Emmea12uk
The Folic acid police!
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It is a very difficult situation to be in - but every father has a right to know about his baby - but I don't think I would be particularly bothered about his rights either. If you do tell him, or he later finds out - there is a lot you can do to protect yourself and your baby if he is taking drugs or will be a risk to you both.
It may be worth you popping in to see your local family solicitor one day if it bothers you and tell them about the situation. I used to work in a law firm which dealt with this kind of thing every day on public funding for low income families. If you have evidence of his drug taking and bad behaviour then you will be provided all the protection you need - such as an injunction etc. And on the plus side, you will be able to get child maintanance... You'd be very suprised how helpful and supportive a family solicitor will be.
This is assuming you are in the UK - because I didn't check before I hit reply!
It may be worth you popping in to see your local family solicitor one day if it bothers you and tell them about the situation. I used to work in a law firm which dealt with this kind of thing every day on public funding for low income families. If you have evidence of his drug taking and bad behaviour then you will be provided all the protection you need - such as an injunction etc. And on the plus side, you will be able to get child maintanance... You'd be very suprised how helpful and supportive a family solicitor will be.
This is assuming you are in the UK - because I didn't check before I hit reply!