Things I cannot say out loud....

[Natsku]

all round

 

[Lettuce]

I felt it was time to stop as I wasn't looking forward to bedtime anymore. She's happy enough. now I'm free til I get preggo again..

 

[luci and bump]

I'm glad I'm not being unreasonable about OH being so lazy! I'm hiding in our bedroom now, while he looks after LO downstairs.
I'd really like to go back to cheerleading, but he's got these crazy ideas about us going to live in Italy for 2 months, Feb-April next year, so no squad would take me, as I'd miss so much training, and at least 1 national competition, so I'll have to wait until next Sept, for the new season Just so fed up that he applied for this new job, without even telling me! So now, because I nanny Tues and Wed, we have had to as LO's Godmother to have her, which I don't feel 100% comfortable with! Especially as the cheeky cow has asked us to pay her!!!!!

 

[StarlitHome]

NO.
no.
no freaking way.
NOPE.
I am not going to feed my kid the way you feed yours. I know what they eat and I know that what my kid eats is BETTER FOR HER.
Eggs, whole grains, cheese, vegetables, fruit, the odd treat here and there, plus breastfeeding.
As opposed to the diet of sugary cereal, sugary caffiene-laden Icees, white processed rice and breads, greasy salty meats, and junk food that you feed your kids. And juice, did I mention juice?
Yes, when Molly sees you eating she wants some. Because she wants to know what it is and because it looks different and interesting. It doesn't mean she's hungry.
SHUT UP.
I will feed my child healthy, real food and raise her to eat right no matter how much pressure you put on me.

Just so you know, I'm going to be SERIOUSLY limiting the amount of time we spend with you and your children now. You can text me - we'll be busy. I'll do my laundry when you're in bed. No more daily hanging out.
I have better, less judgemental, more supportive people to spend my time with.

 

[Lauki]

Aww Lettuce you've done great! And it's great that she's self weaned and is happy about it!

We're still going and I doubt the end is anywhere in sight!

 

[BrokenfoREVer]

Seriously having a shitty day. Sick of fucking families causing grief.

Just leave me alone! Let me hurt in peace!

 

[Lettuce]

Lauki!!!!! Congratulations!!!!!! happy and healthy 9 months. Man, I'm broody. I
and thank you. I'm feeling a bit teary and she's been a bit clingy but I think that's the house move etc, but still not looking for mummy milk. I'm proud, but its not something you can boast about in real life iykwim?

 

[Lettuce]

Broken xxx

 

[Ozzieshunni]

Broken xx

 

[Lauki]

Broken.

It's hard seeing them get more independent every day isn't it?
How's the move going? Are you doing it in 2 stages?

 

[Natsku]

broken

Congrats Lauki

 

[BrokenfoREVer]

Congrats Lauki

Happy & healthy 9 months too you

 

[rainbowbaby2]

Well done girls on BF for so long xx il be asking you lot for tips lol as only managed 5weeks with lil man n that killed me xx Congrats Lauki.. Massive hugs broken xxx

 

[Dragonfly]

NO.
no.
no freaking way.
NOPE.
I am not going to feed my kid the way you feed yours. I know what they eat and I know that what my kid eats is BETTER FOR HER.
Eggs, whole grains, cheese, vegetables, fruit, the odd treat here and there, plus breastfeeding.
As opposed to the diet of sugary cereal, sugary caffiene-laden Icees, white processed rice and breads, greasy salty meats, and junk food that you feed your kids. And juice, did I mention juice?
Yes, when Molly sees you eating she wants some. Because she wants to know what it is and because it looks different and interesting. It doesn't mean she's hungry.
SHUT UP.
I will feed my child healthy, real food and raise her to eat right no matter how much pressure you put on me.

Just so you know, I'm going to be SERIOUSLY limiting the amount of time we spend with you and your children now. You can text me - we'll be busy. I'll do my laundry when you're in bed. No more daily hanging out.
I have better, less judgemental, more supportive people to spend my time with.

I like this.


Separate thought for the day
Some people are stupid. Ignorant on purpose.

 

[Natsku]

All this talk of breastfeeding makes me incredibly broody I just miss it so much

Maria - please do not run off in the shop again! I panicked when you disappeared and couldn't find you But thank you for being smart enough to go to one of the shop workers rather than walking outside or going off with some stranger.

 

[Lettuce]

Well done Maria! and well done mummy for teaching her well. Bet your heart stopped!

Yeah lauki, we don't get the keys to our house til the 30th so we're at the mils til then!! Eeep!

 

[Lauki]

Eeek! Sounds like fun !

 

[Bartness]

Just got a phone call I have been dreading for years. My favorite Grandma was sent to the hospital this morning, and now at quarter to 11 tonight, I get the call that she's not expected to make it through the night. Im very sad...very sad..cant stop crying...I miss her already she's not even gone. It makes me even more sad to know Iwont be able to say goodbye, and tell her how much she means to me and how much I love her.

 

[tanya]

Aww bartness (and anyone else needing them)
I lost my fil a few monthsago, he was like a dad to me and was the nicest guy ever!
If you need to talk I'm here for you.
I didn't get to say goodbye either, everyone went to the hospice to sit with him but I had to stay home with Flynn.

Sil I know you're trying to help but its too much.
This month we've been decorating (had already bought the stuff) dh got ripped off on a big eBay sale, my car died and the exhaust fell off, dh's bonus didn't come through, fils death in service grant didn't come through (£15000 mil is giving us all £1500) lots of niggly little expensive things went wrong and we literally had no money (it was so bad my google history includes the question "can you use a tea towel as a nappy?" Apparently not )
Sil has had a good month, she's started a new job and is no longer unemployed yay! Other sil has been working two jobs and they were given their brand new works car.
Sil let us off with this months rent till we can pay it, we were still struggling, mil gave us £200 and we were better but not great, sil then gave us £50, left it on our sofa while we were in bed so we couldn't refuse it. Then yesterday comes home with a car full of shopping (two days after we did the big shop mind, although it was a bit of a stingy one with lots of tesco value stuff lol) it's all been really nice of them and I'm really grateful (we have nappies now too thanks to someone on fb having a link to cheap ones lol)
It's hurting dh, because I don't work he is the main breadwinner and he loves being the man and providing for his family (I've always earned more than him) he cried the other night coz he feels like he's failed in some way, which he hasn't its always tight with money and things have just all gone wrong.
Last week we visited mil nearly everyday for the day on the pretence of dh being busy decorating but really it was because we had no food in the house and she feeds us while we are there. How pathetic is that?

 

[Natsku]

Well done Maria! and well done mummy for teaching her well. Bet your heart stopped!

Yeah lauki, we don't get the keys to our house til the 30th so we're at the mils til then!! Eeep!

I didn't teach her though, thats what surprised me!

Good luck at your MIL's!


Oh Bartness, I'm so sorry