All I'm saying is that some people deserve a high five... In the face... With a frying pan. I;m so over all of these judgmental fools out there who feel the need to put my dreams down just because somehow feel threatened or so self important that they feel the need to try to mold me to their way of thinking.
Exhibit A.
I'm routinely ridiculed by a certain co-worker because my DH is 36 and I'm 25. The eleven year age difference combined with the fact that his eldest daughter is 10 (youngest is 7) has them all up in arms also because, in her words "PEOPLE WILL THINK YOU WERE A TEEN MOM AND HE'S A PEDOPHILE!" Honestly? I'm just like "... You do realize that your desk phone has a higher IQ than you, right? Okay. Just checking."
I love our age difference. I'm extremely mature and he's BRILLIANT so we're CONSTANTLY having discussions around Science and world issues and he's goofy enough to love and appreciate my silliness. It's a perfect match. Don't hate.
Exhibit B.
People who hate because I have 3 (soon to be 4) horses, two cats, four dogs and a Beta fish and three step daughters and go on to say I already have too much on my plate and because I'm 25 I supposedly can't afford it all. Only... I can. Hubby and I both work for the same Fortune 500 Tech company. I make enough on my own to take care of all of it and more. Hubby makes almost twice what I do. I think we're gravy. I do NOT brag about my paychecks. I do NOT see how my wealth, or lack of it, is ANY of their business. And I find it incredibly funny that the people who are whining to me about this are unemployed house wives driving the stupid expensive *insert luxury vehicle brand here* station wagon hubby bought. Y'know... The ones who have a nanny so they can go out all day tanning and shopping while the rest of us earn a living and have real lives.
Exhibit C.
The ones who whine that I'm too fat to have a baby. Yeeeeah they go there because I'm a chunky monkey. Sucks for them that I have excellent blood pressure and am more than healthy aside from being undesirable in the eye of the media. I'm a rather proud plus size woman and am fit and active. I hike places in these desert hills and mountains that many of these people wouldn't dare. I ride horses. I'm fricken super woman and I WILL have a baby even if you think I need to shed a few pounds.
and those are my rants for now.