Trying before AF?

[flapjack10]

GL Twister!

xxx

 

[Little J]

good luck twister! Hope there is an eggy ready to pop!

 

[nevergivingup]

Oh Bailey sounds like you had a rough time with it all hun, i do agree with you though, women are a lot more understanding! When i was MCing and i was crying my OH said to me (wait for it!!) 'oh im so sorry love, you ok? just be grateful the baby werent still born like my friends baby' i just glared at him and said 'WTF?! i dont care about anyone else right now its happening to me!!' haha he soon shut up and gave me a hug and i think he realised what he said....oh and OH mother said Saturday in my BBQ 'she worried so much im sure she brought it on herself'......................Thanks!!! argh!!

Cathgibbs, i thought my Dh and his mom was the only insensitive ones. My Dh didnt say anything, after i got home from my D&C he hopped on the playstation that i bought him, didnt try to make me feel better or nothing and then when i tried to wash my dishes, he yelled at me and told me to sit down, like he was being caring. But he found me broke down crying in the shower he got me out dried me and dress me and rocked me to sleep. Finally my caring Husband. on the other hand my MIL(mother in law) said she was happy for the outcome bc it was probaly something i couldntve handled if the baby had came out abnormal..(im like really lady) and then she go on and tell me about her still birth and that i should wait 2 years before i TTC again like she did ,bc im in school and my husband work over the road. After that convo, i wouldnt take her advice if she was to tell me that im on fire and i really was!!

 

[baileybubs]

Twister - wish I'd managed to reply earlier, yes they can definatley see if your ovaries are gearing up to ovulate coz they told me that my right one was preparing to at my last follow up scan!! And I had been having O pains too but unfortunately I didn't actually O until 3 weeks later. So I guess even if we get O pains it doesn't necessarily mean we have actually released an egg. Hope it all went ok and all is clear now xxxx

 

[twister7]

Howdie peeps...

Well went for my folllow up scan today to check that everything had gone ect, and all was going to plan got laid down and all that and then I had the scare of my life the sonographer was looking all puzzled and worried and then she said " I'm sorry its very bad news" WELL I thought my womb had eveperated or something she then went on to say how the pregnancy was no longer there, Ermmmmmmmmmmmmm I know I have been trying to come to terms with that for the past 3 weeks lol...
"ooops I did not read my notes correctly" enough said silly woman proper made me worry for a minuite....

Anyway there is a little bit of blood left but not enough for concern and they have discharged me now, midwife there told me that I can not get pregnant untill everything is totally out, even though I dont have any HCG left in my system, is that right?

xxxxxx

 

[cathgibbs]

Awwww so sorry hun they really need to check the bloody notes,your midwife is correct I'm afraid. Have they given you any antibiotics xxx

 

[Koukla]

Hi ladies, I am new to this group as of today. I m/c our second child on May 27 at 5W 4D. I began bleeding on Thursday, 05/24, lost the bean on Sunday 05/27, and stopped bleeding yesterday, 05/31. So I had a week to enjoy my pregnancy and then a week to lose it.

Anyway, I asked DH if he wanted to try again, and when. He said yes, and whenever I am ready. While we are both heartbroken at the loss of our bean, I don't want to wait- as horrible as this sounds, it seems losing this one has made it almost imparative I get pregnant again ASAP... not to replace our lost one (nothing can ever do that) but to help me heal. Is that normal?

What's confusing me is my cycles were regular, 28 days (we conceived the m/c bean my first cycle off BCP), so if I hadn't conceived in May AF would have come 05/16. Now she would be due 06/13. So do I still consider 05/16 as CD1, or the day I began bleeding? The day I actually lost the baby? Is it even possible to O so soon after M/C?

I used strip OPKs last night and today- faint lines on both, FWIW. I will be taking a HPT tomorrow morning to see if the HCG is out of my system. I'm also having some EWCM, and my cervix is high, soft, and open today. Of course, I haven't been temping b/c I didn't see the point right now. Any thoughts?

 

[twister7]

Awwww so sorry hun they really need to check the bloody notes,your midwife is correct I'm afraid. Have they given you any antibiotics xxx

No just said it would spot out or my body would absorb it...

