Yeah Mirolee, I'm sorry I can't discuss much and I don't really even KNOW much at this point about why they are doing this. I know I shouldn't really discuss it at all online- I just thought it'd be okay on here, since we are from all over. I CAN say this though, that charges cannot be made without some kind of suspicious evidence: In the police report and news they said he was "slurring his words" and they suspected him drunk (umm NO, we were on the way back from taking his little niece home). Well- WOULDN'T YOU slur your words if you had 8 broken ribs, shattered chest wall, broken nose, shattered/gashed knees, tibia popping out of your leg, blood pouring from every hole in your body, including throat/lungs, and you couldn't remember a bit of what had even happened?! That was how he was. I saved him, pulled him from the car and used every skill I ever learned being a Red cross lifeguard to try and keep him still. I saw the shock he was in, I remember all the crazy things he was screaming. ("Let's walk home, this can't be happening, the baby, the baby!") He remembers nothing. I mean it was a sickeningly awful Law & Order SVU first scene on the show type of deal.. that's the only way I can describe it. And that breaks my heart everyday. Bc I know how much he DIDN'T MEAN to do it, and how hurt he will always be. But I can't go into any detail of where/when/why/how anymore, I could literally land my husband in jail for life for saying the wrong thing. I just don't want you all to think he is a bad person bc of this all, haha bc I sure would be like wtf is wrong with those crazy ppl?!! Lol. He just got really unlucky and we ended up being in way over our little heads. He was going to be the best Daddy ever, was SO excited for Jaxon. And still is and will be for our next child. I just wish the law didn't work in such messed up ways.
I will say this though, it is all over me. Like the State is taking over since they think I should have pressed charges on him for my son since we were NOT married at the time (remember, he had a ring already at home.. just proposed in the ER after Jaxon was born. Thought it was a good time I guess since I had just saved his life.) That is why this all hurts my feelings, they are acting like no one stood up for Jaxon when in reality all we do is have aching hearts for him.