This'll be the month to remember, with BFPs in September!

[asmcsm]

one more thing before i get kicked off, haha. still in my terrible, this will never happen mood. OH is really reluctant to go do the SA which makes me even antsier. I know its going to take time with his diagnosis of varicocele but ugggh.

When is he going for SA again? Really hope his results come back good! FX for you!

Thank you! when ever he gets around to it. he has an order for it, so he just has to go in. I dont want to nag and force him to go..but id like to get the ball rolling! I was examining his ejaculate the other day (i caught some of it in my hand after sex last night, totally TMI) and it really didn't look like it erm..normally does. it was really thin, clear and watery. does the physical appearance mean anything?

I've been so bored without you ladies all day! I can't really talk about TTC'ing to my friends and SA's and CM surely aren't appropriate for FB! work has been super slow, too. gggrrr. stupid porn.

Could be low sperm count could also be fructose deficiency
https://voices.yahoo.com/treatment-watery-semen-7472190.html

 

[RobertRedford]

LOL "path is dry" been there

I am sorry your OH is being reluctant to get his SA done. My DH is pushing to get his done. He says that if he is the problem he wants to know right away so I don't have to keep going through all this tough TTC stuff for nothing. He sees how emotional and down I get every time I get a bfn and it kills him.

I wish that were the case. He sees how sad I get, but I don't know if he is really ready to face what the results may say. He is so used to being a nurse/ on the other side of it that he is truly a terrible patient.

 

[brunettebimbo]

Did you BD before? DON'T let me worry you!! I am sure all is fine

I always waited to put mine in so they had a head start.. So as long as they had a minute to be off, I'm sure spermies are fine. I just worried if girls were relying on them during the day or w/e after a BD since they would all just fall right into the cup like a period.

I can't remember to be honest. We definitely BD! I went straight to sleep afterwards so fingers crossed!

 

[NDTaber9211]

LOL "path is dry" been there

I am sorry your OH is being reluctant to get his SA done. My DH is pushing to get his done. He says that if he is the problem he wants to know right away so I don't have to keep going through all this tough TTC stuff for nothing. He sees how emotional and down I get every time I get a bfn and it kills him.

I wish that were the case. He sees how sad I get, but I don't know if he is really ready to face what the results may say. He is so used to being a nurse/ on the other side of it that he is truly a terrible patient.

I keep asking DH if he minds getting a SA because I do worry about his reaction if it is bad news. Isn't it very common for nurses and doctors to be terrible patients?

 

[morganwhite7]

BB- So you say you BD'd put Mooncup in and went to sleep? That sounds good to me

 

[RobertRedford]

Interesting, thanks Ashlee! OH works out a lot, too. Hmm. I neeeeeed him to have the SA done

 

[RobertRedford]

Yep, Nichole. Very common

 

[NDTaber9211]

I asked this before but the thread moves so fast I think it got lost. Should I do clomid days 5-9 like doctor said or do 3-7 like I see pretty much all other clomid ladies do?

 

[pdxmom]

Nichole i read tht a few pages ahead tht u said u wanted to take a break from ttc if this mth didnt work...on tht note u shud talk to your doc abt tht before making tht decision bcos u r on clomid...cloid takes a while to build into the system so if u just stop after 2 doses your body will probably go bak to wat it was very quickly and ull have to start all over again...i may b wrong tho...so make sure to discuss with your dr...BUT thts not gonna b the case bcos ur gonna get preggers b4 u start considering tht

 

[pdxmom]

I asked this before but the thread moves so fast I think it got lost. Should I do clomid days 5-9 like doctor said or do 3-7 like I see pretty much all other clomid ladies do?

I say go with 3-7 ... my opinion bcos it worked for me

 

[morganwhite7]

Amanda- So he says no to this week? Yeah I say explain to him how important it is to you (even though I'm sure you have a million times!!) and pull at his heart strings. Can you bring the cup in for him to eliminate the weirdness-factor?

Nichole- I randomly suggested Mirolee try the in-between (4-8) and she got preggo that cycle, just sayin!

 

[NDTaber9211]

I was considering the break. Well, sort of break. It would be a break from opks, temping, smep, etc. I would pretty much just pay attention to cm and bd when it gets ewcm. I am still not quite sure if that's what I want to do. I do need to lose weight really badly and ttc is screwing that up. I get too paranoid in the 2ww to really exercise right. I am also hoping that losing weight again will put my cycles back on track and I wouldn't need to use clomid anymore.

I was also thinking the in between 4-8 too. Now to just get the doc to send in my clomid refill.

 

[brunettebimbo]

BB- So you say you BD'd put Mooncup in and went to sleep? That sounds good to me

Yes I think so :

I'm feeling positive upto now. I've had constant cramps, fatigue, backache and sore boobs since O. I know it can be progesterone but my boobs are really sore and they weren't last month. Keeping my fingers crossed!

 

[RobertRedford]

Morgan, I'm pulling for him to go in this week. He works this week tho which means that he sleeps all day.

 

[morganwhite7]

Ohhh gotcha Amanda.. I can't imagine lol trust me my DH would be the same about that. It is a lot to ask of him. But he has to for a baby! Ugh boys are frustrating and stubborn sometimes!!!

 

[VivianJean]

VENTING

My stupid office-mate is chewing her disgusting gum like she is a cow today.

IT HASN'T STOPPED FOR ALMOST AN HOUR.

It is making me want to vomit in my trash bin. ...she had the audacity to give me sh!t yesterday about "playing music too loud" (ON MY IPOD!!!!!) ...

I'm so close to homicide I don't know what to do. Considering quitting. Not even kidding. Had a GREAT call with Highnoon Entertainment yesterday - they loved my resume and want to find a job for me....

AUGH

Ok, over and out.

 

[asmcsm]

VENTING

My stupid office-mate is chewing her disgusting gum like she is a cow today.

IT HASN'T STOPPED FOR ALMOST AN HOUR.

It is making me want to vomit in my trash bin. ...she had the audacity to give me sh!t yesterday about "playing music too loud" (ON MY IPOD!!!!!) ...

I'm so close to homicide I don't know what to do. Considering quitting. Not even kidding. Had a GREAT call with Highnoon Entertainment yesterday - they loved my resume and want to find a job for me....

AUGH

Ok, over and out.

I feel ya lady, every time some chews their gum like a cow chewing its cud I consider homicide, it's one of my biggest pet peeves...

 

[MrsAmk]

Vivian, I know how you feel...I want to quit all the time lol. What do you do?

 

[morganwhite7]

Amelia- My hope for you is just to get closer to DH, you guys need some more snuggle-time!!

P.s. I hate my coworker too, talk about her often on here. Let me complain now: She is going on and on about her "ghetto roots". No one in the office is even acknowledging her speaking. But she continues and is now talking about how her son Trey was named after a "Boyz n the hood" character. They are so white trash. They just had a baby girl (with a new Daddy...), & I covered her on maternity leave. Now she's back and never stops talking about how wonderful her child is and how much she hates ex-hubby while I sit one desk away, sulking everyday over how mine is dead. My boss has said things to her with no avail. Lol I'm sorry but she has 3 diff babydaddies and it is just NOT okay with me and everything she does/says bothers me.

 

[RobertRedford]

Lol I want to quit too! Gym chewing and chewing loudly in general drives me fucking batty, I can't stand it.

On my phone and its hard to keep up with you all!

AF was gone yesterday and now is back. Ugh.