Things I cannot say out loud....

[Natsku]

Congrats on getting your period!

 

[BabyBoo36]

DH - I knew you would begin to give in. You always do unless it's too me.

 

[Odd Socks]

Dear oh,

Stop pestering me for sex. If you'd actually help out a lot more then I'd probably be more inclined to give you some. But if both the girls are asleep, you've spent half the morning playing on your iPhone & there's washing up to be done, clothes to be hung out & cleaning to do then I'm doing it. & your not enamouring me anymore by skulking off to watch tv while I'm doing all that.

 

[tanya]

Ozzie- thanks for the pm but dh has veto'd it he doesn't think I have a problem and doesn't think I need help. (I think he's scared of the idea too)

Guess I'm just gonna stick with being fat and miserable, maybe one day I'll go to the drs for help but I'm not too optimistic.

To Flynn- please stop being naughty and playing with all the stuff you shouldnt have! And please be good tomorrow and Wednesday!

Me dh and both sil's are going to Birmingham for the gadget show live on Wednesday, Flynn is staying with grandma and because we need to leave early we are all staying at mil's tomMorrow night so flynns not being dragged out of bed early. I'm dreading it! We just got him back into his night sleeping routine (only up once yay!) he's prob gonna be up most of the night tomorrow and I just know the min he stirs mil will be up and at the door which won't help. Then I'm gonna be knackered all day worrying if he is ok as he's started with a bit of separation anxiety and isn't happy unless he can see me.

Tomorrow for lunch flynns having bread he helped bake

 

[Ozzieshunni]

I don't think it's fair for your DH to veto something that would make you healthier and happier That's not very supportive.

 

[Eliza_V]

I agree with Ozzie. could he be worrued ( either about safety, or even just change) so just wants to keep things the way they are to stay in his comfort zone?

Self: WHY have you been bleeding heavily for 2 weeks?? You never bleed on Cerazette, wtf has happened???

 

[Lauki]

I am really ready to try for another baby. But hubby refuses to even speak about it for at least another 2 years and would rather wait until S is 4 or 5 years old..

It's going to be so hard to ignore these feelings for years .

 

[Ozzieshunni]

Well I'm relieved. Even if I get pregnant next month it will still be too early to worry about heart block and such.

 

[tanya]

He likes me fat, he likes buying me chocolate and maccyd's he doesn't like when I diet coz I stop baking. I think he's worried I'll get thin and leave him too.
It's not ideal its just how it is.

 

[Ozzieshunni]

Oh hun That sounds a bit borderline abusive

 

[Eliza_V]

He likes me fat, he likes buying me chocolate and maccyd's he doesn't like when I diet coz I stop baking. I think he's worried I'll get thin and leave him too.
It's not ideal its just how it is.

My DH did the same thing a few years ago, partly subconsciously. I was slim and pretty when I met him, then put on 3 stone when I went on meds. Whenever I went on a diet, he would sabotage it by bringing home takeaways and would eat them in front of me. It broke my heart. But then I finally got him to talk to me about it, and he said he was scared of me getting "slim, pretty and confident" again as he was worried that people would come after me and I'd leave him and go for them instead. Although I was really quite angry, I felt a bit sorry for him for feeling that way. I tried to laugh it off in front of him, and smiled while reassuring him that it wasn't so, and that I was slim when I met him and chose him, so why would it be any different? If anything, things at the time were worse because my self-esteem was so low. Plus, I pointed out the advantages of him having a slim girl on his arm to show off! He felt really bad then for doing what he did, and it stopped. I know we've had our issues since, lol. But he may be saying it as he is scared, and is not necessarily being abusive I don't know your husband though, so I can't vouch for him either way. But if you want to do it without your husbands blessing, just make sure you've got a good support network, and reassure him often

 

[Lettuce]

Tanya, just huge hugs xx
Babyboo, I know your pain, my oh is the exact same

 

[Cupkake.Luver]

To my lips:

WHY ARE YOU SO DAMN CHAPPED?!??!!

 

[rainbowbaby2]

Sweetie its 8pm its time for bed not time to run around naked with a swimring screaming BATMAN

 

[Lettuce]

Sweetie its 8pm its time for bed not time to run around naked with a swimring screaming BATMAN

is that your OH?

 

[rainbowbaby2]

Sweetie its 8pm its time for bed not time to run around naked with a swimring screaming BATMAN

is that your OH?

haha oh thats made me chuckle even more xx

 

[Ozzieshunni]

Sweetie its 8pm its time for bed not time to run around naked with a swimring screaming BATMAN

is that your OH?

haha oh thats made me chuckle even more xx

Epic

 

[Eliza_V]

Hahaa rainbow

Yayy I did the move I wanted to learn! Next step, both hands off... I can get both hands off on the basic invert, just not this one yet...

Self: Well done for pulling your back due to being a div and twisting behind the pole by accident when upside-down Get yourself a hot wheatbag and stop being so lazy! And for the love of god, clean washing does NOT belong in piles on the stairs.. Put them away!!

LO: Thank you for being so good for Daddy on Mummy's first night away with her friends! I saw Steps (I'm so cool ) in Manchester with some friends and stayed in a rented apartment for the night

DH.. I didn't really "miss" those two trains home.. I could've got both if I ran for them But the first one, I had only just got to the station (stupid taxi driver took the scenic route) and I wanted to talk to my friends and not just run off, and the second one, well.. I wanted a hot chocolate

 

[linzylinz]

to family and friends who gave clothes and gifts to lo when she was born. please dont turn up to the bootsale this weekend and see the bits im selling that we no longer need and have no room for.

i need the money for lo birthday next month

 

[rainbowbaby2]

Orange you suck!! you tricked my Oh into a sim card saying its free then phoning demanding £300 to cancel the fecking thing we didnt want in the first place!!