Testing again today...Nervous!

[Laura2806]

It sure does hun

Thanks hun, if she hasn't turned up by Friday I might ask my doc about some tablets to make sure she stays away, but then what if I ov'd later and they harm anything that might be trying to stick?! So confused right now!

So sorry she turned up hunni, don't feel stupid, your heart is breaking, I always found CD1 the worst so I hope today is better xxx

Fingers tightly crossed hunni xxx

 

[ToriStory]

That's what I would be worried about too. Maybe you could get a blood test? I checked out your ov chart and it looks like you could easily have O'd late and still be too early to get a pos test. Oh the confusion is enough to drive you mad! I always have to start taking pain relievers a few days before AF shows up or I can't function so lately I've been worried to even take any in case I am pg but if I don't I will be bedridden.

Thank you!!! It really is difficult to not be down on the first day. DF has been so sweet; he made me dinner and has been rubbing my back all evening. Starting all over again is just so tedious!

 

[Laura2806]

Depends what the docs will say hun, they don't like doing anything at all

I updated my chart today hun as it was only showing upto CD54, if I ovd around CD42 im now 13dpo so I could be a little early I guess. Gonna try and hold out until Thurs to test now.

You can still take paracetamol hun, I had to during pregnancy for SPD

Bless him that is sweet I know its very repetitive hun but try and see it as a fresh cy le to start over with xx

 

[ToriStory]

That's true. They really should give you a blood test, I think. How are you doing? Any updates?

I know a lot of women who are pg still get BFNs when they are around 13dpo so I'm still keeping my fx for a late BFP for you!!! That would be the perfect wedding gift!

So for this month we are really amping up our efforts as we are getting a bit impatient. If we get our bfp this cycle our EDD would be a few weeks before my birthday so that would be the most wonderful birthday present in the world!!

He really is the sweetest. After the first few days of this cycle I feel much better and much more optimistic! Still keeping my fx for us!

 

[Laura2806]

Hey, still BFN yesterday, not tested today but I got FMU sample to take to docs with me, guessing she'll do one of their tests and maybe check for infection and such too.

Thanks hunni, my friend from here just told me about someone who had 7wks of BFN's before their BFP, as long as AF doesn't show I'm in with a chance!

That would be ace hunni, a lady on here gave birth on her birthday

That's good hunni, glad you feel better about it, that first week is always the toughest but you will get there. Reading other people's stories always helps loads, this is gonna sound odd but I feel those who have waited longer appreciate their baby so much more than those who don't, not because they didnt conceived straight away but because they have felt the pain and heartbreak of not getting their BFP every cycle, the wondering if there's a problem, giving up thinking it won't happen, then bam! They become parents both DF and I used to get upset simply seeing one with a pushchair or baby bump, it felt like our hearts were being torn out of chests then when we saw our first scan at 9wks and saw that little heartbeat, cause that's all I was looking for! Our world changed and god help anyone who tries to hurt my little boy! You will get your BFP my love and trust me they are worth the wait! Xxx

 

[ToriStory]

Let me know how your appt with the doctor goes!!!! It seems like it isn't that uncommon for it to take a while to get a bfp...I'm hearing more and more stories about it. I feel so hopeful that your bfp is on the way very soon!!!!


I completely agree with you, I think the struggle and heartache make you even more appreciative. DF always seems to be sad when he sees his little niece and I've struggled for years since my first loss with being around others who are pg or have babies. It's gotten much easier but at first it was so painful I couldn't stand it. I had a close friend who was due two days after me and seeing her daughter is still so very painful.

Thank you so so much for the reassurance. It really helps!!!!

