Things I cannot say out loud....

[Fergie]

I'm sure I talk crap sometimes, but she really made me doubt myself. She followed my posts around the forum for a good couple of weeks

We all talk crap sometimes ... well everyone except me

Never doubt yourself, you did nothing wrong except have empathy for someone , whereas i'm just a cynical bitch

for all who need them x

 

[Ozzieshunni]

What's terrible is some of us are genuine. We do have kids and we don't lie about what we do and who we are. This will cast doubt on everyone.

Seriously, for all I know, Lettuce could be a robot or have a detachable head

 

[Lettuce]

Shit! How did you know?! nope, I'm real. Sadly enough. Tho I'm sure you think I'm fake as my baby is so gorgeous.
Im sorry, I remember previous arguments vaguely, but I think you are a good poster, im sure loads do!
I just can't believe someone can waste that much time and effort... Think of the ironing she could have been doing?!

 

[Fergie]

What's terrible is some of us are genuine. We do have kids and we don't lie about what we do and who we are. This will cast doubt on everyone.

Seriously, for all I know, Lettuce could be a robot or have a detachable head

The first thing that popped into my head was Kryton .

I'm suspicious by nature. Sadly not a good thing, but it has it's uses . Don't doubt yourself, seriously don't do it. Your a nice person and don't change your view of the world because of one mental unstable person

 

[BabyBoo36]

Hugs to ozzie - some people have nothing better to do.....

Sorry guys but this will be LONG! SIL has finally gone a huge step to far. After 2 weeks of relative calm, she rang DH while he was at work screaming down the phone at him. He put the phone down on her. An hour later, PIL turned up unannounced at our house (I wasn't aware she'd rung him at that time as he'd only just walked in and hadn't had time to tell me.) Cue another long argument about SIL's behaviour and why she isn't Godparent. I actually had FIL tell me he "doesn't want to go to his grave knowing his daughter isn't godparent!" I blew up at him, told him it was emotional blackmail and to leave. MIL wouldn't believe SIL is Pagan, so DH pulls up her FB page which is plastered with Pagan references, has her religion as Wicca/White witch etc, and MIL was a little shocked. Anyway, we smoothed it over a little, PIL hugged and kissed me as they left, saying they didn't want to fall out.

Fast forward 30 mins, and SIL rings DH's mobile, literally screaming down the phone at him that I've deleted one of her posts on FB. DH tries to explain that I haven't deleted anything, but as I've changed my privacy settings, her posts don't show on my wall, She calls me a "f***ing liar" and tells DH he is no longer her brother. A few minutes later, DH logs onto FB to remove her from his friends list, and she's posted a rant about how she no longer has a brother, about his "lying b***h of a wife", and about how DH is a dog who is puled around on a lead by me!!! DH removes and blocks her from mine and his FB, and sends her an e-mail telling her he's seen what she's written, and that she'll not see him, me or Pud again. We then block her from our 2 e-mail accounts. He also tells PIL the same.

After a pretty sleepless night, I get up this am to find she has messaged some of my friends on FB to say I'm a lying b***h, she wished I'd never met her brother and wishes us both dead!". I've had to contact all my friends asking them not to reply to her and to block her. She is completely bat s**t crazy. I've told DH she will never be in the same room as me and Pud again, that she is not welcome in our house, and that if she continues to message people I will go to the police and have her done for harassment. I have bagged up anything she has ever given Pud, and it will be going to charity - I don't want Pud having it.

I feel strangely calm. She has finally given me the ammunition I needed to say I never want to see her again. DH is very shocked. Phew what a night!

 

[Fergie]

Hugs to ozzie - some people have nothing better to do.....

Sorry guys but this will be LONG! SIL has finally gone a huge step to far. After 2 weeks of relative calm, she rang DH while he was at work screaming down the phone at him. He put the phone down on her. An hour later, PIL turned up unannounced at our house (I wasn't aware she'd rung him at that time as he'd only just walked in and hadn't had time to tell me.) Cue another long argument about SIL's behaviour and why she isn't Godparent. I actually had FIL tell me he "doesn't want to go to his grave knowing his daughter isn't godparent!" I blew up at him, told him it was emotional blackmail and to leave. MIL wouldn't believe SIL is Pagan, so DH pulls up her FB page which is plastered with Pagan references, has her religion as Wicca/White witch etc, and MIL was a little shocked. Anyway, we smoothed it over a little, PIL hugged and kissed me as they left, saying they didn't want to fall out.

Fast forward 30 mins, and SIL rings DH's mobile, literally screaming down the phone at him that I've deleted one of her posts on FB. DH tries to explain that I haven't deleted anything, but as I've changed my privacy settings, her posts don't show on my wall, She calls me a "f***ing liar" and tells DH he is no longer her brother. A few minutes later, DH logs onto FB to remove her from his friends list, and she's posted a rant about how she no longer has a brother, about his "lying b***h of a wife", and about how DH is a dog who is puled around on a lead by me!!! DH removes and blocks her from mine and his FB, and sends her an e-mail telling her he's seen what she's written, and that she'll not see him, me or Pud again. We then block her from our 2 e-mail accounts. He also tells PIL the same.

After a pretty sleepless night, I get up this am to find she has messaged some of my friends on FB to say I'm a lying b***h, she wished I'd never met her brother and wishes us both dead!". I've had to contact all my friends asking them not to reply to her and to block her. She is completely bat s**t crazy. I've told DH she will never be in the same room as me and Pud again, that she is not welcome in our house, and that if she continues to message people I will go to the police and have her done for harassment. I have bagged up anything she has ever given Pud, and it will be going to charity - I don't want Pud having it.

