Starting egg share buddy wanted.

[bumski]

ya know i think sonographers of all kinds need a degree in bitchyness and cockyness! iv had my fill of them lol. had a couple of really cool ones but the majority treat you like a number and dont like to get into any detail about anything with you. keeping my fx theres lots going on in there as we speak, which there must be otherwise the dr would have agreed to up your dose x

 

[bettybee1]

Yeah am slef funding through my nhs hosptial !!! And it's the nurses at the assisted conception unit that do everything but there's a few that are moody but today she beyond that she was plain dam rude! After my scan she was like have you brought your vial of gonal I was like no it's in the fridge at home no one told me too bring it in, I only brought my unopened drugs !! She literally shouted at me an said well that purple bag we have you your supposed too bring it too every app!!! And we can mix more till we see the other vial!!! She was like if you need more which I will you will have too make a trip tmro when it's convenient for us!! Cheek!!!

Then I had too make and app for fri te receptionist was like is this time ok te nurse was like no much later than that ( u had just told her o need the earkier one posa for work the app strt at 7 !! ) so se was then like where fully booked o was like wtf you have just said there annearly one!! She then said the only time we have I 8:30 I was like I can't am working I do home care and can't miss patient calls , she was like sorry really sarcastic and she laughed under her breath and said that's the earliest we can do ! And you might be waiting a while as we have to slot you in !! She didn't even say bye never smiled once ! Was really cocky !! I was on my own if I had being with luke he would of kicked off , but maybe she wouldn't have spoke too me like that if he was their but the waiting room was full and she was really loud ! I walked out feeling so embarrassed I just bury into tears cryed all the way tol UNi felt like a right dick !!!!

My husband told me too ring them back up and complain so after dinner I rang them a diff nurse answered I explained i can't make the app I an do earlier or on my break at 10:45 she was lovely she said straight away of course we can move it bless her !!

Iam hoping I don't get the horrid nurse on Friday if I do and she's funny with me again ! I might actually ask her what her problem is !!! Am not being funny but am self funding and haven't done ought wrong so what the need tol be so nasty ! She simply shouldn't be in the job !!!! Bitch !!! Maybe becoz she was overweight and not attractive !! And Iam only 21 and walked in with a full face of makeup on hair done etc he probley couldn't stand it ! Some people get funny like that ! If I get another nurse am Gunna complain about her too them haha!!!!! They will probley agree with me !! The moody fart !!

Rant over haha!!!

 

[g3mz]

Omg Betty the staff at your clinic sound horrible!! It's such a hard time emotionally I'm lucky all the staff at my clinic are fab and very understanding ( first clinic wasn't so great nice enough nurses but lack of sympathy when I was misscarrying) if you get her again and she's still a bitch I'd make a complaint about her, how many other women is she upsetting everyday?

Like bumski said so much can happen in the matter of days on stimms, get a hot water bottle on them! x

 

[bettybee1]

Yeah luke said he will make a complaint about her if shes horrid again it was the way she was talking too me really loud and cocky they're s no need at all !!!! Normally when people are like that I say something or get mad and like say have you got a problem !! But I just had a lump in my throat she made feel feel like I shouldnt be having ivf or something anyway fack her!!!the silly trout!

Just want my follies too be bigger !!!!

Have you tested with superdrug today gmz??

 

[bumski]

omg what a bitch!!! i agree, put her on the spot and ask her outright if she has a problem with you as she is making you feel that way, she will prob shut up. she probably is jealous the horrid cow!
hope fri is better for you, make sure you put an official complaint in if shes like that again x

 

[bettybee1]

Thanks I hope Friday is better too ! Hate that place brrrr!!!!

Private clinics are so much better they give you more info And stuff aswell
!xxx

 

[pcct]

Bettybee- what a horrible nurse u had yesterday like the girls say ivf is such an emotional roller coaster as it is never mind people treating u like that!! However you do make me laugh with the things u say

How's it test looking today g3?

