The 'chit chat' thread

[DueSeptember]

I am 7 Days Late yall and I am scared!!!

 

[Miss Mitch]

Test away!x

 

[Miss Mitch]

Angel babies names and dates added to front page, if anyone else would like their baby/ies names on there please just let me know xx

 

[DueSeptember]

Test away!x

I tested Monday and it was Negative but I was only 4-5 days Late then I was thinking if I dont get it by April 1 then I will test again

 

[yellowyamyam]

Zoe (yellowyamyam) - Baby CocoPop - born at 16+5 weeks - on 19 Dec 2011

We did not officially name him as DH didn't want to. I've been calling him Cocopop since my BFP just to be silly so I think it should stick.

Tayla - Sorry but can you repeat your story please? Was it that you gave birth to your daughter in a different hospital than the one you chose to? Is that why both hospitals are playing ping-pong with you? I was admitted into the hospital which I was to deliver. In the A&E, I was already told that my test results will be handled by the doctor who specialises in 2nd trimester losses. Following day when I was discharged, I reminded the nurse about this and she checked my chart. She said yes that was true and I was to wait about 6-8 weeks for my results (which ended to be 11 weeks waiting).

Did they take any blood test for you? Were you told who will give you the results? All my results were cc-ed to my GP so I think you should raise this issue to your GP.

 

[dancareoi]

Test away!x

I tested Monday and it was Negative but I was only 4-5 days Late then I was thinking if I dont get it by April 1 then I will test again

 

[yellowyamyam]

Yay! Which brand of test did you use? Did you always manage to get early results? I was told that if in previous pregnancy you managed to test early, your following pregnancies should be similar.

 

[Miss Mitch]

Zoe (yellowyamyam) - Baby CocoPop - born at 16+5 weeks - on 19 Dec 2011

We did not officially name him as DH didn't want to. I've been calling him Cocopop since my BFP just to be silly so I think it should stick.

Tayla - Sorry but can you repeat your story please? Was it that you gave birth to your daughter in a different hospital than the one you chose to? Is that why both hospitals are playing ping-pong with you? I was admitted into the hospital which I was to deliver. In the A&E, I was already told that my test results will be handled by the doctor who specialises in 2nd trimester losses. Following day when I was discharged, I reminded the nurse about this and she checked my chart. She said yes that was true and I was to wait about 6-8 weeks for my results (which ended to be 11 weeks waiting).

Did they take any blood test for you? Were you told who will give you the results? All my results were cc-ed to my GP so I think you should raise this issue to your GP.

Yes, I found out on the 16th January that we had lost Olivia, as I hadn't felt movement for about a week and i had felt her since I was 14 weeks. On the day we found out, was given some tablets to start softening the cervix etc, and had to go back on wednesday 18th Jan at 12pm. More tabs vaginally, had Olivia at 10.20pm that night at Medway hospital. For full post mortems, babies are sent to what I assume is Great Ormond St as that is where Medway are tring to get the results from when I am questioning them. So Medway haven't even had the results yet. Hope that makes sense? I will add baby CocoPop now xx

Also, whilst in labour I had 12 tubes of blood taken to be sent with baby for testing xx

 

[DueSeptember]

Yay! Which brand of test did you use? Did you always manage to get early results? I was told that if in previous pregnancy you managed to test early, your following pregnancies should be similar.

The last time I tested it was the 1st of the Month and I got a right away this time I tested about a week earlier lol I guess I want to know right away but it came out but AF still has not shown up...so if it is not here by the 1st I will test....I used a cheap Dollar store one but I used that last time too

 

[dancareoi]

due september - are you sure you have your dates right - you know how our bodies can fool us sometimes.

Tayla, it sounds so fustrating that no-one seems to be able to help, can`t your doctor get involved as well?

Zoe, i think Cocopop is a lovely name for your LO. When i was pregnant with my first, we were convinced the baby was convceived when we were on holiday in Jackson, Wyoming in the US. We never found out what he was until he was born, but all the way through we refered to him as little jackson!

How are you getting on in Oz now?

i think i have told you all of my pending appointment with this professor, well i sent her an email on wednesday and detailed all 5 of my pregnancies and my age and DH age. I said i know it is difficult for her to give an accurate assessment until she has seen us and done tests, but i asked whether we should try now or wait until we have seen her.

She told me we should try again now, she said it would not be a problem if i was pregnant when i go and see her, because she said she could do tests and start any treatment that may be required immediately.

Will show DH her reply later.

Surely if she thought there were any major problems she would tell us to wait until we have seen her, so i think she thinks that it was just one of those things rather than anything medical.

i am really hoping DH agrees!!

Lisa xx

 

[WILSMUM]

that email sounds really positive - I hope it puts yr Dhs mind at rest and that you can start TTC start away! Fingers crossed hun xXx

 

[DueSeptember]

due september - are you sure you have your dates right - you know how our bodies can fool us sometimes.

Tayla, it sounds so fustrating that no-one seems to be able to help, can`t your doctor get involved as well?

Zoe, i think Cocopop is a lovely name for your LO. When i was pregnant with my first, we were convinced the baby was convceived when we were on holiday in Jackson, Wyoming in the US. We never found out what he was until he was born, but all the way through we refered to him as little jackson!

