nikky0907
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Ok,so I'm in a situation where I got pregnant by a guy he was not a one night stand but more of a fling.
But I chose to tell him because he is a decent guy and is going to be a good dad.We are now on good terms...
Your baby's dad is a DRUG addict.Cocain is not an easy drug.He is obviously violent and he is NOT soemone who can have a positive influence on a baby.
He is not mature or responsible.You are.
You made this decision and you are going to be a good mother.
The father has the right to know but maybe it's better even for him that he doesn't.And it's better for the baby and easier for you.Do you think that if he knew he would harras the two of you or stressed you in any way?
Like Toria said,when you become a mother and you are forced to grow up,things change.But the father has to be said how he has to act.
Toria is doing good by telling her bf that he can't be around the baby with drugs.You shouldn't either...
p.s. your baby is the only person that has the right to know his father,it is nobody else's buisness....
But I chose to tell him because he is a decent guy and is going to be a good dad.We are now on good terms...
Your baby's dad is a DRUG addict.Cocain is not an easy drug.He is obviously violent and he is NOT soemone who can have a positive influence on a baby.
He is not mature or responsible.You are.
You made this decision and you are going to be a good mother.
The father has the right to know but maybe it's better even for him that he doesn't.And it's better for the baby and easier for you.Do you think that if he knew he would harras the two of you or stressed you in any way?
Like Toria said,when you become a mother and you are forced to grow up,things change.But the father has to be said how he has to act.
Toria is doing good by telling her bf that he can't be around the baby with drugs.You shouldn't either...
p.s. your baby is the only person that has the right to know his father,it is nobody else's buisness....