I was off of bcp for 5 months when I finally got ewcm but not even 10 days after the only time I got ewcm, I am already showing signs of period. I bought the book, taking charge of your fertility, great book but I am concerned my hormones will not allow a fertilized egg to stick. I would recommend the book. It helps you understand that not all cycles are the same meaning that you might want to not stop having sex because you might not ovulate until day 23 and that means your cycle should that month, be about 33 to 39 days and how to really tell if you are ovulating. I would not wait to get the book like I did, it really helps you understand exactly what is happening with your body. I am getting very down and sad. Think it is getting to my husband as well because as I type this, we are fighting. This is far more stressful than I ever imagined. I am only 24 and he is 29. I knew my body would take time to get rid of bcp but not 5 months and now that I have signs of period, one more month of no baby but at least my body did (hopefully) ovulate finally. I guess I am a "next month" candidate. Good luck everyone, I truly hope you all got what you are so ready for.