How are you getting on in Oz now?

i think i have told you all of my pending appointment with this professor, well i sent her an email on wednesday and detailed all 5 of my pregnancies and my age and DH age. I said i know it is difficult for her to give an accurate assessment until she has seen us and done tests, but i asked whether we should try now or wait until we have seen her.

She told me we should try again now, she said it would not be a problem if i was pregnant when i go and see her, because she said she could do tests and start any treatment that may be required immediately.

Will show DH her reply later.

Surely if she thought there were any major problems she would tell us to wait until we have seen her, so i think she thinks that it was just one of those things rather than anything medical.

i am really hoping DH agrees!!

Lisa xx

Since I had my surgery my period has been on point exactly 27-28 days...I was suppose to get it on March 21st and it still hasnt come...I am going to test again to make sure...Someone said I tested to early but we shall see soon

 

[dancareoi]

due september - are you sure you have your dates right - you know how our bodies can fool us sometimes.

Tayla, it sounds so fustrating that no-one seems to be able to help, can`t your doctor get involved as well?

Zoe, i think Cocopop is a lovely name for your LO. When i was pregnant with my first, we were convinced the baby was convceived when we were on holiday in Jackson, Wyoming in the US. We never found out what he was until he was born, but all the way through we refered to him as little jackson!

How are you getting on in Oz now?

i think i have told you all of my pending appointment with this professor, well i sent her an email on wednesday and detailed all 5 of my pregnancies and my age and DH age. I said i know it is difficult for her to give an accurate assessment until she has seen us and done tests, but i asked whether we should try now or wait until we have seen her.

She told me we should try again now, she said it would not be a problem if i was pregnant when i go and see her, because she said she could do tests and start any treatment that may be required immediately.

Will show DH her reply later.

Surely if she thought there were any major problems she would tell us to wait until we have seen her, so i think she thinks that it was just one of those things rather than anything medical.

i am really hoping DH agrees!!

Lisa xx

Since I had my surgery my period has been on point exactly 27-28 days...I was suppose to get it on March 21st and it still hasnt come...I am going to test again to make sure...Someone said I tested to early but we shall see soon

Keep us posted!

 

[DueSeptember]

Keep us posted!

I took another test yesterday and it was negative again Guess I gotta go see the OB

 

[dancareoi]

Keep us posted!

I took another test yesterday and it was negative again Guess I gotta go see the OB

As if what we have had to go through wasn`t bad enough, there always seems to be something else that gets thrown at us.

Hope everything is ok.

 

[DueSeptember]

Hope everything is ok.

I tested yesterday still negative People keep telling me it is stress but I dont feel stressed out I do work a lot but I am tired more than anything...Guess I will make an appt

 

[dancareoi]

Hope everything is ok.

I tested yesterday still negative People keep telling me it is stress but I dont feel stressed out I do work a lot but I am tired more than anything...Guess I will make an appt

No harm to get it checked out, at least you know then.

Life is just so crap sometimes isn`t it?

 

[dancareoi]

that email sounds really positive - I hope it puts yr Dhs mind at rest and that you can start TTC start away! Fingers crossed hun xXx

DH won`t do anything until we have seen the professor - even though her email says ok to.

I just want to TTC now to make me feel better. I think the only reason i don`t want to see her is if she says that there is no way we can have another baby due to xxx problems.

I don`t know how I would handle that.

just feeling totally crap again today. I am living in a nightmare - have to wait now at least another 4 weeks to see if DH agrees and even then he might not.

however, if this professor says we are good to go, i think he will agree, because he knows the total devastation there will be if he says no.

he does not want another, but he would do it for me, as he knows how much it means to me.

Deep down i know he is right to wait to see this professor, but it`s just the waiting around that is getting me down.

 

[DueSeptember]

Hope everything is ok.

I tested yesterday still negative People keep telling me it is stress but I dont feel stressed out I do work a lot but I am tired more than anything...Guess I will make an appt

No harm to get it checked out, at least you know then.

Life is just so crap sometimes isn`t it?

Yes but better to be safe so in the future I can have a Healthy Baby when we do TTC

 

[WILSMUM]

that email sounds really positive - I hope it puts yr Dhs mind at rest and that you can start TTC start away! Fingers crossed hun xXx

DH won`t do anything until we have seen the professor - even though her email says ok to.

I just want to TTC now to make me feel better. I think the only reason i don`t want to see her is if she says that there is no way we can have another baby due to xxx problems.

I don`t know how I would handle that.

just feeling totally crap again today. I am living in a nightmare - have to wait now at least another 4 weeks to see if DH agrees and even then he might not.

however, if this professor says we are good to go, i think he will agree, because he knows the total devastation there will be if he says no.

he does not want another, but he would do it for me, as he knows how much it means to me.

Deep down i know he is right to wait to see this professor, but it`s just the waiting around that is getting me down.

but i would say from what the professor has said in her email and the fact you have had repeated miscarriages that everything will be ok when you see her. its horrible waiting around, i'm the same once i decide on somethign i want to do it right there and then! but if it means you get a healthy baby at then you just need to keep that thought in mind and i hope that will get you thru these next few weeks xXx