I hear you when people drag God into the conversation. He'll bless you with a baby when it's time. (I've got my own beliefs) If that were true then how come crackheads, young teens, and mothers who neglect their children are all "blessed"? God has nothing to do with it.
The whole God thing. I agree with you. All that does is sound like, "well, gee, I'd love to tell you I think you're completely inadequate, and I'm pretty sure your uterus is broken or your husband's worthless, but I'm going to soften the blow by throwing in the God element".
I'm sort of flattered that people tell me they'll pray for me, because I sincerely believe that people who say that really want to do SOMETHING and this is the best they can do. I really think these people mean well. I tell them, "I appreciate you thinking of me," and I do. Sincerely.
But the whole "He'll bless you when it's time"? No thanks. That goes a bit too far. Because that implies I'm not worthy of being blessed. My grandma used to tell me God will give me strength to help me with my struggles and that God will always listen when I need to talk, and that fits more in with the God I perceive.
No divine being of any sort that loves their creations would deem them "unworthy" of anything. Not to me, anyway. (Especially when so many religions consider the relationship as parental - "God the Father" and all that - I mean, what parent would willingly deny their kid ANYTHING that was within their power to provide, you know?) Telling me He's got my back and He hears me when I'm sad makes me feel better than telling me I'll be blessed when it's time.
I have Southern roots on my Mom's side and my grandma telling me to take my troubles to the Lord (even if I thought it made her a little kooky sometimes) made me feel better than a lot of stuff I hear now. It doesn't mean I agree or share the belief. I agree with the sentiment and appreciate what the speaker is trying to do. They want to help.
I didn't mean to get so darned philosophical. I apologize if anyone's offended as I know religion is a touchy subject. But I think that whole "bless you when it's time" is like saying a corpse at a funeral "looks so good" or "they look so natural" or other meaningless fluff. People want something to say, so they just say whatever pops into their heads. Sometimes Just Saying Nothing (capitals intentional, like A. A. Milne) is so helpful and appreciated.