Hello my lovelies,
How are we all doing? I had to take a break from this site as it was all getting on top of me.
Since I last posted I've been to see a Counsellor, it was helpful to talk things through but didn't really tell me anything I didn't already know. I really couldn't believe it though because I met an ex work colleague for lunch the same day and she told me she was pregnant! Of all the days!! I managed to somehow hold it together for the rest of the day before coming back in the house and breaking down in tears (again!) in front of DH.
I also had my follow up yesterday, to cut a long story short (more details in my journal for anyone who is interested) I'm now awaiting an appointment to have a lap and dye and it looks like my plan to start my third attempt at the end of March is out the window.
Obviously I'm hoping the lap and dye will show that we should carry on trying naturally but I just feel once again my life is not in control and I'm sick of it!! I also couldn't believe how sad I felt yesterday at the clinic, I felt a failure because I couldn't conceive naturally and a failure because I couldn't conceive with IVF. Not a good feeling!
Anyway from what I have picked up from other posts:
Silarose - really hope your follies pick up for your next scan. Am thinking of you
Lolly - its rubbish when friends get pregnant, I hope you feel better soon
MSG - quality not quantity, hope your ET goes well
Inky - hope your snow babies are thawing nicely
Lou - how did your follow up go?
Hi to everyone else, sorry if I have missed anything important - it takes a while to catch up!
H xx