Trying before AF?

[xxemmyxx]

Twister I am rubbish with opk's every opk I have ever done looks like yours and never gets darker!? I don't think they work for me!

Flapjack your so right, I feel so lucky to know that I can get pregnant cus I have seen my BFP before, feel like that's one hurdle I have overcome at least.

I have got brown spotting again today, I have never had this before I don't know what it is any ideas?

 

[twister7]

Would ringing your local EPU be worth a try? When I MC they told me I could ring them and go in for a scan at 7 weeks, should I fall pregnant again. Mind you I think they sometimes say things and then they don't happen. You will probably be told you need a referal from your GP but might be worth a shot though...
My doctors were pretty useless all the way through it all really, I never even saw a midwife apart from the EPU staff....

So much easy said than done, but try and relax and not stress xxxx

 

[mrs_swj2be]

when i was at the hospital last week and they said that it is considered normal i was so angry how can it be normal.

but they nurse at the early pregnancy asesment unit also told me that if we get pregnant again and need any help just to ring them direct and not to worry about ringing the drs or midwifes.

so maybe worth givving your local hospital a call and explaining to them as they might book you in anyway.

 

[flapjack10]

I know! When you get sex ed in school they don't turn around and say, "Buteven if you do get pg, you've got a 10-20% chance of miscarrying." But then as soon as you've had a miscarriage, every health practitioner reels off this fact like it's nothing!

I think I need to relax and just let nature take its course...

I hope this bean is sticky though! The doc did say the midwives might refer me for an early scan if I'm still concerned.

xxx

 

[xxemmyxx]

My early pregnancy unit also told me to call them directly and they will give me a scan at 7 weeks but will se me before if I have any concerns at all, they are so good at the early units so understanding, to be fair my GP was great too, I wud keep pushing it, it makes no sense does it, I know early miscarriages are common and we all may go on to have a healthy pregnancy with no intervention but why would they let someone go through this 3 times when sometimes it can be solved with a simple progesterone tablet or something like that!?


Anyone had brown spotting?? I get so stressed over the slightest thing lol but I have never had anything like this before, it's only a little but it's thick and light brown

 

[flapjack10]

I normally have brown spotting just before AF gets here?

xxx

 

[Storm7]

Flapjack

They are gits. I was told two before early scan. Do you know where your early pregnancy unit is? You could just call them

 

[twister7]

Anyone had brown spotting?? I get so stressed over the slightest thing lol but I have never had anything like this before, it's only a little but it's thick and light brown

Where are you in your cycle emmy?

 

[CherylC3]

Aw flapjack call epu I've to call them when I'm pg to arrange my 7 wk scan. Cx

My bbs are Killing me, I've got white spotty bumpy nips always an early sign for me, greasy face spotty, got a headache but it's way too early at 3dpo for symtoms lol... Just have to wait it out 11 days to test

 

[twister7]

Aw flapjack call epu I've to call them when I'm pg to arrange my 7 wk scan. Cx

My bbs are Killing me, I've got white spotty bumpy nips always an early sign for me, greasy face spotty, got a headache but it's way too early at 3dpo for symtoms lol... Just have to wait it out 11 days to test

For about the last 6 cycles before I got pregnant I kept getting really sore boobs after O'ing, then the month I did get pregnant did not get them at all and at the time thought that I had not even O'ed.

I swear there are little men ( must be men because they mess with your mind) in our body's that have buttons to push to imitate symptoms, then they just sit there laughing at us lol...
Yeah I know BONKERS.....i

 

[CherylC3]

Yeah there defo is lol... It's funny since ttc I constantly grope my breats, study toilet roll, look at my knickers for cm, analyse how often i fart and pee on bloody sticks... I swear il be in a loony bin by the time I get my rainbow lol..xx

 

[xxemmyxx]

I'm cd30 I think, had no period since miscarriage so this could be it, but I have never had brown spotting before, I suppose anything could happen now though my body is crazy! I have no other AF symptoms though...

I too shall be in the loony in by the end of all this, I spend all day researching things that happen to my body now, every little tweak and spot lol

 

[Storm7]

Studying toilet roll is minging and yet I do it all the time... Had implantation spotting with my three previous BFPs and so that is my first choice symptom to look for...

 

[Storm7]

Emmy - Could also be implantation or ovulation spotting - you never know what your body is doing for certain after mc

 

[xxemmyxx]

Emmy - Could also be implantation or ovulation spotting - you never know what your body is doing for certain after mc

I would prefer this to an AF all day long! Will have to wait and see! It's just funny cus since I was 14 I have had exactly the same period and symptoms every month and know what to expect, now all kinds of crap comes out, it's a new surprise everyday!

 

[mrs_swj2be]

emmy i was going to say the same it could be implantation spotting or bleeding. i had it with my BFP my gp said it is only brown because it is old not fresh so i wouldnt worry to much but if you are concerned speak to a gp.

 

[twister7]

Well I'm gonna stick my neck out here Emmy and say........... It could be anything lol. Sorry hun like others have said your body is not quite your own I don't think for a while after a MC, so expect the unexpected. Fingers crossed for implantation spotting though..

 

[xxemmyxx]

Thank you for your opinions ladies! Shall wait and see and stare at toilet paper and google implantation bleeding till I get a definitive answer

 

[Storm7]

Thank you for your opinions ladies! Shall wait and see and stare at toilet paper and google implantation bleeding till I get a definitive answer

Love this!

 

[baileybubs]

Hi ladies!!

Flapjack I agree with the others, call your EPAU and see if they will give you an early scan, just tell them you are worried sick and scared that your worrying could make matters worse!! Then if you get a scan and everything looks normal you can be at ease, and if they notice any issues they might then run some tests and catch a problem before it becomes one!

Storm - any signs of inplantation yet?? FX'd you did O and caught that eggy!!

Emmy - not sure what the spotting is hun, I got spotting for a while after my mc but mine was complicated. FX'd it was inplantation spotting though!!!

Twister - I'd say it's definately getting towards positive, get bd'ing (when oh gets home of course!!)

Cheryl - keep analysing them boobs, and toilet paper etc, it doesn't make you crazy coz we all do it, I was even asking oh last night if my nipples looked bigger/darker etc......my response was a shoulder shrug and a mumble that I think was "i dunno"

AFM - had a nightmare of a time last night (sorry Cheryl you get to read this twice as we are on 2 thread together lol) but I woke up at 2am with severe AF cramps, that caused me to have severe diarrhoea. I sometimes get diarrhoea with AF when the cramps are bad, and it felt like that but worse! Definately wasn't IBS related or just normal diarrhoea it was definate AF type pains. Took some paracetamol and after half and hour all was gone and I went back to sleep. I was worried that maybe the egg had been fertilised but failed to implant and that was what the cramps were last night. Starting to think I'm out now, but will have to just wait and see. Hoping I can wait to test til Tuesday, but as I've got 4 Frers and 2 digis I might cave by Saturday.