This'll be the month to remember, with BFPs in September!

[frsttimemama]

Yay!! Good luck!

 

[prgirl_11]

EWCM last night! FINALLY!

Will catch up later, busy morning at work.

Atta girl!!!! Woohoo!!!!! Be sure to BD today too!

 

[TTCaWee1]

Sorry about the bfn Mirolee

 

[NDTaber9211]

You aren't out yet Mirolee!

My ob didn't even mention an IUI, I might bring it up to her. If the clomid doesn't do the trick, we are going to sort of stop TTC. We will still bd and stuff but no opks, temping, etc. I'll focus on losing weight and we might look into fostering a child. If we can't have kids of our own, we want to be able to help one that's been dealt a rotten hand.

 

[frsttimemama]

Nichole, don't give up yet. I still have hope for you! I think that's a sweet plan though. If we can't have more, we will adopt. Or try to. I've heard its very difficult and expensive.

 

[NDTaber9211]

There is a foster to adopt program around here that actually isn't very costly. I know the chances of us actually getting a baby though is slim and I am on with that. I am not quite giving up, I am definitely hoping these last 5 clomid cycles will get the job done, I am mainly looking at all my options now.

 

[goldstns]

Nichole- we got preggo from 1% morph. There is a chance!!! I promise! I HIGHLY recommend the vitamin regimen my DH took (let me know if you need the list again). DH was on it for 3 months ( I know its a pain in the butt for DH but WORKED) and then boom.. preggo! The first SA he had 0% morph, then did vits for 3 months and went up to 1% morph and then we found out we were preggo days later. Some info about my RE... he charged me ONLY at our "specialist co-pay" for each visit. So we paid $50/visit. However if we did IUI/IVF then we would have to pay in full. The reason he could charge us the co-pay is because we came to him with pre-existing issues (my high prolactin)... so he saw us for that part (endocrinology) not as a fertility specialist. So there might be a way to swing the phrasing of why you are seeing the RE and might be able to see an RE as an endocrinologist not a fertility specialist. Hope this helps... keep up the positive thoughts!

 

[NDTaber9211]

Can I please get the list again? Thank you for your encouraging words DH wants to do all he can to try and get his morph up.

 

[RobertRedford]

Can I please get the list again? Thank you for your encouraging words DH wants to do all he can to try and get his morph up.

If you log into your kp.org account, go to "my coverage and costs" and then select "eligibility and benefits" on the left. You will get a list like this, which shows what your coverage is, and the costs/co-pay (ignore the awkward screen shot/crop..I had to hide confidential work crap) :

 

[frsttimemama]

I had a little blob of ewcm. Opk is still totally negative. Hubby has an appointment with a gi dr in about 2 weeks. I hope he feels well enough to bd these next couple of nights. I hate even trying when he doesn't feel well most of the time. It makes me feel selfish.

 

[NDTaber9211]

I don't trust that list. It said we would only have a $50 co-pay for DH's pet/ct cancer scan but that wasn't true. We were charged 1800 for it. Well 1500 cause that's his out of pocket maximum.

 

[frsttimemama]

Wow what a huge difference!

 

[clynn11]

No way Mirolee, you are NOT out!!! Ashlee saw a faaaaint barely there BFP at 14dpo, BFP at 15dpo. Emily had a BFN at 13dpo, and a BFP at 17dpo (she didn't test in between though). Waves I believe got faints starting at 11dpo and a true BFP at 13dpo. (Correct me if i'm wrong ladies!) In other words, NO WAY YOU'RE OUT!!!! lol.

I still haven't O'd. Worried I might not at all... temp still low, OPK still negative. WTF body!

 

[frsttimemama]

You will Cassidy! My temps all over and OPKS are totally negative, but had a bit of ewcm so hopefully I will o soon, too!

 

[brunettebimbo]

You will Cassidy! Do you check your cervix?

 

[pdxmom]

hey all...

Mirolee obviously ur not out!!! hang in there girlie..

Nichole...u have 5 mths of clomid ahead of u...dont u worry im sure ur gonna tht tht long awaited bfp

girls waiting to o....sending positive thoughts your way for your bodies to do wat ur waiting for

AFM - I am pissed....ive been trying to call my dr ofc to callin my bloodwork and make an app for next week since monday...and its been goin to his voicemail...thought id go there and do it in person...went there this morning and found a notice on his door saying he is out on a family emergency....i know he obviously cudnt help it but i have to do my bloodwork on saturday and then i need my clomid ...dono wats gonna happen

 

[NDTaber9211]

Ugh that sucks Sonia. That's what I felt when my dr wasn't returning my messages about getting my clomid.

I am having peak O signs. EWCM, cervix is definitely open which is the first time I knew for sure it was open, and it is soft. I kind of want to bd today but we did yesterday. I want to bd 3 days in a row when I get a +opk which I think will happen tomorrow. Last cycle I got a +opk on cd17 and I am really hoping that happens again.

 

[BubsMom17]

Mirolee don't forget I was stark white BFN at 13 DPO. I have a longer cycle, but I don't think that impacts on when the eggie actually implants...

 

[frsttimemama]

My cervix is soft, high and open. Hopefully that means o soon, coupled with the little bit of ewcm. Im going to bd whenever hubby feels up to it. We haven't since Sunday because he has felt bad. I feel bad pushing the issue but now is prime time. Idk whether to put it on hold until he feels better. I feel selfish.

 

[frsttimemama]

Sonia, how frustrating! I wish I had good advice.