StillBirths, Neo-Natal Loss & SID's?!

[babybaillie]

I lost my baby boy at 22 weeks when he was born asleep. That was back in 2003. We now have a beautiful 4 year old daughter and im expecting another daughter in jan.

All your angels are gorgeous. Its heartbreaking to realise how many of us there are out there. I only wish id known of this site back when i really needed it

 

[Nik09]

My Freya was born sleeping at 21+1, in June 2008 due to me having an incompetent cervix.

Nik xxx

 

[rachelrhin0]

My first girl Carly was born at 28w3d. She lived in the NICU for 4 months before passing away from a heart defect. She was born on 11/15/07 and passed on 3/9/08. Our 2nd daughter was stillborn at 32w2d on 11/7/08. There was no cause found for her death.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6r-1q-G3kRk

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E6-kR5hACpc

 

[DiddyDons]

My first girl Carly was born at 28w3d. She lived in the NICU for 4 months before passing away from a heart defect. She was born on 11/15/07 and passed on 3/9/08. Our 2nd daughter was stillborn at 32w2d on 11/7/08. There was no cause found for her death.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6r-1q-G3kRk

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E6-kR5hACpc

I am so very sorry for your loss of your 2 very beautiful daughters, I really am. Life is so very cruel. I lost my little girl and my only child 19months ago for no known reason aswell. I am here if you need to talk.

 

[netty]

The girls are so beautiful what lovely tributes

 

[netty]

rachelrhin0




The girls are so beautiful what lovely tributes

 

[rachelrhin0]

Thank you ladies. Getting through Carly's loss was a little easier b/c I was pregnant with Hannah. I haven't been pregnant again since Hannah. I've wanted to be though. DH and I are going to try again in December. I think NOT being pregnant so soon afer a loss this time has made me actually face the music and grieve like a person should after a loss.

 

[DiddyDons]

If you ever need us to talk about anything hun then we are all here for you. I am just so very sorry. to loose one baby is heartbreaking enough ..... x x x

 

[hayley x]

rachelrhin0 - I watched your daughters videos on youtube just a few days ago through a link from my sons, I cried through most of it and couldnt even watch all of it but did go back and watch it later on. massive xxx

 

[Tsia]

so sad reading your stories, hearing your heartaches. the world is so cruel . hugs to you all- ~~ I can only imagine what you may be going through. xx

 

[Momof2kiddos]

my sisters friend abbey lost her little girl a few days ago, abbey is 15 years old. her little girl maddy stopped moving when she was 25 weeks pregnant, they induced her and found the cord was wrapped twice around the babys neck. she was born sleeping.

https://www.youtube.com/user/AbbeySays#play/favorites/1/Rjd5RzXBaXc

 

[DiddyDons]

I am so sorry to hear about Abby's little girl Shes beautiful and so cute. She reminds me of my little girl because they look about the same size. So tragic that she has gone through this so young at the tender age of 15

Thanks for sharing. Im sure little Maddy and my Sophie are playing together in the clouds x x x x

 

[Momof2kiddos]

I am so sorry to hear about Abby's little girl Shes beautiful and so cute. She reminds me of my little girl because they look about the same size. So tragic that she has gone through this so young at the tender age of 15

Thanks for sharing. Im sure little Maddy and my Sophie are playing together in the clouds x x x x

im so sorry to hear about your little girl im sure you are right about them playing together in the clouds

 

[WantingABubba]

I am soooo sorry for everybodys losses. It is truly the most tragic thing that can happen to anybody.

We lost our precious son aged 14 months on 10th November 08. He had a high temp after his MMR and died in his cot. The doctors put it down as SID's but we still believe that the MMR caused his death. I don't think we will ever stop grieving his death. I miss him more than words can describe.

3 weeks after losing out DS we found out I was pregnant but lost it at 7wks. Found out I was pregnant 2 weeks ago and currently loosing this one as I type. Am heartbroken.

Oh honey! How heartbreaking and unfair - I am deeply, deeply sorry, and thinking of you.

You're all so strong, ladies. You may not feel it but you are. You've been/are going through one of the worst things imaginable, and you're still here - surviving. Well done to all of you, and please accept my apologies, hugs and empathy xxxx

 

[WantingABubba]

hi guys,
i have had 16 consecutive miscarriages all between 8-12 weeks in the last 5 years, a ten week ectopic last august and then finally after a much wanted pregnancy on the 15th july 2009 my daughter grew her wings at 34+3weeks. she had multiple cord accidents(nuchalx2.5 tight, 2xtrue knots, complete body entanglement, compression, stricture, torsion) that caused her to have seizures, one day she had a massive seizure and her little heart couldn't cope anymore. she was born 3 days later asleep on 18th july 2009, 5lb 3oz and perfect in every way. she just fell asleep,
we miss all our babies every day,xxx

my daughter Lilly-Maye, xxx

So, so sorry she is beautiful, and so are you.

I hope this doesn't cause any offence, but have you been to a specialist due to the number of mcs you've had? They may be able to pinpoint a problem.

Again, I am so sorry :'( xxx

 

[Tasha]

Oh wow this is an old thread, and oddly two years to the day later to when this thread was posted and when I responded, also, I was discovering another of my little girls had died.

 

[Tasha]

my sisters friend abbey lost her little girl a few days ago, abbey is 15 years old. her little girl maddy stopped moving when she was 25 weeks pregnant, they induced her and found the cord was wrapped twice around the babys neck. she was born sleeping.

https://www.youtube.com/user/AbbeySays#play/favorites/1/Rjd5RzXBaXc

This is so sad. I cant imagine going through that so young I saw another video of hers and clicked on it, and she is pregnant again due April 18th next year, I hope she gets her rainbow

 

[hayley x]

feel sick reading this again Alex had been dead less than a week when I posted, now it feels he was never here at all

 

[Tasha]

feel sick reading this again Alex had been dead less than a week when I posted, now it feels he was never here at all

Massive Hayley, it is hard when you feel so far away from your baby.

I was up til 4am cos I couldnt stop thinking about all that we have been through since I posted on here the first time. If only I had known that my life would be destroyed again

 

[hayley x]

feel sick reading this again Alex had been dead less than a week when I posted, now it feels he was never here at all

Massive Hayley, it is hard when you feel so far away from your baby.

I was up til 4am cos I couldnt stop thinking about all that we have been through since I posted on here the first time. If only I had known that my life would be destroyed again

it really is so unfair the grief is enormous losing just the one baby but to grieve for 2, well its impossible to imagine the only comfort is you know they have eachother xxx