The BFP Before The 'Would Of Been' Due Date Thread - Any Joiners?

[Islander]

my OH has just started having this problem due to some meds he is on...the first ones were dreadful so he went to the doc and explained we were ttc and they changed them so its much better now good luck!i conceived after i Od this time...

 

[xxxjessxxx]

Well you said April was your month and so it will be!!

 

[lomelly]

girl, you still have a shot either way! hope OH is up to the job but I'm sure some of his swimmers are just waiting there!

kmae, it's still early, sometimes you don't implant until 10-12 dpo. your chart is looking good though!

jess, I have my appt tomorrow and for some reason am really dreading it.. is it stupid for me to think the doppler is wrong somehow?? I find LO daily and the heartrate is around 150-155 now... sometimes even around 145.... stinkin' paranoia!!! how are you feeling??? how's the bump coming??

hope everyone had a good weekend!

 

[B&LsMom]

I'm bummed I've ovved today and OH can't "finish." I'm wondering if I've missed my chance now this cycle

THAT HAPPENED TO US TOO!! But then FF shifted my Ov day back so it worked out fine, but DH knew it was Ov time and it was too much pressure to perform that many days in a row--now he's missing all the action but I'm just too tired lol

 

[samj732]

girlinyork, your chart still looks good even if he can't "finish" tonight I think. They can live up there for a few days so I think you'll be ok even if you miss one day.

 

[girlinyork]

I got some. Half fell out straight away but at least I got something thanks everyone x

 

[Kmae]

Lomelly, i hope your appointment goes great tomorrow. Please share a pic of your little bean when you get back!

Girlinyork, I hope his first round of spermies caught the egg!

 

[girlinyork]

They better bloody had. I want my bfp now

 

[ttcbabyisom]

Hey ladies
I thought of starting a thread for us ladies to help and support eachother to getting a before the due date of your loss arrives.
For example I have experienced 4 losses recently (now 6 ) but the only one I knew of the due date for, was the first miscarriage.
I was due for December 9th but sadly, my lil Roo left 7 months too early for me to ever get to the due date
It's creeping up rather close and I'm getting so down with it all, and I figured there are probably more women feeling the same too.
So I thought to start a thread for all us women aiming to get a bfp before our expected due date just to make the pain that little bit easier... who's joining?


(I'll start a list with us, and our expected due dates)

xxxjessxxx - December 9th 2011
Twinkie210 - March 18th 2012
Keepthefaithx - February 24th 2012
KozmikKitten - March 28th 2012
Newmrsg - April 3rd 2012
Heavyheart - January 7th 2012
Jennajul2001 - January 27th 2012
Srbjbex - May 22nd 2012
SweetJennie - February 16th 2012
Confusedprego - March 13th 2012
Threebirds - February 2012
Chiapso - February 26th 2012
Bes_ - March 3rd 2012
Futurephotos - December 20th 2011
Jessy1101 - March 12th 2012
Collie_crazy - January 1st 2012
Mrskg - August 26th 2012
Crownjewelz - May 15th 2012
Sarasparra - May 3rd 2012
Bastetgrrl - February 5th 2012
Micsor - November 23rd 2011
Lemondrops - May 6th 2012
Ickle pand - January 2nd 2012
CARNAT22 - January 4th 2012
Debzie - October 31st 2012
Butterfly00 - March 2nd 2012
Blakesmom - April 1st 2012
Mammatotwo - December 9th 2011
NZ TTC - April 28th 2012
Breaking Dawn - April 12th 2012
Mom22boys - May 15th 2012
Lomelly - May 2012
Nicoleoleole - July 14th 2012
Mrs Miggens - May 15th 2012
Jacobnmatty - December 7th 2011
Babydust818 - April 2012
YingYang - December 25th 2011
Lauren10 - April 1st 2012
Hopeforamirac - February 5th 2012
Nursekelly - February 11th 2012
Nibeley - July 5th 2012
Jelly Beann - July 19th 2012
Islander - May 7th 2012
Maddysmum - December 4th 2012
BabyBumpLove - June 28th 2012
Jordens_Mommy - June 17th 2011
Hopestruck - May 4th 2012
BabyBob - April 14th 2011
NewbieLisette - Unknown
Kmae - April 13th 2012
Divinebliss - April 5th 2012
RomaTomato - March 4th 2012
Wantingathird - March 30th 2012
Analley - December 25th
Ami1985 - July 2012
Natashahm - August 2012
LeeC - December 25th 2011
Dodgercpkl - August 12th 2012
Pinksmarties - Unknown
Amandamb1108 - January 24th 2012
Karacal - August 9th 2012
Jennyanne83 - March 5th 2012
Camlet - July 19th 2012
Bride2b - April 21st 2012
Jennifer - July 2012
2Peas4wings - September 8th 2012
Mrs_t2 - August 1st 2012
Lilblossom - August 3rd 2012
Girlinyork - August 12th
FngrsCrossed - March 7th 2012
Amotherslove - May 14th 2012
Auntylolo - June 19th 2012
Hanfromman - March 24th 2012
Samj732 - May 31st/June 7th 2012
Leinzlove - October 6th 2012
CherylC3 - October 21/22nd 2012
Carebear1981 - August 15th 2012
Md13 - November 16th 2012
MissMummyMoo - September 6th 2012
Bluecathy1978 - July 21st 2012
CortneyMarie - November 12th 2012
Lou15 - July 1st 2012
Kelly9 - June 15th 2012

