Natsby
Luca born 9-11-2012
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So sorry for your loss, I have been there and it is awful to get the high of a bfp and then crash down afterwards.
However seems strange to me that they are persuading you to try IVF when you got pregnant naturally. One in three pregnancies end in mc, that is over all not just at our age. So if they don´t know why or if it was due to chromosomal abnormality why do they advise IVF, if they problem was one of hormonal imbalance for example you would still stand a chance of mc after IVF. Just a though that it might be worth a second opinion. My Dr is public so doesn´t earn anything dependent on what I do, and he told me to keep going naturally and that to lose one or 2 was normal but next time I should take progesterone and aspirin. Opinions vary so much I know, and I hope you don´t mind me sticking my oar in, just strikes me as odd. ( I think next one will be a sticky bean anyway and i have everything crossed for you.)
However seems strange to me that they are persuading you to try IVF when you got pregnant naturally. One in three pregnancies end in mc, that is over all not just at our age. So if they don´t know why or if it was due to chromosomal abnormality why do they advise IVF, if they problem was one of hormonal imbalance for example you would still stand a chance of mc after IVF. Just a though that it might be worth a second opinion. My Dr is public so doesn´t earn anything dependent on what I do, and he told me to keep going naturally and that to lose one or 2 was normal but next time I should take progesterone and aspirin. Opinions vary so much I know, and I hope you don´t mind me sticking my oar in, just strikes me as odd. ( I think next one will be a sticky bean anyway and i have everything crossed for you.)