TIE WELCOME JACK, HENRY, DEVON, ROXAS, PENELOPE, MATILDA, THEO and Charlotte!!

[mammag]

FML, my daughters pregnant!

Oh no!!! I'm sorry

 

[waiting2c]

Congrats Kayla!!!

Uh oh Nicole!! How old is your daughter?

 

[wanabeamama]

Wow Kayla so lucky to get one of each congratulations

Nicole

 

[Grumblebea]

She's 19 and will be just shy of 20 when she gives birth. She is in no place to have a baby. I just got her back on our health insurance on Friday but she was already pregnant so I'm sure they won't cover it. She is living at my moms who lives less than a mile away. She ran off to NJ with her 17 YO BF (who now is back in south Florida). She doesn't know what she wants to do. She has an appointment tomorrow for counseling. This is just so bad. She's either going to have a baby she's not ready to take care of or abort and possibly regret it the rest of her life

 

[Grumblebea]

Sorry Kayla, I didn't mean to poop on your party I just can't talk with anyone else about this right now, so you girls are it. Congrats Kayla, I thought girl from day 1.

 

[dachsundmom]

God Nicole, this is shit!

Could your DD get into any trouble bc the BF is 17?

 

[wanabeamama]

Sorry Kayla, I didn't mean to poop on your party I just can't talk with anyone else about this right now, so you girls are it. Congrats Kayla, I thought girl from day 1.

Oh no what an awful situation to be in

 

[Grumblebea]

No statutory rape is under 16 in most states, Florida included. He will be 18 in October and she 20 in November.

 

[mammag]

I was 18 when I got pregnant with Aiden, I thought about abortion, I seriously considered adoption, I never considered keeping him for a moment until I almost lost him at 26 weeks. Now I thank god every single time I look at him that he's mine. Things can work out for the best. And, I hear grandbabies are the best part of having kids. So, while it hurts now, this could wind up being a good thing. But I know it doesn't seem that way now

 

[wanabeamama]

Sorry Kayla, I didn't mean to poop on your party I just can't talk with anyone else about this right now, so you girls are it. Congrats Kayla, I thought girl from day 1.

Oh no what an awful situation to be in

Sorry I just read that back it sounds awful I meant having to make such a big decision at that young age

 

[Jess19]

Congrats kayla!!
Do you have any names picked out?

Nicole

 

[Grumblebea]

I was 16 when I got pregnant with my oldest son and 20 when I got pregnant with her. I personally dont believe in abortion for myself but im not going to push my views on her, she needs to think about whats best for her, not what i or her dad or her bf wants.
I graduated from college with high honors and have a VERY NICE life but it was soooooo f'ing hard! I struggled so much working 2 jobs, going to school, having 2 kids and being single. I plain sucked but I'm strong and determined. She however is a very young 19 yo and is very confused. She came over this afternoon and I gave her my pregnancy bible from the Mayo clinic. Also she is 10-11 weeks...holy hell! She's got a lot of thinking to do and she better do it quick!

 

[honeysuede]

Hi Ladies
Kayla - congrats!!!

Nicole - I am so sorry you are going through this worry, what a very hard position for you and your daughter to be in My thoughts are with you.

I am ok, more family dramas lately but me & Jack are doing great, he is doing something new everyday & it's so lovely to watch
xxx

 

[Grumblebea]

Oh thank God, she IS covered!!! Huge relief it still is awful but that's one less worry for all.

 

[MrsStutler]

Oh Nicole, I can't even imagine being in that position. I think what you are doing is the best for her. Just be there and help how you can, like with the insurance (so happy she's covered!). I'll be praying for the best outcome possible for you all!

Well, I think both Kenny and I are over our initial disappointment of having a girl and now we are both super excited. I was terrified of having two anyways and now I'm doubly terrified to have a girl. My mother and I have a very rocky relationship, and I have a feeling some of my issues stem from that terrible relationship. I really don't want that for my daughter. I'm getting excited for all the pink and girly things! I go off on daydreams quite frequently Anyways, here are a couple of the pictures of Lucy we got from the ultrasound.

 

[Jess19]

Aww what wonderful pics!
I love the name lucy
I totally can put myself in your shoes right now (besides having 2 little ones in such close age) but more about the terror of having a girl. My mom lerft us when I was 11, she moved to erie pa and we were left with my dad, at the most critical time that a girl needs her mother. I had to go to my dad when I started my period (talk about uncomfortable!) And then the whole boys phase was weird to
I moved to erie a few years later but by then I resented my mom for leaving and we weren't that close. We are a lot closer now, I had a breakdown when I found out I was having a girl and I called my mom crying and expressing all my resentment and fears and worries. I told her how much her leaving hurt me and possibly screwed me up and how it rolls into me being scared of raising my own daughter.
Now thrat Charlotte is here I know it will never be like that with us. I vowed it to myself to never do that to her and to always be there for her.

Your going to LOVE having a little girl!!! and all the cloths for girls are so freaking adorable!!!
You can teach her all your baking skills!

Still to this day I can't fathom how my mom could leave behind 3 children, it blows my mind!!!

 

[Grumblebea]

Very cute pics Kayla. What does your mom have to say about it now Jess?

 

[Jess19]

Not much really. She said sorry a lot but that's about it. She blamed a lot on my dad but that's just childish to me
She left him and had a boyfriend in no time. She had many before she moved away and still to this day has had many (married again but it didn't even last a year) she's very much acts 25 but is 50.
Most all my friends have moms that will take their kids and love to spend time with their grand children but not my mom, her weekends consist of going out and having fun at the bar.
And then she bitches that seh never sees her grand kids.
I've learned how to deal with it over the years and I'm just numb to the entire situation.

 

[MrsStutler]

Wow, thanks Jess. I can't imagine ever leaving my family like that! Sounds like she still has growing up to do.

I think a lot of my moms problems are mental, and I'm positive I inherited my mood disorder from her (another HUGE fear!!). Her becoming disabled and unable to care for me when I was younger took a huge toll on our relationship. She had a massive heart attack at 42 and has an autoimmune disease on top of it (it attacks muscle so the two are probably related). She couldn't do the fun "mom" stuff with me like going to the park, or watching me in school functions and she really beat herself up for it. I kind of resented her for not being there for me, even though I know most of it is not her fault. The way she reacted to her disease was what really damaged the bond between us. She became very depressed and I had to take up the slack of caring for my elderly grandmother who lived with us, cleaning, cooking and doing laundry. My dad tried to help but he had to work a ton just to keep food on the table and the lights on. I feel like that's probably why I act a lot older than my numerical age, I was kind of forced to grow up really fast. Might also explain my insane obsession with Disney She was also extremely possessive of me. I was her miracle baby so I understand but I was always being smothered by her. When I got married she would call two or three times a day! DH hated it. The worst part is I spend most of my time trying to just keep her happy and out of a depression/not angry at me. I'm a psychologists dream. Lol

 

[wanabeamama]

Anyone know anything about a drug called Omeprazole it's for acid reflux and I'm not sure if its ok to use with the ivf my GP gave it to me on prescription