 

[Laura2806]

Well she didn't wanna test, didn't even check for an infection! Said she could give me some tablets but when I asked about effects to baby if I'm pregnant she said no! But I'm ok with it, whatever will be will. I'm to go back for tests if I don't have a period in the next 4months! Yay! FX'ed it won't get to that point though

I'm sure of it hun, must be so hard to see your friends daughter

I'm always here well maybe not always in terms of always online but if you need anything I'm here

Had some spotting today so if AF is on her way it should be tomorrow when she arrives which would be ok, Monday or Tuesday and the wedding will be having an extra guest xx

 

[ToriStory]

I can't believe she didn't want to test just to be sure! I hope that four months from now you will have already had your bfp for a while!!!

Thank you!!!!! It means a lot to me! I'll always be there for you too! You've helped me so much and made the last few months so much easier. I haven't really had anyone to talk to about TTC and you've been so wonderful to talk to. So glad I joined this site!!!!

Are you still spotting? Fx AF will start tomorrow or wait until well after Wednesday!!!! Speaking of...how excited are you for Wednesday?

 

[Laura2806]

I know right! Thanks hun, tested this morning, BfN followed by AF, I'm ok though cause we can now get on with TtC

Aww thanks hunni, I honestly believe if it wasn't for ladies on this site I wouldn't have my lil man

AF should be ok by weds so I'm all good I'm getting a bit scared and nervous now tbh, we have 100 coming to the ceremony, that's a lot! I don't wanna talk to quiet so people can't hear but I don't do we'll talking infront of people like that. Hopefully I won't care about them lol I've been told as soon as you see your man nothing else matters xxx

 

[ToriStory]

Yay!!!! I'm glad AF finally came and won't be interfering with the wedding!!! Now you can get started on that bfp this cycle!!

Aw I've always heard that too and I bet it's true. You'll be so excited you won't have time to be nervous! Good luck and a BIG congrats on the wedding!!!! I'm so excited for you!!!! You'll have to post pictures!!!

 

[Laura2806]

Hey! Thanks hun, was amazing! Loved every second of it!!!

Was starting to consider not temping and just going with things but then I saw bump pics from Oscar, man I need that!!! So on with TTC!

How's you? Xxx

 

[ToriStory]

Aw, I'm so happy for you!!! Was thinking about you on Wednesday!!! Congrats again!!!!!!


Yay!!!! Are you planning on doing anything other than temping? DF and I have decided to go all out if we aren't pg this month lol.


I'm well, thank you so much for asking! DF and I are about to move so I'm really excited about that!! I've managed to be pretty relaxed about trying this month, hopefully this approach will work lol.

 

[jessy_jaysus]

Hi Everyone, hope it's ok to join you.

Just a quick note. My OH moved to America to work for a few months, this is his first month home so my DPO are a 'guestamation' based on Ovulation pains I had on the 20th July. My cycles vary from 28-33 days.

CD26/Possibly 7DPO:
Made my usual Shepard's pie, I couldn't eat it because it tasted off. My OH said it tasted fine.

CD27/8DPO:
First cup of tea in the morning was poured down the sink, I thought the milk might be off because it tasted funny. (nothing wrong with the milk)
Increased appetite.

CD28/9DPO:
Noticing strong smells in work, strange taste in my mouth with food and without.
Increased appetite
Backache (could be to playing on the Nintendo wii the day before)

CD29/10DPO:
BFN (I couldn't resist)
Strong smells
Very gassy (tmi)
Increased appetite.

CD30/11DPO:
Increased appetite
Very moody everyone seems to be irritating me.
Cried my eyes out watching a reality TV show

CD31/12DPO
BFN
Extremely Gassy all day both ends (sorry tmi)
Feel very tired yawning every 5 minutes
Very slight twinges on right side (lasted a few seconds)
Increases appetitie

CD32/13DPO
Slight Twinges on right side when I woke up
Gassy all day
Weird pulling sensation on right side (on and off all day)
Nipples slightly sore to touch (bb's feel totally normal)
Feeling tired constantly yawning
Increased Appetite


Today is CD33, I have never had a cycle longer than this so I will test again tomorrow if AF doesn't show her ugly face


Best of luck to everyone waiting to test

 

[Laura2806]

Aww thanks hunni tbh being relaxed is the single best thing to do! We will just be temping and DTD when we like, really looking forward to just being able to chill now the weddings been and gone and just get on with life! Hopefully get a BFP soon but we're ok if it takes a while sooner the better obvs

Hi jessy! Sounds good hun! More than I had my BFP cycle! How long have you been ttc?

