I've mostly packed my bag, did it like a week or two ago. Here's my list, even though I know you all have different needs since our healthcare is so different!
for me:
toiletries (shampoo, conditioner, soap, lotion, mouthwash, deodorant, toothpaste/brush)
nipple creme
nursing pads
cheap undies
sanitary pads
2 cheap sets of pj's
comfy going home outfit
chapstick
basic makeup items
hair brush
hair ties
flip flops that can be worn in shower
nursing bra
nursing cami
slippers
for baby:
2 going home outfits (newborn size and 0-3 mo size)
hat, scratch mittens, socks
blanket for drive home
receiving blanket
carseat
for OH:
toiletries
2 pair socks
2 pair undies
2 t-shirts
1 pair of lounge pants
aleve (he gets bad headaches and will be grateful i remembered!)
Energy drinks
time wasters
extras:
change for vending machines
scented plug in for room
digital and video cameras, chargers
computer, charger, dvd’s
2 towels and garbage bag for the car (lay down garbage bag on seat then towel on top in case water breaks on the way to the hospital. Also can be used for ride back home in case bleeding is heavy - no "accidents"!)