TCC After Ectopic buddy needed

[saveme]

Saveme- Thank you!!! I was nursing my son still so I had no idea I was prego!! We are super happy since you know all that has happened between my husband and I. I sometimes feel like my husband is more excited for this one because it happened without stress or trying, so it makes him feel better lol. Your daughter is so cute!!!! So precious!!!!

I did all natural birth too! I was in labor for 9 hours total, so not terrible. They actually had to break my water but I was super lucky, once they broke my water, (I pooed too, didn't even care, they wiped it as soon as it was coming out so my husband said he didn't even see it!), I pushed maybe for 30 min and my son was born!! I won't lie though, I had a 2nd degree tear and I felt the burning and THAT WAS EXTREMELY painful. Before my water broke, I could get through the contractions pretty much ok. I did vomit a couple times too, I asked for ginger ale and as soon as I got that I stopped! I am planning on going all natural for this pregnancy too. I am nervous now that I know what to expect, lol but I am hoping I can do it again!

Wow how times have changed to not even realize you were preggy! I know Dh is full of joy knowing you all didn't have to "try" you both just enjoyed each other as man and wife and bam another miracle is on his/her way and as far as going natural again I wish you all the best you can do it! Again!!!

 

[saveme]

Hi Thank you Save me for sharing your awesome news I am currently 31 weeks pregnant 3 years after an ectopic and I'm due on 20th June I cannot wait...I could literally feel your happiness at your little miracle being born and it made me smile and have hope that my little one will be here safe and sound very soon we lost our ectopic baby 13th June people don't know that and they keep saying I hope the baby is born on 13th June (mil birthday ) and I just smile because it would be so weird for me If it was the same day I lost one years later I get to keep another one lol we will see how God works it out lol xx

Your daughter is adorable I saw her pic and my heart melted you are so blessed !!

Amolecchio in the past you have encouraged me thank you for that !!Exciting to hear that you are pregnant again and you and dh can enjoy it that little bit more together since you know you can have healthy baby Loved your labor story xxx I'm hoping to have natural but will not hesitate to call for epidural if I get tired or can't handle the pain

Hoping all the ladies who pass through this thread are not only blessed with a beautiful baby but also find the strength not to ever give up xxxx

Thank you! Oh Hun you're at the end it's so close. I pretty much had that worried feeling too until I held her in my arms how awesome would that be if you had your LO on that date that would be amazing! I hope and pray for a healthy, happy, delivery speedy recovery for both you and baby. Btw boy/girl?

 

[saveme]

Princess-just seen your post congratulations on baby boy. Whenever baby #2 comes alon "no rush" btw I would love a little boy, but I would be fine with either sex.
Am- I want 3children as well.

 

[Amcolecchi]

Saveme-How is your little girl doing?! They grow so fast, I never believed that but it's so true! Hope everything is going great for your family!! Yes, I grew up in a family of 3 kids and I liked how that worked even tho my SIL insists two is good because vacations are for like families of 4 but since I was the only girl and I had two brothers, I usually got to bring my cousin along so it was even so that was nice haha! When do you want to start trying for number 2? Our initial was t o start trying when our son was 1 lol but we got prego before that haha so hopefully something like that will happen for you, it's a lot less stressful for sure!!

 

[Lucy529]

Hi Ladies :wave:

Hope that you all are doing good.

AM CONGRATULATIONS on your second miracle!! So glad that you were able to get preggo easily makes me so happy for you

Saveme your baby girl is adorable congrats. I did try to go natural but after 11 hours of contractions I asked for an epidural they let me go 14 hours with only a 1cm progress so we had to do a c-section. Which lead to a very scary time after the delivery of my son but I would do it all over again

Princess- congrats on the little boy. It is amazing having a son, my little one looked like my hubby after he was born then slowly changed and now he is a mini version of me just much cuter LOL

I am doing well still working on losing weight and we are not trying but not preventing either we are more of if it happens then it will happen. Although to me I want to be preggers asap LOL. Ivan is doing great he is now walking not talking much yet but everyday is an adventure with him. He also has my very short temper and will "talk" back to me when I try to discipline him for doing something bad but of course I end up laughing bc he had his hand in the air going off on me it's so cute i will have to share some pics of him soon