 

[Hope41more]

gmz3- We will always be here for you and agree without you girls I would have struggled more during the tough times (ie a lot lol). Hope you have woke up beaming
Betty- I would def make a formal complaint if she is nasty to you again. like others have said its emotional enough without the added stress.
Hope everyone else is well and happy.
Well I'm not (fore warning for a rant!!!) Oh had to cancel our counselling today as its at 330pm latest time they can offer and he is self employed and has to work and can't nip away today- fair enough (even though i'm disappointed I understand) Well he has his own flat round the corner from my house, bought as an investment and security (commitment phobic) and since LTTTC he slowly but surely ended up moving from mine to living there (long story) I bought a £700 mattress as we both have bad backs chose it together couple of years ago and he said from moment we got it it hurts his back as it's too soft- now he uses it as an excuse not to stay at mine (never does!) and tells me to buy another!!! (I paid for first one too and when I sleep in it on my own its the best matress ever!) So when kids are sleeping at friends etc I sleep at his. Also since my washer broke I have been doing my washing there (work being done in utility and don't want a new one being damaged)
***main rant!!!*** well last night I was going to his to do my washing and neither of us have kids all weekend so planned on staying at his. I get a phone call to say a lad we know is moving in as he has fallen out with his girlfriend AGAIN!!! Now they are not what I call friends have never been out socialising together EVER met through work contacts and only time he is in contact with OH is when he wants to sleep on his couch (Oh flat is 1bed) I'm furious!!!!!!!!!!! He never asked me if it was ok, I have been going round for a few hours on a night to do my washing and spend time with him, he won't stay at mine and we now can't spend the weekend at his and sex will be no more either He says i'm controlling and I say he's an arse hole who should have thought about how this would effect US I'm sick of him acting single and having no thought for me at all. Like I say this guy is not a 'friend' only uses him for free board and lodgings when he splits up with his misses so much so he always keeps the spare key!!!!!!!!!!!! Oh spent last friday and sat with his mother and daughter, then went straight out with the lads and stayed at his friends and was soooo hungover sunday afternoon I saw him for 2hrs I feel like he is having his cake and eating it and I have had enough!!!!!!!!!!

 

[g3mz]

Awe hope oh sounds like he's being a right prick! And it's not fair on you at all!!! He needs to grow up by the sounds of it and realise what he's got!! Hope your ok!! x

I forgot to test when I woke up
So tested about 3 hours later not much difference really the pic was taken on my iPad so it's not that good and it does look slightly darker in real life.
I had few pains last night it scared me a little but I'm ok today x

 

[pcct]

Hope sorry he's being a idiot!! I really hope thing will finally get sorted! Hope ur ok

G3 loving the progress of your tests can't believe u forgot to test

 

[bumski]

g3mz those tests are looking great!! right on track i would say, i bet its not sinking in yet is it? x

hope, i dont mean to sound rude but your oh sounds like a proper nob!!
if it were me i would be making my own plans without him because it does not seem you can rely on him at all, as for having his cake you are right there!
why does he think its ok for him to live as a single bloke while you carry all the burden of having this baby, i would have to lay down the law before baby is here and tell him to grow the f$$k up and act like the man he needs to be or do one because you are going to find it so much harder once baby is here and hes still treating you like this, i think you have been more than fair by even giving him another chance but its all a bit one sided. You deserve better, and you deserve someone who you can trust and rely on. Hope you manage to sort it out hun xx

 

[bettybee1]

Gmz - your test looks ace ekkk!!!

Hope- he does sound abit of a walley there no need hope you are feeling okay c

 

[bumski]

how you feeling about your scan tomorrow betty? hey not long now and you will be getting a date for er!!! yay!! x

 

[bettybee1]

Feeling really nervous my hopes ain't up at all !! I just don't wanna be disappointment too walk in and they say nothing is happening blah!! You will know the feeling lol

I hope everything goes well and they tell me I ca strt my cetriode and give me a date for EC that would b perfect situation but you just don't bloody know with this roller coaster !!!! !!! X

 

[bumski]

yeah i understand that, will look forward to your update though, and if its not tomorrow, chances are by mon there will be loads going on! lots of luck to you though x

g3mz whats your EDD? is it this year? maybe around xmas x

 