I feel strangely calm. She has finally given me the ammunition I needed to say I never want to see her again. DH is very shocked. Phew what a night!

Seriously though i'd contact the police anyway, she is in drastic need of some help and support. She is being enabled in her behaviour by your PIL & MIL etc and they certainly need to have serious words with her.

huni, you did good

 

[Ozzieshunni]

Oh babyboo! Yikes! This woman sounds unstable. I would be making a police report as well if she continues

 

[BrokenfoREVer]

babyboo. I would be going to the police anyway, that shit right there is not on!

At least she'll be out of your life now

 

[BabyBoo36]

Hugs to ozzie - some people have nothing better to do.....

Sorry guys but this will be LONG! SIL has finally gone a huge step to far. After 2 weeks of relative calm, she rang DH while he was at work screaming down the phone at him. He put the phone down on her. An hour later, PIL turned up unannounced at our house (I wasn't aware she'd rung him at that time as he'd only just walked in and hadn't had time to tell me.) Cue another long argument about SIL's behaviour and why she isn't Godparent. I actually had FIL tell me he "doesn't want to go to his grave knowing his daughter isn't godparent!" I blew up at him, told him it was emotional blackmail and to leave. MIL wouldn't believe SIL is Pagan, so DH pulls up her FB page which is plastered with Pagan references, has her religion as Wicca/White witch etc, and MIL was a little shocked. Anyway, we smoothed it over a little, PIL hugged and kissed me as they left, saying they didn't want to fall out.

Fast forward 30 mins, and SIL rings DH's mobile, literally screaming down the phone at him that I've deleted one of her posts on FB. DH tries to explain that I haven't deleted anything, but as I've changed my privacy settings, her posts don't show on my wall, She calls me a "f***ing liar" and tells DH he is no longer her brother. A few minutes later, DH logs onto FB to remove her from his friends list, and she's posted a rant about how she no longer has a brother, about his "lying b***h of a wife", and about how DH is a dog who is puled around on a lead by me!!! DH removes and blocks her from mine and his FB, and sends her an e-mail telling her he's seen what she's written, and that she'll not see him, me or Pud again. We then block her from our 2 e-mail accounts. He also tells PIL the same.

After a pretty sleepless night, I get up this am to find she has messaged some of my friends on FB to say I'm a lying b***h, she wished I'd never met her brother and wishes us both dead!". I've had to contact all my friends asking them not to reply to her and to block her. She is completely bat s**t crazy. I've told DH she will never be in the same room as me and Pud again, that she is not welcome in our house, and that if she continues to message people I will go to the police and have her done for harassment. I have bagged up anything she has ever given Pud, and it will be going to charity - I don't want Pud having it.

I feel strangely calm. She has finally given me the ammunition I needed to say I never want to see her again. DH is very shocked. Phew what a night!

Seriously though i'd contact the police anyway, she is in drastic need of some help and support. She is being enabled in her behaviour by your PIL & MIL etc and they certainly need to have serious words with her.

:hugs: huni, you did good

You have no idea how much that sentence means to me. Thank you.

PIL won't say anything to her. They are scared of her. When DH rang them to tell them we will be having no more contact with her due to what she's putting on FB, FIL's reply was "Perhaps you should come off FB". Er, why should we have to come off FB because off the actions of that crazy woman!?!

I've had friends contacting me for the last hour who she's messaged telling me they want to reply. I've told them all not too because it drags them down to her level, and will possibly weaken any harassment case I may have to make. Thankfully, they are all bright enough to see my point. A "withheld" number also keeps ringing, but I'm screening with the answer machine in case it's her.

I'm just a bit numb - I knew she was a manipulator and frankly, a loon, but I didn't think she'd go this far.

 

[Karlie06]

Babyboo! Are you sure your SIL and mine aren't related?! Good for you for standing up to her x

 

[Natsku]

I agree, I would go to the police, she is messed up.

I would like to assure you all that I am 100% real, apart from my robotic penis.

 

[Ozzieshunni]

Freaky random fact: You can get a penis that's controlled by someone else on another computer.

 

[Fergie]

Freaky random fact: You can get a penis that's controlled by someone else on another computer.

@Nats - How did you get on with the landlord ?

 

[Ozzieshunni]

I'm serious! It's like for long distance relationships or porn

 

[Natsku]

Haven't heard anything yet

 

[Lettuce]

How do you know that Ozzie? I suspect you had a long distance relationship... I'm putting 2 and 2 together...

Babyboo. This woman is mental. I agree, log it all, save the messages you can and inform the police. you've been a good DIL, a great wife and a brilliant mother. I hope you never need to see her again.
Good luck nats, maybe the robotic penis will help your case...

 

[BabyBoo36]

I have just spat my tea out, choked on it, gone purple in the face, started coughing madly and poor Little Pud is looking at me with some concern.........oh no, my mistake, she's gone back to chewing the DVD remote control.

Robotic penis.......

 

[Natsku]

I GOT THE FLAT!!!!!!!!!

 

[Lettuce]

yay Nats! Xxx

 

[Fergie]

At last some good news .

Goodluck in your lovely new home Nats & Maria .

@Boo ... What is it with babys and remote controls ??. I had to take the batteries out of the tele one for Boo cause she'd recorded half a dozen programmes whilst playing with the buttons .