 

[PrincessBree]

Lucy awww your little boy sounds like he is so cute I have literally got baby fever right now I'm getting all gooey at all the little cute babies I see wondering what my one will be like lol I even welled up with tears when I saw the royal baby girl that just been born lol how adorable is she

 

[Amcolecchi]

Lucy-Scary delivery but so happy Ivan was born healthy and everything turned out perfect!! Haha Matteo is the same way! We have a small dog and when Matteo doesn't want certain food or is done he tries to feed him his dinner lol and every time I say no he smiles at me and it's so hard no to laugh. Or if he wants to play with my glasses and I tell him no he gets angry at me and tries to swipe them! It's so funny but I try to discipline him still. I read that this age they are learning their boundaries so even tho they don't listen to when you say no they are still learning! lol ..I hope you do get prego asap!! It was a surprise for us and we were excited, so maybe it will surprise you!!! Sending lots of baby dust your way!! How old is Ivan now? Matteo is 13 months, walking as well and just babbling, He can say Hi, mama and dada and No lol

Princess-when are you due?!? You have to be close right?! I am excited for you!!!

 

[Lucy529]

AM- Ivan just turned 17 months old a few days ago and we too have a dog that he chases and laughs hysterically when the dog is running away from him but we are teaching him how to pet him gently and be nice, our dog is a rescue and hates kids but is protective of Ivan as long as he keeps his distance but he will let Ivan pet him once and then runs away. I am so happy for you and your second little bundle

Princess- yes the royal baby kind of spiked my baby fever even more LOL she is adorable. I know exactly what you mean about being impatient and wanting to meet your baby, I was the same way and constantly wondered what he would look like. It's funny he was born looking like a little version of my hubby and then at about 3 months he began to change and now he is a mini me LOL attitude and all hahaha

 

[Lucy529]

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Here's my little munchkin

 

[Amcolecchi]

Lucy-He is adorable!!!! I love the hair! My son has such light hair and my husband and I have dark hair! But my husband had light hair till like 4-5 years old, so I know it will darken soon!! Hope you get prego asap too!!! Hope all you ladies had a great Mother's Day!!

 

[Lucy529]

AM from your mouth to God's ears, I feel like I am running out of time bc of the endo, the longer I wait the worse it gets.
Ivan's hair is a light brown and thin like mine but he has so much of it. We have to get his hair trimmed every 5-6 weeks but his hair stylist does it for free since she is friends with my boss's wife. We made a huge switch last week, we had been doing disposable diapers but now we are doing cloth, he had a rash that wouldn't go away and now it's been gone for a few days. I tried dif diapers but nothing seemed to help, cloth is not as bad as I thought that it was. And to my surprise my hubby actually likes them a lot more than the disposable LOL

I am trying to get back to the gym but I am having such a hard time but for some reason all i want is to sleep, but i think it had a lot to do with af this time around. TMI but i bled heavily for a few days and then spotted after so it was like 7 days and it just took a lot of my energy but hoping to get back at it soon

For Mother's day we hung out at home we got pizza and made hot dogs, laid all these blankets on the living room floor and just watched movies after I got of work and I got to admit it was the best mothers day Hope you all had a great day too.

 

[Amcolecchi]

Aww that Mother's Day sounds beautiful!!!

About the endo-my mom had it too and when I had my ectopic he told me I had the beginning stages BUT when they were doing my Laparoscopy they basically like scrapped some lining out or whatever lol, have you talked to your doctor about that? We were seeing a Fertility Specialist and he did it and right after that we got prego with Matteo, so maybe that is something you can look into? I mean it's a surgery and you will be sore for a few days and then you will bleed awhile, it took 8 weeks after my surgery to get my period back but I think it was from the ectopic as well so you might not be as long!

I thought about disposable too!! I am hoping tho to potty train soon too! My mom had me potty trained at 13 months and my brothers at 16 months so I am shooting for that but if not, oh well!!

How is everyone doing?

