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I am so sorry that you are going through this. You have not let yourself go. You are pregnant and it is not easy on you mentally or emotionally. So what about your shaved legs, it's bloody hard to bend down at the moment!!! Give yourself a break, you are in the process of caring for something very beautiful and do not need what you are going through just now.
As for this message you found could it be one of these "adult" websites. It could be one of these flirty things without anything even happening or them even meeting.
Good luck to you hun and look after yourself, have that other bar of chocolate or easter egg if it makes you better. Hopefully he will contact you soon and you can talk a bit more. Thinkin of you