The BFP Before The 'Would Of Been' Due Date Thread - Any Joiners?

[stephanie1990]

Stephanie - I will post them probably later as OH is a moody guts right now
We're finding out I do believe now anyway so thats good!
Sorry to hear your not feeling great, I had a headache four days running last week. They're awful aren't they! Hope your OH is giving you lots of TLC xx

Sam - I had that with my abs I believe it's just them stretching - eek Im so excited for you! damn Dr's though ey! xx

Mrskg - thats sweet of you hunny Im glad this thread has made such a difference to so many ladies on here You deserve a sticky bean so much and you will get it!!!! xx

XXJESSXXX - aw dam moody guys lol. oh thats good, i cant wait to find out what your having!! have you got a preference? or a gut feeling?
I suffered from headaches from like week 4 to week 16 but iv read they can come back in the 3rd trimester. I dont know if my oh knows what tlc means lol, i havent seen him for a couple of days because he has been working really hard, seeing him tonight though, so he better give me so tlc lol xxx

 

[Camlet]

Girlinyork- thanks I might just do that but maybe give it a couple more days as it makes me even more paranoid when i cant find it or I don't find it straight away! yes it was a mmc & yes my last one stopped developing at 7weeks 2 days & my last scan revealed there was a healthy 9 week bean in there so thank god I got past that without even realising! (I thought I was only 5 weeks!)

Islander- its horrible isn't it! I'm exactly the same I keep going from excited to nervous & scared so quickly poor oh doesn't know what to say or do! I know what you mean I think there will definitely always be a part of us that's worried no matter how far gone we are! I know I won't be able to relax until I've got my lo in my arms! Good luck for your scan on Monday! xx

 

[lomelly]

Jess, I'm so glad OH changed his mind about finding out!! Are you going to get a 4D scan in the near future?? I keep forgetting to take a bump pic, I've been so off for a week now due to my bloody wisdom tooth! They have to take it out as its causing infection.

Hi mrskg! Oh I do hope you're right about the symptoms! And I'm glad your finding comfort here

Gl on your scan, islander! I'm sure all is well.

It's definitely a good idea to write down how you feel debzie, I also found making a journal helped put my feelings into words better. to you

Care bear I hope you caught that Easter eggy!! And that the tww isn't too slow for you lol it's awful isn't it??

Sorry for your loss, Lou. I really hope you find comfort here and that your BFP is just around the corner.

Hope everyone had a happy Easter and

 

[Islander]

thanks guys. ive stopped looking at my preg apps etc, hoping the days will go by quicker...it will come around real fast cause i go back to work on monday too after the easter break lol but the time also passes v slowly as im not at work - stuck at home all day!lol oh well, itll happen eventually. good luck to everyone waiting to see their easter bfp atm ive got a couple people in my life who are all about frama so im trying to get them out of my life - dont need the stress. hope everyone is doing well!and had a lovely easter

 

[Kmae]

Wow, so much action going on with this thread in the last couple days!

Mrskg, Aww...really touched that we make a positive difference in your life and that you feel supported by us.

Lou15, sorry for your loss. You can let your feeling loose here. We have all been through this crappy time and are here to support each other as we get through it

Samj, 12 weeks to get a first scan is too long. I hope your family doc will see you soon.

Camlet, can't wait to here about your scan. Hoping the time flys by fast for you!

For me, I woke up with a good amount of ewcm so I am expecting to get a + opk today or tomorrow- which would be AWESOME! If I don't get a + opk, my DH and I will still be doing the BD tonight to cover our bases! Eggy, come out come out where ever you are!

Babydust to all...I am feeling like it is time to get another BFP announcement from this thread!

 

[Mrskg]

Gl with kmae I hope you catch the eggy x

 

[girlinyork]

I am feeling a bit glum. Since the mc my cycles have been stupidly long. I took soy isos to try and shorten it but I am worried I case I have to wait another 50 days just for a bfn :-/

 

[Mrskg]

Big girlinyork x suppose my short cycle are one thing to be thankful for xx

 

[Camlet]

girlinyork I know that feeling exept it was before my mc my cycles where ridiculously long! It used to drive me crazy to! I hope this is your month! xx

 

[Camlet]

Kmae thanks & good luck I hope you catch that eggy!! xx

 

[samj732]

Kmae, I agree. I am seeig the family doc next Wednesday (18th) and going to LIE and tell him IDK how far along I am. The things we have to do! That way he will give me a scan and possibly 2. And I am going to ask him to check my bloods that day, and Friday so I can see them doubling And I have an appt with my OB's midwife beginning of May, I'll be about 7 weeks then. I feel so good about this one, the lines on my HPTs are definitely getting darker as I go along.

