Starting egg share buddy wanted.

[Hope41more]

I'm really sorry mumof5. I'm also shocked they won't accept you as a donor due to your sons autism. I hope you find the funds for tubal reversal and get your dream of having another baby.
*However one thing I would like to note is I have studied in length (in my degree) the link between the MMR vaccine and Autism and I can honestly say it was a case of scientific misconduct that caused an unwarranted health scare*
Wakefield was found guilty for severe misconduct by the general medical council and was struck off the medical register which means he cannot even practise as a doctor. I am so for the MMR vaccine and I cannot believe the impact this man is still having on childrens health.

 

[bettybee1]

hope - i think it ridiculous about the MMR !!! look theres a massive out break in swansea now and alot of people are getting sick when they wouldnt if they had had there MMR i know plenty of mums who decided against giving their children vaccinations its wrong

 

[g3mz]

Quick question hope someone is online lol would you say this is a positive opk? It's been years sinse iv used them? x

 

[g3mz]

I had my scan this morning and my follie was 17mm nurse gave me a load of opks and told me to start testing 2moro now I confess I have a poas addiction even with opks lol so did that just now and I'd say that was positive? But just want to make sure someone thinks the same before calling the clinic? x

 

[MUMOF5]

Definitely a positive imo

 

[g3mz]

Yay!! Iv just phoned my clinic and they will plan my transfer and ring me back x

 

[MUMOF5]

Ooh exciting best of luck g3mz x

 

[bettybee1]

Defo positive hunnie !!!! Woop woop I know this is a stupid question but on a natural FET cycle is it posssible too catch your natural egg and the embryo they put back ??? X

 

[g3mz]

I can't see why it couldn't be possible? Impossible for me tho as dh has no motile sperm!
Well I'm glad I didn't wait until 2moro like the nurse suggested I might av missed it!! My follie has been growing around 1.5mm a day and was 17 at 9am she said that I would ovulate when it was between 18 and 20? Must av known I was getting impatient lol x

 

[g3mz]

good luck for your scan today pcct

hope, how are things with you and oh now? better i hope?

bumski not long now until ur 4d scan!! bet you cant wait!

gosh tryandwish must be due soon! hope she has her new home sorted

hope everyone else is well

my clinic rang me back yesterday and said im in for transfer next thursday! they will ring early morning to confirm that it has thawed ok and tell us what time. i know they told us i think it was only 2 eggs in the past 3 years have not survived the thaw it still plays on my mind with the luck i get! crazy to think this time next week i should be PUPO

 

[pcct]

Oh for god sake I have missed so much so so sorry ladies .... Hey mumof5
Hey g3 fantastic u are going for your transfer soon eeek u be pupo before u know it
Hey bettybee how is things going for u? Hey bumski
God am so sorry for not keeping up I lost the thread and found its again and completely forgot to post hope everyone is doing well

 

[bumski]

oh wow g3mz, cant believe i mised your opk!!
that is a brill pos, i wish i could get them like that when ttc lol. brilliant news about transfer, i wouldnt worry about thaw, i completely understand where your coming from as i was the same and thought that mine would be the minority not to survive but out of all the FET women iv spoke to iv not known any loose any during thaw.
So you gonna brave this one out and wait until otd? x

betty hows things coming on with you? x

congrats on your scan pcct?

hows everyone else doing? x

im having alot of problems working with the in laws and im seriously at the end of the road, i wanted to work until it became more or less impossible due to size but im trying to get my mat leave in order asap before i loose the plot (very long story) im going to concentrate on building my own business back up when on maternity leave so i dont have to go back. They are seriously trying to control my life and im a really independant person so it just grinds me. anyway enough moaning from me lol x

 

[g3mz]

Moan away bumski sometimes it helps to vent your frustration!

I do intend to wait until otd this time I'm not upsetting myself before I have to! I'm going to enjoy every minute of this tww!

Betty is it this week you start stimms??

Mumof5 it has played on my mind ever since you were turned down for egg share..............surely if asd was a genetic problem that you had it would show on a chromosome test isn't that why they do them for egg share??
Ladies please correct me if I'm wrong as I'm not always the brightest lol

I thought I would fail my chromosome test as my daughter had fluid on her brain and has Gdd and always felt it was my fault, then my boy with his asd but my tests came back ok? And my doctor signed consent that there was no reason I couldn't?
It just seems so unfair?

 

[MUMOF5]

Mumof5 it has played on my mind ever since you were turned down for egg share..............surely if asd was a genetic problem that you had it would show on a chromosome test isn't that why they do them for egg share??
Ladies please correct me if I'm wrong as I'm not always the brightest lol

I thought I would fail my chromosome test as my daughter had fluid on her brain and has Gdd and always felt it was my fault, then my boy with his asd but my tests came back ok? And my doctor signed consent that there was no reason I couldn't?
It just seems so unfair?

Thanks for thinking of me g3mz, apparently it would not show on a chromosomal test . I'm ok with it now, we have sat down and made a plan and we have worked out that with next years student loan, we should have the money for me to have reversal done next April/May. It is a shame though, as I really would have felt a great sense of achievement to have known that Id given another woman the chance to have a baby. Best of luck for next week x

 

[g3mz]

Hi ladies

I am officially PUPO! And sooooooooo hope this will be 3rd time lucky!!

How is everyone??

Have you started stims yet Betty? x

 

[bettybee1]

Yeah for being PuPo wahoooo!!!! Was your frostie a blast or 3d ?

When did u have transfer ?

No haven't started yet as my af is late very annoyed lol bloody typical !!x

 

[g3mz]

Hope it turns up soon for you betty! i was late this cycle always when we need it!!

Transfer was today 4aa blast otd 1st may! Am going to try hold out until then! Better to enjoy being PUPO than upset myself sooner than I have to! But really hope it works 3rd time lucky nd all that! x

 

[bettybee1]

I really hope it works for you too hunnie !!!! So your 1st cycle you got preg so at least you know It does work !!!!

I don't know how you will wait at all !! Xxxx

 

[pcct]

Hun congrats being pupo!!! I had a 4aa blast transferred too can't wait to hear your wonderful exicting news on the 1st may

 

[bumski]

yay g3mz, thats brilliant news!!! i had a 4bb and a 4bc transfered, you have a cracking little embie in there!!! this has to work, its going to drag now lol xx

had my 4d scan last night, it was brill but not as clear as id hoped, once i mentioned babys spine she spent 10 mins trying to find whats wrong with it which annoyed me as it was a £120 scan and i didnt pay for her to have a nosey, also she said i have excessive fluid and am i being scanned again as this needs to be mentioned to a dr! so not the most positive but atleast i got a little peek of my little lady, she looks like a little porker lol, will upload pic when i get chance.
back to see the specialist on mon so fx baby is still doing well. im in constant pain around my ribs now, feels like iv been punched in them and cant sit for more than 10 mins but drs said its not pregnancy related so not sure what it is.

hope your all well, hope, how is baby treating you? x