Team "Pregnant until proven otherwise", come join the fun ladies!

[sarbear4266]

Hey girls,

Well after my mom begged me I broke down and took a HPT..BFN I know that it's really early because I'm only 7dpo but I thought that if a baby really did implant at 5dpo then it should show a faint line. I am really sad & I'm wishing that I never let my mom talk me into taking a test. It was a FRER 6 days before your missed preiod and tomorrow will be 6 days before so wouldn't you think that if I was pg it would have showed something? I don't know if I can do this again next cycle. How do you all do it cycle after cycle? Or is the first cycle the hardest because we let ourselves think that there is no way it won't work. I am just so down now...why the hell did I get my hopes up so high? I really wish I wouldn't of taken that dang test!!!! As for symptoms I have lower back pain, mild cramps, my bbs still feel heavier than normal and today they are mildly sore but all of this is also the same as af so I'm not feeling much hope there. I am sorry that I acted a fool by being so sure that I was pregnant. If I try again (I don't think I am going to though) next cycle then I am so not going to let my mind get so carried away like I did with this cycle!! I will still be praying for all of you to get your BFP'S!!! Gosh I feel just so dumb for getting my hopes up like I did knowing the slim chance of a bfp.

Don't get down! I have taken a test at 6 7 and 8 dpo and I have no idea why! For some reason this 2ww is the hardest yet! DH and I are going to get some jewelry supplies so i can start making some to take my mind off of it. I actually have some great ideas for women ttc Don't feel dumb. NEVER feel dumb! It is a hard thing not to do especially when you want it so bad. Sometimes it is hard, but have Faith BTW, I think your story is amazing. You're step dad seems like a remarkable man. Reminds me of something my step dad would do. He has been in my life since I was about 3 or 4 and has been my Dad since then. Fingers are crossed for you

 

[Wantingbbbump]

Thanks sarbear!! i think your right and I need to have a little faith. I don't even really know why the bfn hurt me so much because I knew it would be. Wishful thinking I guess. I am going to try to stay away from the hpt's and hold out until sunday. I will be 11dpo & 3 days before af so that one will have to tell me something. If it's a bfn though I will believe that one because with all my kids I was able to get a bfp at that point some sooner. My step dad is amazing!! I have called him daddy my whole life and I know how bad he wants a child of his own and after. I am wondering if I get a bfn if I should pay for my dad to have a sperm count & stuff done. That might be a good thing to know. I just didn't think one was needed because my mom did get pregnant by him but lost the baby. What do you think?

 

[fumbles]

I say don't bother even thinking about sperm analysis, because you're pregnant!!!

 

[sarbear4266]

I agree with Fumbles! But even if there is a slight chance there isn't, maybe it will just take a couple of times My last bfp I got at 12 dpo but resulted in a loss. I'm still ttc #1 dh has a 7 y/o son, but I would like to experience everything he was able to ya know? I'm praying for you and everyone else

 

[Glitter_Berrie]

Hey girls,

Well after my mom begged me I broke down and took a HPT..BFN I know that it's really early because I'm only 7dpo but I thought that if a baby really did implant at 5dpo then it should show a faint line. I am really sad & I'm wishing that I never let my mom talk me into taking a test. It was a FRER 6 days before your missed preiod and tomorrow will be 6 days before so wouldn't you think that if I was pg it would have showed something? I don't know if I can do this again next cycle. How do you all do it cycle after cycle? Or is the first cycle the hardest because we let ourselves think that there is no way it won't work. I am just so down now...why the hell did I get my hopes up so high? I really wish I wouldn't of taken that dang test!!!! As for symptoms I have lower back pain, mild cramps, my bbs still feel heavier than normal and today they are mildly sore but all of this is also the same as af so I'm not feeling much hope there. I am sorry that I acted a fool by being so sure that I was pregnant. If I try again (I don't think I am going to though) next cycle then I am so not going to let my mind get so carried away like I did with this cycle!! I will still be praying for all of you to get your BFP'S!!! Gosh I feel just so dumb for getting my hopes up like I did knowing the slim chance of a bfp.

Don't get down! I have taken a test at 6 7 and 8 dpo and I have no idea why! For some reason this 2ww is the hardest yet! DH and I are going to get some jewelry supplies so i can start making some to take my mind off of it. I actually have some great ideas for women ttc Don't feel dumb. NEVER feel dumb! It is a hard thing not to do especially when you want it so bad. Sometimes it is hard, but have Faith BTW, I think your story is amazing. You're step dad seems like a remarkable man. Reminds me of something my step dad would do. He has been in my life since I was about 3 or 4 and has been my Dad since then. Fingers are crossed for you

Omg i am into jewelry making now and its awesome!!!

