tempted to talk to FOB....I'm gonna cry!

[Jadelm]

I think that's kinda a good reply, because he was nice at least and he is right to be proud of you even if it seems a bit patronising He showed a bit of interest asking the name but at the same time isn't saying he wants to be really involved which is what you wanted right? Idk, it could have been a lot worse though
At least you probs feel a bit satisfied now? xxx

 

[aiimee12345]

lol ellie i only jus red that he replied lol!

is that all he put? but then again he is a man!! ... there never very good at anything are they really! x

 

[KrisKitten]

wow, just read the whole thread,
im glad he replied...tbh it sounds like he is interested but still a man lol.
R u gonna reply?
well done for being so brave and contacting him xxx

 

[nicholatmn]

It's a really good response from what it sounded like he was going to put!

 

[lily123]

Hi Ellie.

Well i've read this only just now, and i think you did 100% the right thing and knowing all the shit he put you through, you really are so brave for contacting him.
Are you gonna reply to him?

In response to what another poster said on the previous page... Jude's father shut HIMSELF out of his life, all ellie was doing was protecting herself and her precious son, and i think she was right to keep her guard up - once your out, your out kinda thing

I love your 'no nonsence' attitude Miss croot
xxx

 

[sleepinbeauty]

Awesome! I wouldn't hold my breath waiting for the money though. You never know. (That said, have you filed for CS?) Good for you!! (I really am happy he wasn't an a*****e to you in his message!!)

 

[trashit]

never wanted money from him anyway, all his money is too precious to him it goes on his drugs and booze
he's an idiot.
Aww Linzi thanks that really made me happy!!!
it wasn't a vicious response like i was expecting, it was nice of him but its just the fact he didnt even comment on Jude or anything. I just replied with "It was a traumatic birth but he's here now safe and well, i'm recovering too, he weighed 10lbs- i know ouch! he's a hungry little monster but so gorgeous (hint hint! lol) and he's not Dexter, he's Jude.


He should be happy i called him Jude anyway, that was the original name we picked out when we first found out

 

[aob1013]

That response could have been alot worse. Glad it wasn't a nasty one! x

 

[supriseBump_x]

Well done Ellie It must of taken alot for u to have contacted him. xxx

 

[trashit]

i LOVE your name choices dailymail

 

[trashit]

he just put "Jude is better than Dexter anyway"
niice!

 

[aiimee12345]

yep it is hehe!!
xx

 

[futuremommy91]

men

But it could have been a lot worse!

 

[annawrigley]

my little brothers (eleven years old) commented on it-
"you got my sister pregnant then ran off and left her you dick"
LMAO.

your brother is a legend!

i think you did the right thing by letting him know! and thats a much better response than i was expecting! i even thought the "thank you SO much" was him being sarcastic before i read the rest of the message
i hope things go ok with all this and he steps up and starts contributing! (if only financially because its totally fair enough if you dont want him in jude's life, he sounds like a monster) xx

 

[Jadelm]

i even thought the "thank you SO much" was him being sarcastic before i read the rest of the message

Me too

 

[trashit]

i just went on his profile and in the baby folder he's added the picture which is my avatar on here i feel really sad now..

 

[djt]

awwwwwwwwwwww. wunder if he will step up 2 the mark and change

 

[supriseBump_x]

Aww hunni Your doing so well, Your coping so well!! xxxx

 

[Jadelm]

Aaaaw hun so he does care a little xxx

 

[trashit]

he didnt for last 2 months of pregnancy he just ran away like a little coward (even though he's nearly 30 so no excuses at all!)
so why does he "care" so much now
its made me really sad, i had to send him a couple more pics out of sympathy xx