 

[Lucy529]

AM wow you are on top of things. We haven't even thought about potty training yet, heck we are still learning to eat with spoons and forks at the moment. I think maybe once he's older and talks more we might begin to teach him but for now we are enjoying exploring everything.

The dr. did remove as much as she could of the endo when I had the c-section she was the one that told me not to wait to long bc of that and my age too but I have faith that when I least expect it will happen. FX

 

[Amcolecchi]

Haha maybe potty training. He seems to be interested in the toilet because he likes water lol, we have a pool so anytime there is water he thinks it's for play so I am trying to teach him it is not. He signs and talks for certain things but we are hoping to have him potty trained before the next baby comes but we will see, we aren't pushing too hard, if it happens, it happens!

Aww that is good they did work on it! I have faith for you too! I am praying for you! I know there is like certain diets some people swore worked for endo. Do you know the celebrity Tia Mowery? She had endo and was on a certain diet and supposedly it helped her conceive her son, so it might be worth looking into! If you want

 

[PrincessBree]

Lucy your Ivan is just adorable I can see why you call him uour munchkin lol he is just so cute I pray you are blessed with a little brother or sister for him soon.You may be right and it may just happen when you least expect it !Just to echo what Amolecchio said ...Tia Mowry (I love her ) is a good person to look up on he'd story getting pregnant with endo xx It's funny that you say how much your little one has changed over time as we are convinced that I am carrying a little one who is a male version of me lol when we went for the 4d his face was identical to my face!even at just 16 weeks !

Amolecchio I am due in 4 weeks 2 days not that the little ones ever care about due dates and tend to just show up whenever they want to LOL I'm on raspberry leaf tea and trying to stay active as possible.His head is engaged so I'm just hanging out for the next month waiting for him...I just can't wait to see his little face ! Have you all thought of any names of baby number 2 yet ? When will you find out of its a boy or a girl ? Xx

 

[Amcolecchi]

Princess-Yayyy you are so close!! yes, babies never come when they are due haha I heard the statistic of women actually giving birth on the day is like super rare!! Omg yes when I was near the end I walked everywhere!! Hopefully he comes soon for you and you have a good labor and everything is awesome for you guys!!

We are going to find out-eek can't wait lol. My OB doesn't do the blood test where you can find out early, which is fine, so I will get an ultrasound in about 5 weeks. So I am trying to hold out till then HAHA. we do have names! Well I am super Italian and speak it at home so we are sticking with Italian names. For a girl, Selina Maria. A boy, we are still debating but most likely Dante Guido. Guido is my dad's name and brother and a very big family name so we wanted to keep it going! Do you have names!? Good luck!!

 

[Lucy529]

Princess-WOW your so close to meeting your little boy can't wait to see pics of him I hope you have a good delivery

AM love the names, I am lost as to what to name mine if I have another boy, I have gone through some names but so far I am not fond of anything LOL but for a girl we have a few my whole deal is that I want a name that can be pronounced pretty easily in spanish and in english. Can't to find out what you are having.

 

[Amcolecchi]

Yes, we wanted something we could say in Italian and English, so I understand!! I booked my scan for June 29th, can't come quick enough HAHA

How is everyone else feeling? Hope you had a great weekend!

 

[PrincessBree]

AM &Lucy yess ladies I'm in the counting down part of the pregnancy now!! No nesting for me though I'm on crutches because of severe SPD pelvic pain!!AM I love the baby names you have chosen Dante is super cute and Selina Maria kinda reminds me of my name Sabrina Marie....though Sabrina Maria sounds totally more exotic and cute lol ...Lucy I love Spanish names also we threw a few of those around while we were choosing names I really love names that sound exotic!

I'm doing ok just moved into a new place so got lots to do but taking it easy too with my creaky pelvis lol

How is everyone doing ? AM I am super excited for your scan hun !!!

 

[Amcolecchi]

Princess-Haha our girl's names are so similar love them both!! omg sorry to hear about the severe pelvic pain!! Do the crutches help? Definitely rest, the house will come later, you and the baby are more important When are you due again? I know I have literally asked this 1,000 times but my prego brain I can't remember ANYTHING lol..it has to be soon!!!