[Hope41more]

g3mz those tests are looking great!! right on track i would say, i bet its not sinking in yet is it? x

hope, i dont mean to sound rude but your oh sounds like a proper nob!!
if it were me i would be making my own plans without him because it does not seem you can rely on him at all, as for having his cake you are right there!
why does he think its ok for him to live as a single bloke while you carry all the burden of having this baby, i would have to lay down the law before baby is here and tell him to grow the f$$k up and act like the man he needs to be or do one because you are going to find it so much harder once baby is here and hes still treating you like this, i think you have been more than fair by even giving him another chance but its all a bit one sided. You deserve better, and you deserve someone who you can trust and rely on. Hope you manage to sort it out hun xx

I totally agree with you, I'm clinging onto counselling helping us but I'm worried I'm clutching at straws. Only he can change, that's if he wants too and I'm really unsure he ever will. For my sake, kids and baby's I need to know I have done my best and tried my hardest to make this relationship work (properly too much if I'm honest and I believe I have lost some respect from my girls because of it and not shown them a good example about what relationships are all about! LTTTC really did mess with my head and now I'm pregnant I feel even more guilty and irresponsible )

 

[Hope41more]

Betty- Good luck with your scan today I hope that woman is better behaved today and if not she needs a nice big fat complaint about her behaviour put in!
gmz3- Oh your tests are fab. I must be the only person who never took a test on here. Clinic did one and that was it. Think repeated tests would drive me crazy! As for bump pics I have done some but want to show the difference so will give nice effect so will post just not yet.
Bumski- I hope you are going to post some photos of your little girls nursery. Wish I had a nursery for my little man, he is going to be squished into my room till I eventually move house then it won't be straight away as will have to build an extension as cheaper to do than buying a 4bedroom. I think he will be in with me till he is at least 2yrs my middle one wants to move away to uni next year but I can't rely on that or take her room off her, my eldest wants to go to uni locally- so pleased as she really is my best friend and I would miss her terribly!!!
pcct-when's your next scan?
Hope everyone else is well.
Well girls bagged myself another bargin got a winnie the pooh swing crib with drapes and bedding off gum tree for £40 So fate again was posted only mins before, has one little dent in top but apart from that its immaculate as her son did not like it (prefered his moses basket) so was not used. It's from babies are us and I love it -

https://www.toysrus.co.uk/Babies-R-...ng-Crib-in-Antique(0084894)?searchPosition=24

https://www.toysrus.co.uk/Babies-R-...t-Crib-Bedding-Set(0047569)?searchPosition=13

So with the extras etc I probably saved about £140 Between that and my pram I have saved about £575 You would be shocked at how new they are. Working out well so my saving can be kept for when I need to move house.

 

[g3mz]

You really are getting some bargains hope!!

Betty hope your scan went well?

Bumski I'm a little confused with how to date it? As it was on a natural cycle do I date it like a normal pregnancy? As that would give me dec 31st as due date but if I use the 5day fet calculator online it gives me jan 3rd? Will ask my clinic when I call on Wednesday but il prob need to have another c-section like my other 2 so will be a week or 2 before then, typical as ds is dec 28th and dd jan 15th expensive time of year!! It still hasn't quite sunk in! Was very happy with my test progression today! I love it!! x

 

[bumski]

g3mz those tests are looking brilliant! this baby is getting well snuggled in there, im so so glad its turning out perfectly for you.
They worked my dates out like an ivf cycle, i.e they went back as if ov was 5 days before et and then as if my cycle started 14 days before that, if you get me lol. x

hope, i dont blame you for trying hun your only human and esp after all the ttc you have been through of course you dont want your relationship to fail now. in all honesty this baby may just be the making of oh and he will realise what hes got when he sees him x
p.s i absolutely adore that swinging crib!!!! x

so girls i may be jumping the gun here but i have a funny feeling a certain person in dhs family is reading everything i write on here, im not 100% sure but i will find out, as she knows im always on here. If YOU are reading this then thanks very much for invading my privacy! im not happy about it as you told me today i wont be when i find out what you have done. Just hope i have got it wrong as this is like spying on me, i come on here and write things i dont even tell my best friend and if you feel the need to check up on me you have shown what type of person you really are!!!

 

[g3mz]

Omg bumski if you are being spyed on that's awful!! And if they are reading they should be ashamed of them self!!!!!!! Hope your ok x