I have a poem I want to share though, it's helped me and I hope it helps you too.
A Different Child by Pandora MacMillian
People notice, there's a special glow around you.
You glow, surrounded with love.
Never doubting you are wanted;
only look at the pride and joy,
in your mother & fathers eyes.
And if sometimes, between the smiles,
there's a trace of tears,
one day you'll understand.
You'll understand,
there was once another child,
a different child,
who was in their hopes and dreams.
That child will never outgrow the baby clothes.
That child will never keep them up at night.
In fact, that child will never be any trouble at all.
Except sometimes in a silent moment,
when mother & father miss so much,
that different child.
May hope & love wrap you warmly,
& may you learn the lesson forever.
How infinetely precious,
how infinetely fragile,
Is this life on earth.
One day, as a young man or woman,
you may see another mothers tears.
Another father's silent grief
Then you, and you alone,
will understand & offer the greatest comfort.
When all hope seems lost, you will tell them,
with great compassion.
"I know how you feel, I'm only here
because my mother tried again."
Sadmummy. For a long time after I lost my little boy, I would wake at night hearing him cry. I even got up a few times to see to him before I realised he wasn't there. I'm so sorry you're feeling so much pain today and I just really wanted you to know that I will be thinking of you. 
sweetie and, although you don't really know me if you need to talk to someone you are welcome to pm me. Take care hunni xxxxxxx
My heart breaks for you! I wish Alfie waas here with you 
I bet hes beautiful!!
I think I met you on another forum the other day. Good luck TTC x x x
