Inky2006
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Hi, just wanted to start a thread for anyone who has failed IVF/ICSI this year just as abit of a support and to discuss ways of moving forward, with lots of positivity. Also, tips on finding PMA. Obviously if anyone wants to add a success story that would be great after 1st or 2nd failed attempt or more.
Just abit about myself. I am 34, very nearly 35. DH and I have been trying to concieve since October 2008. We found out at the beginning of this year husband has a sperm count of 3million with virtually all abnormal everything. Fortunately I am okay. Roll on September 2010 and 1 failed IVF/ICSI. The emotional toll this has taken on me has really hit me by surprise. Anyhow, am determined to move on and look towards the future. So please join me.
In order to make myself feel better the first thing I have done is book myself some pampering activities. What have others done?
June 2011
Just wanted to edit this and let you know I'm pregnant now. 21 weeks infact. I eventually got pregnant on the second round with frozen embroyos. There is not one day when I don't forget the journey that I have experienced. Its still quite raw. Despite being pregnant, everyday throughout this pregnancy I am scared. Also I think we spend such a long time wanting a baby that when we are pregnant alot of us can't enjoy it. This makes me sad.
Anyway, when I created this thread I was unbelievably low. It helped me a great deal. It also helps to know you aren't alone in the world. I gained great comfort from other people's strength. I hope others will continue to get support like I did. Bye for nowxx
Just an update again. February 2012
I havent been on bnb for a while. I just haven't had time. Harriet Georgina was born on the 30/10/11 weighing 7.7IBS. She was delivered by emergency c-section and she is now nearly 4 months. Just wanted to edit this thread and change the date because I still haven't forgotten the support it I gained from it. I hope you too will get support from it. xx
Update 2014
Now have a second icsi child who is 6.5 months old. After Harriet I ended up with an underactive thyroid and raised natural killer cells. I had steriods in this pregnancy. Of you failed ivf/ icsi keep going. Also suggest you get tested for natural killer cells as this can impact on embroyo implantation. We got there in the end, and what a journey, wishing everyone luck, this page really helped me!
Just abit about myself. I am 34, very nearly 35. DH and I have been trying to concieve since October 2008. We found out at the beginning of this year husband has a sperm count of 3million with virtually all abnormal everything. Fortunately I am okay. Roll on September 2010 and 1 failed IVF/ICSI. The emotional toll this has taken on me has really hit me by surprise. Anyhow, am determined to move on and look towards the future. So please join me.
In order to make myself feel better the first thing I have done is book myself some pampering activities. What have others done?
June 2011
Just wanted to edit this and let you know I'm pregnant now. 21 weeks infact. I eventually got pregnant on the second round with frozen embroyos. There is not one day when I don't forget the journey that I have experienced. Its still quite raw. Despite being pregnant, everyday throughout this pregnancy I am scared. Also I think we spend such a long time wanting a baby that when we are pregnant alot of us can't enjoy it. This makes me sad.
Anyway, when I created this thread I was unbelievably low. It helped me a great deal. It also helps to know you aren't alone in the world. I gained great comfort from other people's strength. I hope others will continue to get support like I did. Bye for nowxx
Just an update again. February 2012
I havent been on bnb for a while. I just haven't had time. Harriet Georgina was born on the 30/10/11 weighing 7.7IBS. She was delivered by emergency c-section and she is now nearly 4 months. Just wanted to edit this thread and change the date because I still haven't forgotten the support it I gained from it. I hope you too will get support from it. xx
Update 2014
Now have a second icsi child who is 6.5 months old. After Harriet I ended up with an underactive thyroid and raised natural killer cells. I had steriods in this pregnancy. Of you failed ivf/ icsi keep going. Also suggest you get tested for natural killer cells as this can impact on embroyo implantation. We got there in the end, and what a journey, wishing everyone luck, this page really helped me!