Things I cannot say out loud....

[Natsku]

Ah I was told not to get the copper coil cos I already have really heavy periods.

 

[BrokenfoREVer]

Ahh, yeah it can make them heavier for a few months. But then it settles down. I only had it cos hormone contraceptives disagree with me. It does make you really really crampy & horrible though. I had the worst cramps, but it all settled down in the end. & then I had it removed

Umm....you could always try the implant or the injection. Or condoms...then its not your problem

 

[Fergie]

I've tried all the contraceptions available . The pill makes me ill, i have a latex allergy, can't have the implant or injection as it doesn't work well with my meds, can't have the coil as they don't make them from steel . The only one i haven't and is the one i'm hoping i can persuade my Gynae Dr to do ( he refuses to give me a hysterectomy) is to have my tubes tied . Then no more incidents like this week .


HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO MY LITTLE RAINBOW BOO . I can't believe it's been a year since that midwife busted me eating a freddo bar in labour (I was starving and i made the OH give me it ). How time flies my little princess

 

[BrokenfoREVer]

Happy Birfday Boo

Haha getting busted for eating a freddo. My mum gave me a custard cream biscuit & the horrible mw I had acted like it was the end of the world. No more biscuits for Karlee til after he was born haha.

 

[Fergie]

I loved freddo bars too. I've never had another one though since she bollocked me out about eating it . I was famished, hadn't had any brekkie and could smell the canteen through the bloody window. But the OH made up for taking it away from me ... he snuck me in a McD's . I knew there was a reason i love him lol

 

[Natsku]

Hope you can convince your dr to tie your tubes. Can't you get it done privately or will the private drs say the same thing?

I was allowed to eat during labour, I packed loads of food and then didn't want any of it My ex ate it all though

 

[BrokenfoREVer]

I think I'd eaten 2 slices of pizza the night before I gave birth, but I wasn't hungry at all. I was thristy but my mum had scared me to death telling me she threw up after drinking loads of water with g&a & I kept refusing to drink incase I was sick.

It was okay though, cos she bought me some asda sausage rolls in the day after (I'd craved them all through my pregnancy)

I didn't like custard creams before the mw shouted & I don't now But it was my mum she shouted at, not me :/

 

[Natsku]

Oh yeah and happy birthday Boo!

I had dinner for breakfast on the day I gave birth cos I had stayed up all night in early labour so that kept me going pretty well.

 

[BrokenfoREVer]

I'd been up a lot of the night too. I became fairly nocturnal that week I was in labour lol.

I don't remember being hungry at all, even after I had him.

I was made to eat afterwards by my mum & I remember thinking maybe I'd stop feeling so weak & that it might help that god awful empty feeling in my belly after he was born if I ate.

 

[Natsku]

I think I snacked constantly on chocolates and biscuits and crisps after Maria was born cos the hospital food was pretty rubbish (was in for 4 days)

 

[BrokenfoREVer]

I didn't eat that much, hospital food is I was in for 4 days too. I'd dropped a hell of a lot of weight when I came out lol

 

[Fergie]

I escaped the hospital the day after i gave birth. I started begging (hounding ) them to let me out from 6am. The post natal ward ... ewww, It was the most awful place i've ever been in in my life. The food was alright but the staff were hitler henchmen, the exact opposite to the anti natal and labour wards. One of the students actually tried to take my creon off me, telling me i didn't need to take them if i ate properly !. Utter bitch. My mum did get her back though by saying rather loudly " WASH YOUR HANDS before you touch my grandaughter, do they not teach you that in nursing school now ??. They did in my time and if i was still a matron you'd be out the door !. I shall be making a formal complaint to your superior, but in the meantime ... here let me show you how to wash your hands properly ". . I get the bitch in me from my mum

 

[Natsku]

Haha your mum is awesome!

 

[Lettuce]

Love it fergie!

 

[BrokenfoREVer]

That's great fergie!

 

[Fergie]

I'm pregnant .

 

[Natsku]

Really? Oh no

 

[Fergie]

Yeah. We think about 5 weeks. I'm shitting myself, absolutely shitting myself. OH is freaking out and worried as i've been told not to have another baby. OMG. On one hand i'm so pleased and on another i'm just freaking. I've e-mailed both my consultants so they both know what's going on. My gastro dr i know i'll see this week if he's work, but my gynae is on holiday . I just don't know what to feel, i'm so in shock.

 

[Natsku]

You must be in shock. Maybe once its sunk in a bit you'll know what to feel. Hope your gynae is back from holiday soon.

 

[Lettuce]

oh fergie, huge huge hugs! Can I ask why you're not meant to have another?
I believe some things are meant to be, there's a reason why they are here, it'll be ok. But you know we're here to talk to.