A huge THANK YOU to all you ladies for being such a wonderful support system. I seriously don't know how I survived before these forums.

 

[Kmae]

I am feeling a bit glum. Since the mc my cycles have been stupidly long. I took soy isos to try and shorten it but I am worried I case I have to wait another 50 days just for a bfn :-/

My cycles did the same after m/c; but, I ended up having a couple months with no ov or AF. My ob then prescribed me provera to stop my spotting, jump start my AF, and get hopefully get my cycles back on track. It brought my AF, but didn't really get my cycles normalized; but, it works for a lot of women, so something you might want to look into.

 

[Kmae]

Okay so this morning I had ewcm, then I rechecked this afternoon and now its creamy??? Anyone ever have both in the same day?

 

[debzie]

Kmae I used to get that. I would get tonnes of ewcm first positive opk starting cloudy then clear then the next morning ewcm by pm creamy sometimes grainy cm. Looks like you have ovulated hun. Got everything crossed for you.

 

[lomelly]

Kmae, I would get that too. I never did get a whole lot of EWCM, just the odd patch here and there.

samj, I did the EXACT same thing I said I had no idea when I had my last period and viola! dating scan!

girlinyork, ever thought about going on the pill for a month to regulate? hope you have a regular cycle this cycle!!

 

[samj732]

lomelly pregnant women can be so evil. I just wish the appt was here already because I've had quite a bit of painful cramping today. It's making me nervous, because technically AF is due the 14th. That witch better leave me alone now.

 

[MissMummyMoo]

My head is so messed up right now

I've had no spotting since Sunday 5pm. I started with spotting around 3pm Saturday and over the almost 24 hour period there was no where near enough to fill a sanitary towel. I've had nothing since and its now 8am Wednesday. Someone was saying it could be an implantation bleed I don't think it is. I done a IC yesterday and it was negative. Will maybe do another on Friday and see. I really want to know before we go away. Is there any other way of finding out earlier. I read that an implantation bleed can happen around 6-10 days after ovulation x

 

[Camlet]

Missmummymoo it could be an implant bleed as I thought I had my period when & it turned out to be an implant bleed! But it could have also have just been a really light period as I've read the 1st few cycles can be a lot different to your normal ones. I'd still re test just to be sure though & if your still worried maybe you should speak to your dr about it? xx

Afm I'm on I took girlinyorks advise & got the Doppler out & found baby's heartbeat loud & clear this time! it was even strong enough to read the bpm properly this time it was in the 150-160s I managed to record it as well! so happy & definitely reasured about my scan coming up! xx

 

[Mrskg]

for hb on Doppler camlet xxxx

Sorry missmummymoo I've never had ib with any my pregnancies I hope it was though crossables crossed xxx


caved in an tested this morn...bfn...unless I turn it to a 43degree angle an stand on my head then I'm sure I see something lol I knew it was too early so still hoping x going by my last bfps I should have a line by sat or Monday x as they say patience is a virtue

 

[debzie]

Camlet yeah for hb I am so chuffed for you hun.

Missmoo nothing id certain the first cycle after miscarriage my first cycle after my first I had ramdom bleeding for a few days here and there most of the stuff you read says that you need to go 20 days without bleeding then call it a real af. It could have been a few left over cells that your body needed to get rid of, or it could have been af hence the clot????? The only way is asking your Gp for a beta hcg level???? Really hope your body sorts itself out. The other thing to do is go and buy some cycloflow (tranexananamic acid) from boots. Its for heavy periods and can reduce the flow considerably if af arrives on hols??? Just say to the pharmacist that you have really heavy periods. It expensive but works.

Mrskg sorry about the bfn but it is way early lol.

AFM. I am officially back to ttc.