 

[twister7]

Welcome Koukla, sorry for your loss.. xx

 

[baileybubs]

Welcome koukla,

Its definatley normal to want to be pg again so soon. I still feel like that and it's been 2 and a half months now, the feeling has gotten less urgent but it's still what I want. As long as you feel physically ready and you think you could handle the possibility of another mc so soon then go for it. This was my first pregnancy, and the way I am looking at it is that I would rather ttc again now coz if I am going to mc again, due to a problem that can be fixed I would rather get in with it and find out that problem, than wait 6 months and it happen again. I think I'd be more devastated if I waited 6 months to ttc and have problems conceiving or mc again. It all depends how you feel.
It is possible to O quite soon after mc, but it's also possible it will be delayed. I only just got AF back after my mc in March but I was almost 13 weeks so that could be why mine tool so long.

 

[flapjack10]

Oh Bailey sounds like you had a rough time with it all hun, i do agree with you though, women are a lot more understanding! When i was MCing and i was crying my OH said to me (wait for it!!) 'oh im so sorry love, you ok? just be grateful the baby werent still born like my friends baby' i just glared at him and said 'WTF?! i dont care about anyone else right now its happening to me!!' haha he soon shut up and gave me a hug and i think he realised what he said....oh and OH mother said Saturday in my BBQ 'she worried so much im sure she brought it on herself'......................Thanks!!! argh!!

Cathgibbs, i thought my Dh and his mom was the only insensitive ones. My Dh didnt say anything, after i got home from my D&C he hopped on the playstation that i bought him, didnt try to make me feel better or nothing and then when i tried to wash my dishes, he yelled at me and told me to sit down, like he was being caring. But he found me broke down crying in the shower he got me out dried me and dress me and rocked me to sleep. Finally my caring Husband. on the other hand my MIL(mother in law) said she was happy for the outcome bc it was probaly something i couldntve handled if the baby had came out abnormal..(im like really lady) and then she go on and tell me about her still birth and that i should wait 2 years before i TTC again like she did ,bc im in school and my husband work over the road. After that convo, i wouldnt take her advice if she was to tell me that im on fire and i really was!!

Urrrgh this steams my moustache!

Welcome Koukla! :wave: sorry for your loss. I agree with baileybubs that's exactly how I felt after MCing too. It took me 43 days to get my AF after the MC and I was nearly 5wks along. It's a frustrating time, but we're here if you need to rant, cry or have a giggle.
I counted the first day of bleeding as CD1. GL with getting your sticky one.


Xxx

 

[jaggers]

Hey friends, Anyone see a (second) line or is this another crappy "blank" test??? I think I see a start. I'm only 8dpo.
https://i196.photobucket.com/albums/aa138/wcs40110/IMAG0064-2.jpg

 

[twister7]

If I'm honest I cant see anything there jaggers, but thats just probably the picture, if you see a line even if its fain then it's a start, fingers crossed for ya lovely xx

 

[baileybubs]

Same here hun, I keep thinking I can see one but I think I've got line-eye from staring at hpts for too long!!! But as twister said it could be the picture and if you see one then that's good, and 8dpo is still really early!! Wait a few more days and test again and I bet we'll be able to see the line! Xxxxx

 

[flapjack10]

Hey hun! I'm not sure - I'm the same as bailey - major line eye, but I think
see something at the bottom of the test!

GL darling xxx

 

[Babee_Bugs]

Hey ladies...

Well we have been trying, but I think it's a failed attempt

It's been 5 weeks and 2 days (CD38)... And today I eventually got my BFN, since testing positive for 5 weeks, but has felt like forever. I just want to get back to normal

I thought I ovulated on CD23, but that can't of been true though, unless my luteal phase has drastically changed? Is that possible! Has anyone noticed they LP changing...

My chart is thinking I'm 3DPO... But I all I've noticed Is cramps on my rightside, CM has been creamy/sticky and cervix been high closed and firm. Sooo It can't be right

 

[twister7]

Just a quickie, did anyone ache a lot after their mc, I have been, really bad all over which seems strange even my legs and knees, just curious if anyone else suffered this?
xxx

 

[flapjack10]

Hmmm...I was really run down so that didn't help and I felt really achey and tired.

Did they say how you'd feel at the scan?

Hope you feel better

xxx

Hope you're ok too Babee

 

[nevergivingup]

Yea i totally felt achey after mc but im thinking the mc wasnt fully over considering the pains in my body. i had to take aleve but then again it was my cycle coming on. Who knows...mc really sucks. Now after my AF finally came, she only stayed for about 4 heavy days then went light and now its looks like aftermath, like she wanna go away but enjoy driving me crazy, when i almost think its ok to TTC now she shows back up and SPOT ME...ughh im seriously going crazy now or almost there.

 

[jaggers]

I hurt a lot, and was so tired I didnt want to move! I took another test, looks like bfp! What is that, 2 bfp before af?