Can you add me to your list? My due date would have been June 15, 2012. I'm hoping for my before then!

 

[Kelly9]

I think you've covered your bases well

I bought the jolly jumper boomerang pillow for nursing after having my son but used it all the way till the end with my second pregnancy and it helped with the tossing and turning and the big belly since I was measuring way ahead at 24 weeks when I was only 18. I now sleep with it every night pregnant or not lol, it's comfy!

 

[Kmae]

Ttcbabyisom, so sorry for your loss. You will find a lot of grat supportive ladies on here who understand what you are going through.

Kelly, you made me want to go get that pillow!

 

[Camlet]

Kelly- that pillow sounds great! I think I'm going to have look into investing in one soon!

Ttcbabyisom- & welcome! I'm so sorry for your loss I hope you get your bfp very soon!

Lomelly- good luck with your appointment! I'm exactly the same keep thinking my Doppler is wrong even though I hear baby's heartbeat ever day as well & it's in the healthy range! (140s-150s sometimes 160s)

AFM I've got my NT scan tomorrow & I'm bricking it atm! I'm so scared but excited at the same time I don't know what to do with myself today! I had the worse night sleep last night tossing & turning even more worrying & having weird dreams about it! I just pray my little one is still ok in there! xx

 

[girlinyork]

ttcbabyisom, welcome. You'll get lots of support and understanding here xx

 

[xxxjessxxx]

Welcome Ttcbabyisom, I'm sorry for your loss sweety - but welcome to this group

Lomelly how'd your appointment go? Bump has changed since last pic so can't wait till my next 4 week one at 17 weeks What about you?

Camlet, I'm excited for your scan Exciting stuff!! I havn't used my doppler in aages

 

[girlinyork]

My boobilies already hurt. This happened on my BFP cycle. It happened a few cycles before that too when we weren't actually TTC so it could be a fluke but I hope not

 

[lomelly]

ttcbaby, hope you have a short journey to another BFP

girl, hope those sore boobies are a good sign!!

camlet, I'm sure your scan will go just fine tomorrow and you'll see an active bean!

jess, my appt went okay, all he really did was listen to baby on doppler for a second (so I know I'm not imagining it, he found it too!!!). He made me an ultrasound appt for 20 weeks for anatomy scan.. and they could possibly tell me the gender there, but there is a problem. the place I'm going definitely doesn't allow DH in the room with me when or even IF they tell me the gender. it's not guaranteed that they will at that point. so we have decided we are going to get it done privately shortly after that. it's about $100 but we will get a picture and get to see some movement

where is everyone else in their cycle?

 

[Kmae]

yay lomelly! So glad your little bean is doing great!

Girlinyork, I hope your sore boobies are due to your BFP!

AFM, my temp went tumbling down this morning which means AF is around the corner. Shoot! I really had hope this was my BFP cycle.

 

[kategirl]

Could I join? Mine would have been due Oct 26 2012. I lost him at only 5w6d, but it still hurts.

 

[samj732]

Aww kmae I'm sorry. I thought this was the one for you. How difficult does it have to be to get pregnant sometimes? It's not fair.

kategirl, and sorry about your loss. It doesn't matter when or how you lose your angel, it still hurts.

 

[girlinyork]

Kategirl you'll get lots of support in this tread xx