Wear it out one time when you are with her and either leave it behind somewhere or let it blow away, act really upset about it.
No more awful hat and no hurt feelings
I wore it when she was there on Sunday - think that's enough?

I've left it in the car, in hopes that DH will smash it with a box of computers or similar
DH - I really, really want to bring up the topic of having another baby. I just can't figure out
how without freaking you out!
I know we could do it. We wouldn't need to move, or get a new vehicle. And I want to get the baby stage over with. I love babies, don't get me wrong, but I'd also love to get the diaper-changing part of our lives over in one fell swoop! Molly will be a wonderful big sister and I... I am just having that "there's someone missing" feeling lately.
When we cuddle all three of us together on the bed and play, I get this "missing" feeling. Our family isn't complete yet - we need our second little one.
I'm sure you're suspecting this, because I have brought up the topic of "when we have our second" a few times lately.
And I know that I'm still bfing so the chances of us getting a BFP are fairly slim still.
But there's someone missing from our family, we're not yet complete. And I want to meet that little person soon.