 

[Glitter_Berrie]

Thanks sarbear!! i think your right and I need to have a little faith. I don't even really know why the bfn hurt me so much because I knew it would be. Wishful thinking I guess. I am going to try to stay away from the hpt's and hold out until sunday. I will be 11dpo & 3 days before af so that one will have to tell me something. If it's a bfn though I will believe that one because with all my kids I was able to get a bfp at that point some sooner. My step dad is amazing!! I have called him daddy my whole life and I know how bad he wants a child of his own and after. I am wondering if I get a bfn if I should pay for my dad to have a sperm count & stuff done. That might be a good thing to know. I just didn't think one was needed because my mom did get pregnant by him but lost the baby. What do you think?

Heya, first just wanted to say sorry about the early BFN but your never out until the bad witch shows, dont know how long you have been TTC but you need patience, take it from me ive been TTC for 16 months and some women on this site for years, but i'm not not really getting all into it and not preventing it obviously, its going to happen at its time thats meant to be, relax, let nature take its course and eventually its gonna happen sooner or later stay positive as you were before you tested, hope this helps, to you and to all the ladies on this site

 

[Wantingbbbump]

Thanks sarbear!! i think your right and I need to have a little faith. I don't even really know why the bfn hurt me so much because I knew it would be. Wishful thinking I guess. I am going to try to stay away from the hpt's and hold out until sunday. I will be 11dpo & 3 days before af so that one will have to tell me something. If it's a bfn though I will believe that one because with all my kids I was able to get a bfp at that point some sooner. My step dad is amazing!! I have called him daddy my whole life and I know how bad he wants a child of his own and after. I am wondering if I get a bfn if I should pay for my dad to have a sperm count & stuff done. That might be a good thing to know. I just didn't think one was needed because my mom did get pregnant by him but lost the baby. What do you think?

Heya, first just wanted to say sorry about the early BFN but your never out until the bad witch shows, dont know how long you have been TTC but you need patience, take it from me ive been TTC for 16 months and some women on this site for years, but i'm not not really getting all into it and not preventing it obviously, its going to happen at its time thats meant to be, relax, let nature take its course and eventually its gonna happen sooner or later stay positive as you were before you tested, hope this helps, to you and to all the ladies on this site

Before moving onto donor sperm I have been trying for 6 years. I do have patience, I wasn't going to test until this weekend but my mom talked me into it. I also know that it's sill very early and knew that I would see a bfn but that doesn't mean that it didn't hurt or put fear that it wont work and make me wonder if at the end of all of this ( 6months of insems) if I am going to walk away with a bfn & a bigger hole in my heart. I am trying to stay positive but then there is moments like this when it's hard. I'm sure that after your 16 months of trying you know what I mean. If I don't get a bfp with in the 6 months then my trying is over. I still have tons of hope for this cycle and I think it's just hard because it's my first after 6 years of tears month after month.

 

[sarbear4266]

Hey girls,

Well after my mom begged me I broke down and took a HPT..BFN I know that it's really early because I'm only 7dpo but I thought that if a baby really did implant at 5dpo then it should show a faint line. I am really sad & I'm wishing that I never let my mom talk me into taking a test. It was a FRER 6 days before your missed preiod and tomorrow will be 6 days before so wouldn't you think that if I was pg it would have showed something? I don't know if I can do this again next cycle. How do you all do it cycle after cycle? Or is the first cycle the hardest because we let ourselves think that there is no way it won't work. I am just so down now...why the hell did I get my hopes up so high? I really wish I wouldn't of taken that dang test!!!! As for symptoms I have lower back pain, mild cramps, my bbs still feel heavier than normal and today they are mildly sore but all of this is also the same as af so I'm not feeling much hope there. I am sorry that I acted a fool by being so sure that I was pregnant. If I try again (I don't think I am going to though) next cycle then I am so not going to let my mind get so carried away like I did with this cycle!! I will still be praying for all of you to get your BFP'S!!! Gosh I feel just so dumb for getting my hopes up like I did knowing the slim chance of a bfp.

