnancy buy (after all the tests lol) was a fetal doppler (Sonoline B) from ebay for $56 (bout £35) from China though so waiting 'bout 3 weeks for it to arrive and might pick up hb by then

Looks like you got more info in your pack than mine had. Mine was all like info booklets. No forms to star filing in. They got sent when we made the first appointment.

I'm falling asleep writing this forcing myself to put laptop down.



p.s Another symptom - Loving eating fish. I've never been much of a fish eater but cod is best and it has to be fillets of fish. Reconstituted doesn't cut it like fish cakes or fishfingers.

 

[nimbec]

Yey the packs arrived!! Let us know hen you get your appt!

Tryandwish I'm sure everything is just fine, I was worried about not feeling unwell - ha well now I'm awful so please enjoy being ok I had my scan yesterday and baby was perfect measuring a day ahead with a good strong hb I'm so happy ad also a bit more relaxed now, only 3 and a bit weeks to the 12 week mark hoping I'll be able to enjoy the pg then rather than being constantly worried about loosing my bean.

How is everyone doing? G3 I hope you're ok (((hugs)))

 

[pcct]

Not really had major symptoms which is why i've been worrying a little but keep telling myself its still really early and the pink lines are strong now. Mostly been tired lots, LOVE daytime napping , sore boobs, pulling and stretching sensations around my uterus area, eating less in each sitting but hungry sooner so eating more often, start to feel slightly queasy if I get too hungry, emotional (almost crying at strangers stories on telly - very odd for me! Think thats about it. DH thinks I'm a little loopy 'coz I will be happy to be sick.

First pregnancy buy (after all the tests lol) was a fetal doppler (Sonoline B) from ebay for $56 (bout £35) from China though so waiting 'bout 3 weeks for it to arrive and might pick up hb by then

Looks like you got more info in your pack than mine had. Mine was all like info booklets. No forms to star filing in. They got sent when we made the first appointment.

I'm falling asleep writing this forcing myself to put laptop down.



p.s Another symptom - Loving eating fish. I've never been much of a fish eater but cod is best and it has to be fillets of fish. Reconstituted doesn't cut it like fish cakes or fishfingers.

Thats good the pink line is getting stronger when is ur scan?
well the pink and blue form one os for oh one for me thats really just bout us, filled one in b4 our first app- question like how long have we been together, how long have we been ttc ect. will have it all done for when we get our app
I love fish as well i could have it every night for tea ur symptoms sound good!

Yey the packs arrived!! Let us know hen you get your appt!

Tryandwish I'm sure everything is just fine, I was worried about not feeling unwell - ha well now I'm awful so please enjoy being ok I had my scan yesterday and baby was perfect measuring a day ahead with a good strong hb I'm so happy ad also a bit more relaxed now, only 3 and a bit weeks to the 12 week mark hoping I'll be able to enjoy the pg then rather than being constantly worried about loosing my bean.

How is everyone doing? G3 I hope you're ok (((hugs)))

I will sure let u all no when my app will be, just away to ring up now and get it booked

 

[pcct]

Rang up and i have an app on the 5th oct

 

[nimbec]

Yay whoo hoo the ball is rolling!!! Fab news Hun

 

[pcct]

isnt it just i cant wait its the day after my hospital app