Good morning ladies!
Capegirl, as someone who has gone through this already, I can tell you that the white stringy stuff is not uncommon. I learned that it actually might be, um, the by-products leftover from "trying," which is GOOD, because it means your DH's contribution is hanging around up there. Hope that is not TMI. Anyways, it's a sign that both your body and his did exactly what is needed to ensure the best chance at a BFP!
So last night I approached my own DH, hoping to get in one last shot, and HE TURNED ME DOWN, saying he was too tired. Seriously? I thought I should call the press, since this is a first in the history of the universe. Not that I blame him, things have been crazy here with work and us trying to get ready to move and so on. But wow, I was shocked.
Of course, they say that if you stop a few days before O'ing, you up your chances at a girl. I think secretly I want a girl. What about you?
Oops, sorry for the long post.