Don't get down! I have taken a test at 6 7 and 8 dpo and I have no idea why! For some reason this 2ww is the hardest yet! DH and I are going to get some jewelry supplies so i can start making some to take my mind off of it. I actually have some great ideas for women ttc Don't feel dumb. NEVER feel dumb! It is a hard thing not to do especially when you want it so bad. Sometimes it is hard, but have Faith BTW, I think your story is amazing. You're step dad seems like a remarkable man. Reminds me of something my step dad would do. He has been in my life since I was about 3 or 4 and has been my Dad since then. Fingers are crossed for you

Omg i am into jewelry making now and its awesome!!!

Are you? i am pretty excited. I have so many ideas!

 

[baby time]

hi new to this im 5 days till af due and feel so strange hope its not all in my head after a bad mc last year im praying so hard that its my month

 

[wavescrash]

I've resorted to torturing myself by checking out the baby bump picture thread in the first trimester section of this board. If I don't get my BFP then I'm gonna have a go at AF. Gonna take that witch down.

Come on 2ww, SPEED UP. I'm impatient.

 

[fumbles]

I'm with you waves! I've been inventing all sorts of ways to torture myself! I don't know how I'm going to react to BFN or BFP! I'm in a big adrenaline filled muddle now.

I'm struggling to think straight


Picklepot, I know you've been feeling a bit low recently, so here's a happy dance for you, when you come back to catch up on this thread!

 

[Glitter_Berrie]

Thanks sarbear!! i think your right and I need to have a little faith. I don't even really know why the bfn hurt me so much because I knew it would be. Wishful thinking I guess. I am going to try to stay away from the hpt's and hold out until sunday. I will be 11dpo & 3 days before af so that one will have to tell me something. If it's a bfn though I will believe that one because with all my kids I was able to get a bfp at that point some sooner. My step dad is amazing!! I have called him daddy my whole life and I know how bad he wants a child of his own and after. I am wondering if I get a bfn if I should pay for my dad to have a sperm count & stuff done. That might be a good thing to know. I just didn't think one was needed because my mom did get pregnant by him but lost the baby. What do you think?

Heya, first just wanted to say sorry about the early BFN but your never out until the bad witch shows, dont know how long you have been TTC but you need patience, take it from me ive been TTC for 16 months and some women on this site for years, but i'm not not really getting all into it and not preventing it obviously, its going to happen at its time thats meant to be, relax, let nature take its course and eventually its gonna happen sooner or later stay positive as you were before you tested, hope this helps, to you and to all the ladies on this site

Before moving onto donor sperm I have been trying for 6 years. I do have patience, I wasn't going to test until this weekend but my mom talked me into it. I also know that it's sill very early and knew that I would see a bfn but that doesn't mean that it didn't hurt or put fear that it wont work and make me wonder if at the end of all of this ( 6months of insems) if I am going to walk away with a bfn & a bigger hole in my heart. I am trying to stay positive but then there is moments like this when it's hard. I'm sure that after your 16 months of trying you know what I mean. If I don't get a bfp with in the 6 months then my trying is over. I still have tons of hope for this cycle and I think it's just hard because it's my first after 6 years of tears month after month.

ah okay i missed the donor and insem part, makes sense, hang in there! im sure theres light in the end of your tunnel,

 

[Glitter_Berrie]

I'm with you waves! I've been inventing all sorts of ways to torture myself! I don't know how I'm going to react to BFN or BFP! I'm in a big adrenaline filled muddle now.

I'm struggling to think straight


Picklepot, I know you've been feeling a bit low recently, so here's a happy dance for you, when you come back to catch up on this thread!

awww fumbles love the support you give us, you guys are great! i love this fun ongoing sillyness thread i still have no symptoms but thats cool, i'll slap AF silly if she arrives

 

[Wantingbbbump]

Trying4ababyy- Sometimes in fact 99% of the time no symptoms is a good thing. I don't really feel anything other than af symptoms. I have really bad af like cramps and my bbs or should I say the left one is really starting to hurt the right is sore. I have really had some mood swings today too and i feel like at any moment the tears are going to fall. IDK feels like the witch is going to hit me but shes in for a surprise because I don't feel like playing nice with her this month. I'm going to sick fumbles on her I am also going to run her over she's not going to like me at all this month I just hope that she's not late so i can start trying again (if I need to because I'm a member of Team PUPO and 85% pregnant)

 

[Glitter_Berrie]

