Things I cannot say out loud....

[Supermaiden]

Dear SIL
Please do not tell me when pregnant that you will be sending over items for LO and then not do it. It hurt because I did that for you.

Dear people who say they want to see LO, and have been wanting to see him since he was born. He is now 4 months and youve never shown the slightest bit of interest in seeing him. At a family get together you said you "want him first" well, Im sorry but those who are actually interested will get to see him first! And still you havent made any effort whatsoever to visit or arrange an outing or anything so you can see LO for more than 5 minutes. One of you actually said you would visit in hospital - I was there 5 days and only had visits from the same people and you were not one of them, I even had most visit times on my own, I was so lonely!

Dear OH, please dont go on about how much you miss seeing LO then come home and spend your time on the computer leaving me and LO sitting downstairs like we do all day when you are at work anyway. And please dont say you will come see us after doing something and then 2 hours later come down when it is his bath time! And please stop getting annoyed when I want you to hold him while I go do something he needs like his bath running or his bottles making, its your job too! And please dont get annoyed when I ask my mum to come help me clean the house as its a pigsty, if you cant help then I need someone to help!

Dear little cousin, you need to learn that you cant have people's whole attention now there is another child around. You push in and have to be centre of attention or you are not happy, we have noticed and try to make it easier for you so please work with us lol.

My first rant, and I feel bad for posting it!

 

[BabyBoo36]

Oh baby boo! Are you in agony too?! What the hell is this pain! I'm used to pain, I have hypermobility, but dear lord, I can actually cry with it!!!

Yeah it bloody kills. It only started last week, but I did some ironing last night and my hands were like claws after. I haven't been able to straighten my elbows since it started, and if I get on the floor - god help my knees....

 

[MizzDeeDee]

Dear SIL
Please do not tell me when pregnant that you will be sending over items for LO and then not do it. It hurt because I did that for you.

Dear people who say they want to see LO, and have been wanting to see him since he was born. He is now 4 months and youve never shown the slightest bit of interest in seeing him. At a family get together you said you "want him first" well, Im sorry but those who are actually interested will get to see him first! And still you havent made any effort whatsoever to visit or arrange an outing or anything so you can see LO for more than 5 minutes. One of you actually said you would visit in hospital - I was there 5 days and only had visits from the same people and you were not one of them, I even had most visit times on my own, I was so lonely!

Dear OH, please dont go on about how much you miss seeing LO then come home and spend your time on the computer leaving me and LO sitting downstairs like we do all day when you are at work anyway. And please dont say you will come see us after doing something and then 2 hours later come down when it is his bath time! And please stop getting annoyed when I want you to hold him while I go do something he needs like his bath running or his bottles making, its your job too! And please dont get annoyed when I ask my mum to come help me clean the house as its a pigsty, if you cant help then I need someone to help!

Dear little cousin, you need to learn that you cant have people's whole attention now there is another child around. You push in and have to be centre of attention or you are not happy, we have noticed and try to make it easier for you so please work with us lol.

My first rant, and I feel bad for posting it!

Don't feel bad. I think these kind of threads are great.. it's better to rant on here then opposed to on them.. right?

 

[lisaf]

DH -
YES I hid your package before you got home, and you know what? It meant you actually did a chore or two before settling down to look at your stupid strategy guide for your new game. And I'm not sorry I did it either

However, I do nothing but run around like crazy when I get home from work... I'm trying to keep Daniel from chopping his fingers off in the heater, suffocating on a plastic bag, trying to eat the dogs bed etc.. all while taking care of dirty diapers, putting new clothes in his daycare bag, dealing with the milk I pumped at work, prepping bottles for tomorrow and cleaning the bottles from today. Then I start steaming his veggies and doing any chores I have to get done before his bedtime.
Don't say that you run around like crazy in the mornings. You run around getting yourself ready, feeding LO a bottle and putting his bottles in his bag. And guess what? Thats ALL you have to do because of all the work I do when I get home from work after picking Daniel up. Getting yourself ready for work doesn't count as a chore you have to do in the mornings. I have to get myself ready for work, feed the cats, and pump milk all while staying quiet so I don't disturb you or LO.

 

[Natsku]

Maria: Why oh why must you immediately empty the wood basket on the floor right after I've vacuumed???!!!! And what is your obsession with taking the shoes out of the shoe rack? The moment I clean something up you mess it up - I might as well not bother cleaning

 

[missVN]

OH- I won't apologise or be made to feel bad for arranging to see breaking dawn with your mum. 1- you said you didn't want to watch it as its sh*t, 2- when I asked you to put down to have a weekend off so we could do something you had a right go at me cos you 'couldn't keep asking for time off' and 3- your mum is having a really rubbish time and I want to cheer her up!

If you ignore Ryan when he crawls over to you one more time because you are on your stupid computer game then I will make sure it 'accidentally' on purpose gets damaged

 

[Ozzieshunni]

VN, just accidentally give it to Ryan to play with

 

[KathrynW]

Great rant. Sounds exactly like my mother in law. x

 

[missVN]

VN, just accidentally give it to Ryan to play with

He's already had a go with the controller but the actual playstation is up out of his reach, hope he learns to climb quickly

 

[emyandpotato]

Maria: Why oh why must you immediately empty the wood basket on the floor right after I've vacuumed???!!!! And what is your obsession with taking the shoes out of the shoe rack? The moment I clean something up you mess it up - I might as well not bother cleaning

She sounds like my OH

 

[Natsku]

Maria: Why oh why must you immediately empty the wood basket on the floor right after I've vacuumed???!!!! And what is your obsession with taking the shoes out of the shoe rack? The moment I clean something up you mess it up - I might as well not bother cleaning

She sounds like my OH

My OH does it too, I just vacuum and he brings a new load of wood in and spills the dust and bark everywhere

 

[StarlitHome]

UGGGHHH wonder week 12, why'd you show up early?? All I've done today is nurse and I'm exhausted.... >.< please let my tired girly get a good sleep tonight!

Property manager - I've been asking for two weeks that you get our non-draining (like, at ALL) bathroom sink looked at. You're lovely and friendly and nice but hello, this is your JOB please do it!!!! We need a working bathroom sink!!

 

[Ozzieshunni]

Starlit, it'll pass before you know it We just got through WW19 and the four month sleep regression is tailing off.

 

[sapphire1]

Holly - please be nice to me today. I could do with some not being attacked every 5 minutes. At least you make me laugh *sigh*

 

[Eliza_V]

I'm just so miserable. I don't want to do this anymore. Everything I do is supposedly wrong anyway, and there are more 'important' things I should be doing, so yeah.

 

[Lauki]

Sophie - Why do you only stay quiet if I tap/kick the wall with my foot?!
My foot is sore and tired now .

 

[Emmy1987]

PND - fuck off.

OH - I'm beginning to resent you for moving us down here. But thank you for offering to come with me to tesco tonight instead of me going alone today. I'm far too much of a mess to shop

 

[Emmy1987]

I'm just so miserable. I don't want to do this anymore. Everything I do is supposedly wrong anyway, and there are more 'important' things I should be doing, so yeah.

x

 

[Lauki]

to you both!

 

[Eliza_V]

Thank you. to all x