Me too. I'm thinking of adding a no-contact order on top of that depending when he gets out of jail. If it's going to be before I can hide her I will be doing that. It's all a little frustrating to go through again, but if it works out I won't have to do this again. He still hasn't cancelled FRO, so they're still running up his tab for child support. (I can't cancel it for him - he has to call - and he hasn't.) So basically, until he cancels he will owe me more and more when he comes out. So as soon as he gets out FRO would take half of his money anyways, (unless someone has adopted her by then, basically) So, not much I can do on my end. I did try to call to let them know, at least, but it's not my place to suspend it for him lol. I thought that was strange! I am going to the courthouse with Jen (the youngest mom) - she doesn't want to face him alone after everything and well I don't want to let her. She's so tiny and young and ugh. So, I'm going to drive down and go with her. I'd rather him outnumbered than trying to intimidate her. It scares the crap out of me, and kind of puts a target on me. But she's going to be alone if the other moms don't step in.