Trying4ababyy- Sometimes in fact 99% of the time no symptoms is a good thing. I don't really feel anything other than af symptoms. I have really bad af like cramps and my bbs or should I say the left one is really starting to hurt the right is sore. I have really had some mood swings today too and i feel like at any moment the tears are going to fall. IDK feels like the witch is going to hit me but shes in for a surprise because I don't feel like playing nice with her this month. I'm going to sick fumbles on her I am also going to run her over she's not going to like me at all this month I just hope that she's not late so i can start trying again (if I need to because I'm a member of Team PUPO and 85% pregnant)

Lol i like the "im going to sick fumbles on her" thats a good one well im prepared for the witch to arrive--> , im gonna spray anti AF pesticide on me too

 

[Wantingbbbump]

Trying4ababyy- Sometimes in fact 99% of the time no symptoms is a good thing. I don't really feel anything other than af symptoms. I have really bad af like cramps and my bbs or should I say the left one is really starting to hurt the right is sore. I have really had some mood swings today too and i feel like at any moment the tears are going to fall. IDK feels like the witch is going to hit me but shes in for a surprise because I don't feel like playing nice with her this month. I'm going to sick fumbles on her I am also going to run her over she's not going to like me at all this month I just hope that she's not late so i can start trying again (if I need to because I'm a member of Team PUPO and 85% pregnant)

Lol i like the "im going to sick fumbles on her" thats a good one well im prepared for the witch to arrive--> , im gonna spray anti AF pesticide on me too

When is she due to show? Oooh I want some of that spray..I wonder if they have it at wal mart.. My af should be here on the 27th...I am going to send her another pink slip now so I know that she has it for next month. I do have to say that I don't remember having af symptoms this early last time but then again I wasn't looking for them either. I do know for sure that I didn't have cramps like this last month before af. Normally they don't start until af shows.

 

[Glitter_Berrie]

Trying4ababyy- Sometimes in fact 99% of the time no symptoms is a good thing. I don't really feel anything other than af symptoms. I have really bad af like cramps and my bbs or should I say the left one is really starting to hurt the right is sore. I have really had some mood swings today too and i feel like at any moment the tears are going to fall. IDK feels like the witch is going to hit me but shes in for a surprise because I don't feel like playing nice with her this month. I'm going to sick fumbles on her I am also going to run her over she's not going to like me at all this month I just hope that she's not late so i can start trying again (if I need to because I'm a member of Team PUPO and 85% pregnant)

Lol i like the "im going to sick fumbles on her" thats a good one well im prepared for the witch to arrive--> , im gonna spray anti AF pesticide on me too

When is she due to show? Oooh I want some of that spray..I wonder if they have it at wal mart.. My af should be here on the 27th...I am going to send her another pink slip now so I know that she has it for next month. I do have to say that I don't remember having af symptoms this early last time but then again I wasn't looking for them either. I do know for sure that I didn't have cramps like this last month before af. Normally they don't start until af shows.

The Idiot is due the 27th too for the both of us!!! A pink slip is a good idea and Im sure walmart would have the anti AF pesticide for a "low low price", and we def need donald trump to tell her "your fired", thats awesomeness

 

[Wantingbbbump]

Trying4ababyy- I guess we will both have to beat up the witch together..man she's going to have a bad day and be in a very bad mood after were done with her. Yes the Trump so needs to look at her and say "YOUR FIRED" it would be great if he fired her on TV that would be the highest rated show yet with all of us girls TTC watching.

 

[wavescrash]

Hey ladies. Just got home from an exciting evening at the carnival in town which worked great to pass some time. I almost didn't think about this 2ww once, minus when I saw a VERY pregnant woman walking around and felt nothing but envy.

Anyway, I have a question. I know boob pain is a symptom. What about nipple pain? My boobs are a bit sore but right now it's nothing to write home about. However my nipples have been having some pain all day. Especially if I touch them, they'll get some almost stabbing pains for a few and then it dies down but they're still sore. They're also a little more pronounced than normal. Sorry if it's TMI but it's almost like they're hard but they're not actually hard. Normally they're pretty "flat" but they're sticking out (just not hard.) What's up with that? Is it a good sign? It's never happened before/during AF before and I don't really remember it with my past pregnancy, then again I wasn't symptom spotting then to notice.

 

[wavescrash]

I'm with you waves! I've been inventing all sorts of ways to torture myself! I don't know how I'm going to react to BFN or BFP! I'm in a big adrenaline filled muddle now.

Hahah. I don't know how I'm going to react to either. I'm expecting a BFN and hoping for a BFP. FX for us all!