Xx

 

[ToriStory]

That's great!!! I really hope that we will both get our BFPs soon now that we are relaxing. I haven't even been paying much attention to what CD I'm on. DF and I will be moving soon so we've been focused on that, hopefully it pays off!!!

 

[Laura2806]

I'm more than sure we will hunni then comes the prenatals, doctors appointments, scans, baby shopping!! Exciting!!

How you doing? I hope the move goes well

We've been DTD non stop the last couple days! Making the most of it lol however im pretty sure half the caravan site heard us, well me, last night! didn't wake Oscar up though lol xxx

 

[ToriStory]

Ooh, I'm so excited for all of it!!!!! I have to be honest; DF and I have already been buying some things. We got too excited.

I'm doing pretty well, thank you!!! Put my two weeks notice in at work yesterday and DF and I are working on packing up everything. It's a chore. But I'm not letting anything stress me right now lol.

LOL!!!! That sounds like me!! I'm positive most of the neighbors have heard me. As long as Oscar snoozed through it, that's all that matters. We've been DTD nonstop lately too....it's hard to wait a day in between sometimes.


How is everything going with you? Sounds like you guys are definitely enjoying the married life!!

 

[Laura2806]

Ooooo what did you buy??? I waited until our first scan before we bought anything, for me having stuff around before my BFP would have put me in a downer

Oooo sounds exciting! Do you have another job lined up? Good way to be hun, carefree

Haha sometimes we cant just help it!! Glad to have solid walls now Don't blame you hun, do it when the mood takes!

Going good hun, home now, and getting ready for work tomorrow don't wanna go back! i hate it! Got my mum's dog this week as they're on holiday, so once she gets on the sofa no-one else can our dog loves it though and so does Oscar! This cycle I'm just gonna enjoy TTC and not think about it, have sex when we want to, try not to think about every little twinge and possible 'symptom' just get on with life and if AF hits then so be it, i think this is the best way for us tbh as when i stopped temping briefly before, went the docs and relaxed thats when i ov'd and caught the egg so fingers crossed appyling this now will make it happen xx

 

[ToriStory]

We bought a couple of onesies that were on clearance. They are so cute!!! They aren't gender specific, so they are perfect!! I'm going to take some pics of them and upload later to show you.

Not yet, I think I'm going to wait a few weeks before getting another job. I'm trying to decide if I want to do a transfer to another store or just look for something else completely. I'm leaning towards just finding something new. Being carefree has been so nice, hopefully it'll help!!

Oh I desperately need solid walls, LOL!!!! It's been so nice the last few weeks, not pressuring ourselves and just enjoying it. Even if the neighbors hear...lol!

Ah, I'm sorry you have to go back! It's so hard to have to go back sometimes!! Aw, how cute! What kind of dog does she have?

I have a good feeling us relaxing is gonna get us our BFPs very soon!!! If AF doesn't show up I am going to try and wait until she's at least a week late before I even think about taking a test. Good thing it will coincide with us moving, my mind will be too preoccupied to think about testing lol!

 

[Laura2806]

Oooo yay look forward to seeing them

Sounds good hun, a nice break for you and yh something new is always nice! fx'd!

It's always so much better when your not thinking 'we need to have sex tonight just incase i ovulated', tuff crap for the neighbours! lol

Thanks hun, i hate it but bills need paying! Cassie (mum's dog) is a rhodesian ridgeback cross and ours is a lil staffy

Oh i hope so hun, we've waited long enough! lol thats some will power! mind you if you pack all the tests you hvae and hide them then you wont be tempted xx