hi girls!
I haven't caught up on posts but thought i'd write quick version of my birth story while Ivy is sleeping.
I have only slept for one hour last night so can't believe i'm even here yet, back on BNB!
Well as you girls know I lost my plug yesterday morning.. was cramping throughout the morning then around 11am they started to get really quite painful, but weren't regular enough, about every 7-12 mins.
Liam decided to come home from work and we timed the contractions. They were getting stronger but not more regular, even at 4pm I had a break of 17 mins between them! I walked around A LOT (which really helped as pains were stronger when I did) even had lunch in crouch end and ice cream later!! I was contracting while ordering my meal, couldn't even speak to the waitress.
At about 5pm i felt i needed to go the hospital... was really painful in the cab and I started crying after one particularly bad one!!
Well, got to hosptial.... typical Birth centre was FULL, labour ward with pools fULL - I got examined in the Triage - can you believe I was already 5cm dilated!!! I was crying for epdiural at this stage, they wheeled me to labour ward as i couldn't walk, and i cant' tell you how my contractions just intensified after that point, I was wailing and screaming for pain relief!! Turns out I dilated extremley quickly and within 20 minutes felt like pushing, the anethitist came then but it was too late!! I was screaming for him to stay but they said I had to push the baby out. I hated the G&A as felt like it slowed down the labour and distracted me.. so i had NO pain relief whatsoever... I wasn't trying to be hero... I was really really panicking that i wasn't having any..
I arrived at triage at 5.40pm, got examined at 6pm and had Ivy at 6.57pm.
Very very very quick labour and i was in total shock and shaking.. I had a second degree tear unfortunatley and did have gas and air then which actually felt good. felt like they took ages to stitch me up too.
I've had no sleep because all the private rooms were full, plus birth centre - so i was stuck on the post natal ward full of cyring babies last night. My whole birth plan went up in smoke, i gave birth the total opposite of what i wanted but i'm really glad i got through it and actually feel very proud of myself!!! Even if it was hectic!
Ivy is latching on really well, my nipples are sooo sore already!!
Liam has posted a pic of me and ivy on FB, I'll post some here when i have time. She has TONS of hair and looks exactly like her daddy!!
Sorry turned out to be a long birth story!
And here's some labour luck and dust to all you cupcakes
I'll still be around addicted to BnB and our thread so will check in again soon and catch up on posts when I can
Love, Lilly xxxx